Posachedwapa, amayi akhala akuyamba kukambirana za kugonana, kufunafuna njira zosiyanasiyana kuti akondwere nazo, koma si onse omwe angathe. Mosiyana ndi chiwombankhanga, anorgasmia ndi wamba. Koma pamene izo zikutembenukira, inu mukhoza kuphunzira kuti muwone zolaula, chinthu chachikulu ndicho kuthetsa vuto ili, ndipo osati mwakachetechete kuti mupeze vuto lanu. Komanso, nthawi zambiri vuto silinayambe pazinthu za thupi, ndiko kuti mungathe kulimbana ndi kusintha maganizo anu kumoyo.
Kodi mungaphunzire bwanji kuti mumvetsere?
- Amayi ambiri amalephera kukondwera chifukwa chakuti sakudziwa momwe angachitire. Kwa mwamuna izi sizikugwira ntchito ndipo amayi akuganiza kuti sangathe kusangalala, akuiwala za njira yabwino kwambiri yodziwira mfundo zawo zovuta - maliseche .
- Onetsetsani kuti mumauza mwamuna wanu momwe angakuthandizireni kuti mukhale ndi ziphuphu zolimba. Ngati mumakondwera ndi zovuta zachiwerewere zakugonana, palibe chokhumudwitsa pa izi, kwa wina aliyense. Koma ngati wokondedwayo akukana kuchita izi, kunena za kusalongosoka, nkoyenera kutembenukira kuchipatala, mwinamwake chifukwa cha kuledzeretsa kwakukulu ndi kusokonezeka maganizo.
- Nthawi zina mavuto samabweretsa chisangalalo cha kugonana, koma ndi mitundu ina. Kufulumira kukumana ndi msinkhu wamamwali ngakhale namwali amadziwa, zedi, zosangalatsa zoterezi ndizo zomwe zimawoneka bwino ndipo nthawi zambiri sizimayambitsa mavuto. Koma mimba yamaliseche nthawi zambiri imakhala yosafikika, nthawi zina ndi zotsatira za makhalidwe, choncho mtundu uwu wokondweretsa amayi ambiri amapeza pokhapokha atabereka. Koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti simukusowa kuyang'ana mfundo G ndi njira zina zopezera izo musanapeze ana.
- Funso la momwe mungayesere chiwonetsero ndiloyenera kukhala lingaliro lothandizira, chifukwa chisangalalo cha mkazi chimadalira pa zinthu zambiri zomwe nthawi zambiri zimanyalanyazidwa. Mwachitsanzo, amuna ambiri amangodandaula za kufunikira kwa foreplay, ndipo pachabe - popanda, amayi ambiri sangathe kumasuka, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti sangasangalale ndi kugonana. Choncho samalani pazinthu zazing'ono zimene mukufuna kuti mumve bwino.
- Nthawi zina kusadziwa kwa amayi, momwe angachitire zovuta, kumawaponyera kutali ndi kugonana ndi wokondedwa kapena pazokha. Simungalole izi, chifukwa popanda kuchita ndi kuthetsa vuto simungathe kulipeza.
Izi zimachitika kuti mayi wovuta amafika pochita zachiwerewere (kapena sangathe konse) ndi munthu wina, koma yekha ndi iye zonse ziri bwino. Chodabwitsa kwambiri, zimamveka kwa anthu amasiku amodzi, samaphunzira kukhala ndi chilakolako chifukwa samakonda wokondedwa wawo. Ndipo ngati palibe kugwirizana, zimakhala zovuta kuti mutsegule, ndicho chifukwa chosatheka kukwaniritsa zosangalatsa.