Cardinally amasiyana ndi maganizo a anthu pa nkhani yogonana mu "kuyembekezera mwachidwi," koma chikhumbo chofuna kuchita nawo. Choncho, amuna ambiri akhoza kuyambitsa mitundu yatsopano ya zibwenzi, ndipo ena, mosiyana, amawopa mwanjira ina kuvulaza zofooka zawo ndi chiopsezo. Azimayi sangagwirizanane ndi lingaliro limodzi: amayi ena omwe ali ndi pakati amakhala ndi chilakolako chogonana choyambirira, chomwe chimatanthauzidwa ndi zoopsya zam'mimba m'thupi. Ena, mmalo mwake, amadzinyansidwa okha ndi matupi awo, kotero iwo safuna kuti "asanyoze" ndipo samadziwonetsera okha mwa mawonekedwe awa pamaso pa munthu.
Pafupifupi madokotala okhawo omwe amanena kuti ngati kugonana sikugwirizana ndi mwana, ndiye kuti ndibwino kwa mwanayo ndi mayi ake. Choyamba, chidzathetsa nkhawa ya mayi yemwe nthawi zonse amadandaula za nthawi yomwe ali ndi mimba ndi kubereka. Chachiwiri, mwana nthawi zonse amakhala wothandiza kwambiri pamene amayi ake ali ndi maganizo abwino, thupi lake limamupatsa chitetezo chabwino komanso chakudya.
Kawirikawiri, zomwe sizikutsutsana, ndi zothandiza. Pa izi ndikukhala pamodzi ndikupitiriza kusankha zochitika zogonana kwa mabanja omwe ali ndi pakati.
Woyamba katatu
Mu trimester yoyamba , zowonjezereka zokonda chikondi ndi amayi apakati sizisiyana ndi kugonana ndi mkazi wina aliyense. Moyo wapamtima wa banjali umapitirirabe kuyenda, ndipo kusokonezeka kungabwere pa nthawi ya kugonana kokha ngati mwamunayo akumva kuti alibe nkhawa pamaso pa mwana wake kuti atenge nawo mbali yochititsa manyaziyi. Ndiye ziyenera kufotokozedwa:
- m'mimba mwa mayi mwanayo akugona;
- kusuntha pa nthawi ya kugonana, mwanayo amadziwa mofanana ndi kuyenda mofulumira kwa amayi;
- mwanayo amatha kutetezedwa ndi ziwalo zogwirizana ndi mafuta, placenta, amniotic madzi, kotero n'zosatheka kumuvulaza kapena kumukhudza.
Wachiwiri ndi wachitatu trimester: maimidwe
Mimba imakula "ngati chiwombankhanga", ndipo tsopano maanja amalingalira zabwino kwa amayi apakati. Kuchokera ku malo amishonale ndikofunika kukana - kusasokonezeka pamimba sikuli kovulaza, koma ndithudi sikudzasangalatsa abwenzi.
Suit pose "Wokwera" - kotero, mkazi angathe, podziwa kwake, kuyang'ana kugonana ndi kuya kwa kulowa mkati. Koma kuti muteteze izo, chifukwa cha zomwe izi, palimodzi, ndi chikondi-kutsika kwakukulu kolowera, muyenera kusunthira mmwamba, ndi kumbuyo.
"Mtundu wa Dogs" ndibwino kwambiri kwa amayi apakati, chifukwa ali ndi udindo pa zonse zinayi, mkazi amatha kubwezeretsanso, amayi amtsogolo adzapumula kwambiri. Komabe, kulamulira kugonana m'manja mwa munthu, koma akhoza "kuyamba" ndi kuiwala za mimba. Pofuna kupewa vutoli komanso zowawa, kumbukirani munthuyo kuti tsopano ayenera kukhala wachifundo komanso wokonda kwambiri kuposa nthawi zonse.
"Supuni" - abwenzi onse awiri akugona kumbali zawo, ndipo apa, "zolemetsa" mkazi sangathe ngakhale kusuntha. Palibe zowonongeka pa malo awa, chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti mwamuna samakakamiza amayi mimba mwake ndi manja ake.
Kuwombera ndi kudulira - ndithudi, pamene mayi akuwombera, iyi ndiyo malo abwino kwambiri kwa mayi wapakati. Madokotala samawona zotsutsana ndi kugonana kwa m'kamwa , kupatulapo ngati mwayi wopatsirana ndi odwala, bowa, mabakiteriya omwe angagwidwe ndi ziwalo za amuna.
Pofuna kupewa chiopsezo, mwamuna ayenera kupitiliza mayesero onse ndikusiya matenda osiyanasiyana a ziwalo zake zogonana. Zomwezo zimapita ku cunnilingus. Mu "anthu" palinso lingaliro kuti wokondedwa ndi mpweya wake amatha kufikitsa zida za mimba za mayi wapakati. Koma paziganizo zoterezi zimangoyankha ndi kumwetulira kosangalatsa. Cunnilingus sizingakhale zovulaza ngati munthuyo samakhala ndi pakhosi kapena matenda ena a m'kamwa.