Pali nthano zazikulu zomwe zimagwirizanitsidwa ndi chiopsezo choyamba cha kugonana, ndiko kuti, ndi kutayika kwa namwali . Anawafotokozera momveka bwino anthu omwe samvetsa nkhaniyi konse.
1. Ndi msinkhu, makulidwe a hymen akuchulukira, kutanthauza kuti kutha kwa umaliseche kudzakhala limodzi ndi ululu waukulu.
Izi siziri zoona, chifukwa makulidwe, kukula ndi kuchuluka kwa azimayi kwa mtsikana aliyense ndiyekha. Kotero, khulupirirani nthano iyi sizothandiza.
2. Mungayambe kugonana kuyambira zaka 14 mpaka 15.
Mankhwalawa amagwira ntchito ngati chotchinga pakati pa ziwalo zoberekera ndi chilengedwe. Izi zikutanthauza kuti zimalepheretsa kulowa m'matumbo osiyanasiyana mkati mwa ziwalo zogonana, mpaka pangopangidwe tizilombo toyambitsa matenda omwe angateteze thupi lachikazi. Kufikira zaka khumi ndi zisanu ndi zisanu ndi zitatu (18), sikuvomerezeka kugonana, chifukwa panthawi yogonana amatha kusokonezeka chifukwa cha epithelium yochepa. Kuwonongeka koteroko kungathandize kuti kutuluka kwa mitundu yosiyanasiyana yotupa, komanso infertility .
3. Kumayambiriro kwa nthawi yogonana kumakhala kovulaza thanzi.
Atsikana ambiri amakhulupirira kuti ziphuphu pamaso pake zimawonekera chifukwa chakuti adakali namwali, koma siziri choncho. Zolakwa zonse za mahomoni, zomwe sizigwirizana ndi kukhalapo kwa anthu. Kawirikawiri, maonekedwe a ziphuphu ndi mutu zimakhudzidwa ndi matenda a maganizo.
4. Muyenera kupita kwa katswiri wamayi pamene mukuyamba kugonana.
Awa ndi malingaliro olakwika. Nthawi yoyamba yolankhulana ndi mayi wa amayi ndi kubwera zaka 7-8. Adotolo adzafufuza ndikuganiza za thanzi la mtsikanayo.
5. Kutuluka kwa hymen nthawi zonse kumaphatikizidwa ndi ululu ndi magazi.
Ngati chibwenzi chimachitika ndi munthu amene amakonda, ndipo mtsikanayo akusangalala kwambiri, maonekedwe a ululu amachepetsedwa. Ndipo phindu la magazi, chirichonse chimakhala chayekha ndipo chimadalira pa makulidwe a anthu ndi nambala ya mitsempha ya magazi mmenemo. Pali nthawi pamene nthawi yoyamba kugonana imatha kupwetekedwa kwa fodya, chifukwa chifukwa cha pulasitikiyo imangowamba.
6. Choyamba kugonana chiyenera kuchitika ndi munthu yemwe ali wamkulu komanso wodziwa zambiri.
Mwachidziwikire simungathe kunena, koma wokondedwa ndi bwino kuposa woyamba. Mbadwo wa munthu sulibe kanthu pa kugonana.
7. Umayi ndibwino kuti athake mu bafa.
Monga mukudziwira, madzi ofunda amachititsa kuti munthu azisangalala, amachepetsa nkhawa komanso amachepetsa ululu, koma izi sizikukhudza kugonana koyamba. Madzi amasuntha mafuta a chilengedwe, ndipo izi zimalepheretsa kulowa mkati.
8. Pa nthawi yoyamba, ndibwino kuti musagwiritse ntchito kondomu.
Kupanga kondomu zamakono zimagwiritsa ntchito matekinoloje atsopano ndi mafuta apadera. Chifukwa cha ichi, mankhwala omaliza amakhala ofooka, ndipo mafuta omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito amagwiritsa ntchito makina opatsirana, kotero kuti kugonana koyambirira ndibwino kuti musasiye kondomu.
9. Pakati pa kugonana koyamba ndizosatheka kutenga pakati.
Atsikana omwe amakhulupirira nthano iyi, atatha kugonana amayamba kupeza kuti ali ndi pakati. Dzira lili wokonzeka kubereka, pamene mtsikanayo atembenuka zaka 11-12
Sikoyenera kukhulupirira nthano zilizonse zopangidwa ndi anthu opanda nzeru samvetsa chifukwa chake. Kuti mudziwe zambiri pa nkhaniyi, ndibwino kuti mukambirane ndi amayi anu kapena kupita kwa dokotala, ndipo simukuyenera kumvetsera abwenzi omwe amadziwa zambiri. Ngati mumakonda chibwenzi chanu ndipo zonse zimachitika ndi chilakolako chanu, ndipo mwakonzeka kuti mutengepo, ndiye kuti musachite mantha, koma khulupirirani thupi lanu ndi mnzanu.