Imodzi mwa mahomoni ofunikira kwambiri omwe amapangidwa m'thupi nthawi yogonana ndi adrenaline. Ndipo ndi chiyani chomwe adrenaline chingakhale, pamene wokondedwa adaphunzira kale ndi kudutsa, ndikudziwiratu, monga nyengo yammawa usiku wa nyenyezi? Ndi pamene timayamba kudziyesera tokha masikiti a anthu ena, zomwe zimayambitsa masewero ogonana.
Kugonana pakati pa kugonana ndi mtundu wa machitidwe omwe amachitira awiri ndi awiri pa mphindi yakugona. Machitidwe opindulitsa kwambiri amapezeka pamene abambo, kuphatikizapo, amagwiritsa ntchito zovala zosangalatsa kuti azisewera masewero.
Ngati inu, kuti muwukitse mwa munthu wokondedwa wanu momwe mumamvera kale mumasankha kugwiritsa ntchito masewero ogonana, nthawi zonse mumasowa mfundo zofunika. Chikondi ndi chinthu chosakhwima, ndipo ngati mutachichita molakwika komanso mosasamala, mukhoza kuwononga kwambiri ubwenzi ndi nthaka.
Masewera olimbitsa thupi - kukonzekera ndi kukhazikitsa
1. Monga mukudziwa, tiyenera kufufuza nthaka. Pano inu bwino ndikudziwa momwe mungachitire. Azimayi ena amapereka izi kwa mwamunayo, ndikuyang'anitsitsa zomwe akuchita.
Amuna ambiri - ngakhale ndizodabwitsa - samavomereza maseŵera ochita masewero olimbana ndi kugonana makamaka ndi mkazi wawo wokondedwa. Amakhulupirira kuti mayi wamtsogolo wa ana ake sayenera kuchita mwanjira imeneyi. Akazi okondedwa, samalani! Panali zochitika pamene kusiyana pakati pa malingaliro pa izi kunali pamzu wa kusiyana kochepa. Momwemonso amuna amawongolera - kwa iwo amai ayenera kukhala osadziwika komanso oyeretsa bwino, ndipo si onse omwe angamvetsetse kuti masewero a kugonana sangasokoneze izi.
Ngati mumadziwa bwino kuti mwamuna wanu sakulimbana ndi zoterezi, mungathe kumuuza momveka bwino. Ngati, ndithudi, muli ndi kulimba mtima! Muthandizeni "mwangozi" mu shopu la kugonana ndipo, mwachisawawa, akugwetsani kuti mwakhala wokondwa kwambiri kuti muzimva ngati wophunzitsidwa mwakhama kapena wophunzira wosamvera (izi ziri pafupi kwambiri ndi wina). Pambuyo pozindikira mtima wa munthu wanu, mukhoza kupita ku gawo lachiwiri.2. Kusankha maudindo awiriwa. Zochitika za maseŵero ogonana ndizosiyana kwambiri. Tidzakambirana malingaliro ambiri omwe, nthawi zina, mutha kupeza zovala zodzikongoletsera masewero owonetsera.
- namwino komanso woleza mtima. O, ndi amuna angati omwe akulota kukhala opanda thandizo, okondwa ndi kunyengedwa ndi namwino wamkulu!
- mtsogoleri ndi mlembi. Pakhoza kukhala chimodzi kapena china chotsogolera. Mtsogoleri wina yemwe adadziitanira yekha "mlembi wolakwa" kapena mlembi yemwe, ngakhale kuti amaletsa, amanyenga bwana wake m'njira iliyonse;
- mphunzitsi ndi wophunzira wosamvera. Kubwerera kusukulu, koma wamkulu! Mphunzitsi amasankha njira yapachiyambi yophunzitsira wophunzira wosamvera, khalidwe lake limadalira mtundu wa mkaziyo. Iye akhoza kutetezedwa mwanjira iliyonse, ndipo akhoza kutengeka yekha;
- wokwatira komanso wogwidwa. Apanso, ndi ndani wa inu amene angakwatirane naye, ndipo ndani amene akukuvutani - zili kwa inu! Ndani ananena kuti mkazi samatero
kodi zingamuvutitse munthu yemwe ali ndi mapiritsi ogona, amumangirire iye ku kama ndipo amamulimbikitsa? Ndipo iye, wosauka, adzatsutsidwa kwambiri. Ngakhale zambiri kuti zigonjetsedwe pabedi, akazi amamanga mofanana; - anthu olemba mbiri. Zonse zimadalira zomwe mumapeza mu sitolo yogonana pafupi ndi nyumba, komanso mtundu wa zojambulajambula zomwe mumaziona ngati mwana. White White ndi Little Red Riding Hood zidzakupulumutsani!
Kawirikawiri, maseŵero owonetsera kugonana angakhale osiyana kwambiri. Chinthu chachikulu ndikukambirana nkhaniyi ndi mnzanuyo, ndikuyika mfundo zonse pamwambapa ndikuwatsimikizira motsutsana ndi zotsatira zovuta. Ndiyeno chirichonse chimadalira pa malingaliro anu!