M'maganizo atsopano ogonana ndi maulamuliro, osati kale kwambiri chikhalidwe chatsopano chinapezeka, chomwe chiri chimodzi mwazinthu zopitilira sadomasochism. Dzina loperekedwa ku malangizo awa linaperekedwa mwa kuphatikiza kwa Chingerezi mawu oti ukapolo, ulamuliro, sado-maso, amene amatanthauzira kwenikweni amatanthauza - kumanga, ulamuliro, BDSM. Mwachidule, ichi chimatchedwa BDSM.
Chofunika cha chikhalidwe ichi chiri mwachindunji china chotsutsana ndi mphamvu ya wina wa zibwenzi pazimenezo, zomwe zimasiyanitsa kwenikweni ndi chikhalidwe chachisamaliro cha kugonana ndi chikhalidwe chachisamaso. BDSM - masewera a zibwenzi awiri, omwe cholinga chake ndi kuwonjezera malingaliro ogonana pogwiritsa ntchito mphamvu pa wina ndi mnzake.
Tiyenera kukumbukira kuti mu masewerawa, pali malamulo angapo omwe amapereka chitetezo, mwakuthupi komanso m'maganizo, komanso motsutsana ndi malamulo ophwanya malamulo. Mbiri ya chitukuko cha mtundu uwu wamatsenga unayamba zaka zoposa mazana awiri kuchokera nthawi yoyamba kutchulidwa mu ntchito za wotchuka wotchedwa Marquis de Sade, yemwe dzina lake linatchedwanso dzina limodzi la mawu akuti "chisokonezo".
Mu BDSM pali zotsata zambiri, zokhala ndi slang, zophiphiritsira, zizindikiro komanso zojambulajambula. Chimodzi mwazojambulazo ndi kujambula ndi kujambula. Kuchokera pambali ya munthu kutali ndi njira iyi, ntchito zamakono monga kalembedwe ka Art BDSM, kuziyika mofatsa, kuyang'ana zachilendo komanso zowopsya pang'ono.
Kodi kupondaponda ndi chiyani?
Mu subculture ya BDSM, pali zikhulupiliro zambiri ndi zochitika, zonsezi zikuluzikulu ndi kugonjera. Zochita ndi kugonana ndizosiyana siyana, kumene ziwawa zina zimagwiritsidwa ntchito kwa wogonjera kapena kapolo. Kugonjetsa kugonana ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zoterezi, zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito m'maseĊµero a kugonana komanso nthawi zina zochitika zogonana.
Kuti muyankhe funso la kuponderezana kutanthawuza, ndikofunikira kubwerera ku English terminology. Mawu akutipondaponda amachokera ku mawu a Chingerezi tramp kapena kupondaponda, kutanthauza "kupondaponda" kapena "kupopera". Ndipo izi ndizofunikira kwambiri pachithunzi - kumangogwedeza kapena kuyenda mozungulira thupi la wokondedwa.
Kodi kupondaponda pa chiwerewere cha abambo a BDSM ndi chiyani? Ichi ndi gawo la masewera osewera, omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito monga mtundu wa kugonana, pamene mbuye kapena mbuye amayenda kupyolera mu thupi la wogonjera, akupweteka ndi kuzunzika. Ziribe kanthu kuti masewerawa angawoneke bwanji, onse awiri amapeza zosangalatsa zakuthupi ndi zamaganizo kuchokera mmenemo, chifukwa ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zochitika zokonzekera kugonana .
Mitundu yoponderezedwa
Kupondaponda kumagawidwa m'magulu awiri:
- Kupondaponda mofewa. Wopambana kwambiri pakuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi akugwera pa thupi la wokondedwayo popanda mapazi, kuthamanga ndi kupsyinjika kwa thupi la wogonjera sikula kwambiri. Mwamuna kapena mkazi akhoza
Yendani mbali zonse za thupi la kapolo wake - kumbuyo, m'mimba, pachifuwa. Mwa njira zotetezera, kuyenda pamutu ndi nkhope sikuchotsedwa. - Kuyenda koyendetsa ndikumangokhalira kukondweretsa, komwe wokondedwa wamkulu angayende pa thupi la munthu wapansi pamsewu. Mkazi akamalamulira pawiri, ndiye nsapato zapamwamba komanso zochepa zomwe zimakhala zosautsa komanso zomwe zimakhala zachiwawa ndi gawo la masewero a sadomasochistic.
Kwa anthu osadziwa, kuchita kotereku kungawoneke ngati koopsa kwambiri, koma kumachitika ndi kuvomerezana kwa awiriwo. Ndiyenera kunena kuti ndikuyenda molimbika, komanso ngakhale zidendene zapamwamba, chiopsezo chovulaza ndi chokwanira, koma aliyense amachenjezedwa za izi ndikutsatira malamulo otetezeka. Ngakhale zachilendo zingamveke kuchokera kumbali, masewera oterewa ndi kumayambiriro kwa kugonana ali ndi okondedwa ambiri komanso otsatira. Kuponderezedwa kumakhala kotetezeka bwino, ndipo ngati ndibwino kwa wina, ndiye bwanji osatero.