Chifukwa cha kutha kwa unamwali, mantha ambiri ndi nthano zimagwirizanitsidwa, ambiri samagwiritsa ntchito ziphuphu, poopa imfa ya " chiyero ." Choncho, n'zosadabwitsa kuti atsikana nthawi zambiri amadzifunsa kuti, "Kodi mungadziwe bwanji kuti mwataya namwali, mumadziwa bwanji ngati ndine namwali?", Ndikudziwa kuti simukumva chisoni mukamagwiritsa ntchito chida kapena musagonepo poyamba. M'nkhani ino, tiyesa kuthetsa kukayikira ndikuyankha funso ngati n'zotheka kudziwa namwali ndi momwe mungadziwire ngati ndinu namwali kapena ayi.
Ndingadziwe bwanji ngati ndataya namwali?
Musanayambe kuthana ndi vutoli, m'pofunikanso kupeza chifukwa chake funsoli linayambira, "Ndingadziwe bwanji namwali?" Ndipo n'chifukwa chiyani chidziwitso choterechi chinkafunika? Pano mungathe kulingalira njira zingapo, chifukwa cha chidwi chomwecho:
- kugonana koyamba, pamene palibe "nkhani zoopsya" zomwe zimawopa achikulire achibale (kuvutika koopsa, kutuluka mwazi);
- mantha omwe anthuwa awonongeka panthaŵi ya maliseche kapena chifukwa cha kugwiritsidwa ntchito kwazitali kuposa momwe akufunira.
Ngati mukukayikira kuti ndinu namwali chifukwa cha kusoŵa kwa ululu ndi magazi pamene mukugonana koyamba, ndi bwino kudziwa kuti kugonana koyamba sikumakhala pamodzi ndi maganizo osangalatsa kwa mtsikanayo. Muzinthu zina, mankhwalawa ndi otsika kwambiri kotero kuti kutayika kwathunthu kumangobwera pokhapokha panthawi yobereka, ndipo mpaka pomwepo ndikutambasula. Ziyeneranso kuganiziridwa kuti palinso kupezeka kwachibadwa kwa anthu, kapena kungakhale kosalephereka kotero kuti ingathe kuzindikiridwa ndi amayi okhaokha. Koma palinso chinthu china choopsa kwambiri - hymen kwambiri. Pachifukwa ichi, kusiyana kwake sikuchitika nthawi yoyamba, motero msungwanayo ndi omwe akugonana nawo amatha kukhala ndi zowawa. Ngati izi zichitika, ndi bwino kulankhulana ndi mayi wazachipatala kuti awonongeke, chifukwa kuyesera kubwezera chiwombankhanga kungachititse kuti phungu liwonongeke.
Atsikana ambiri amaopa kugwiritsira ntchito timamponi, poganiza kuti n'zotheka kuwadula. Kawirikawiri izi sizingatheke, anthuwa amakhala ndi chitseko choyamba kusamba. Ndipo ngati mumagwiritsa ntchito makampu akuluakulu, palibe chomwe chikuchitika ndi anthu. Komanso, ngakhale kukula sikusankhidwe bwino, msungwana aliyense amene akumva ululu sakhala achangu ndi mawu oyamba.
Tsopano ponena za maliseche. Inde, apa anthu akhoza kuonongeka, koma ngati mutagwiritsa ntchito dildo (zinthu zina) kuti alowe mkati. Kungokumangitsani clitoris mwanjira iliyonse, anthu sangathe kuvulazidwa.
Ngati atatha kufotokozera apo pakadalibe kukayikira za kutha kwa umaliseche, ndiye kofunikira kugwiritsa ntchito