Kusiyanasiyana kwa moyo wa kugonana, aliyense amamvetsa mwa njira yawo. Ndipo ngati kwa mabanja ena "kachitidwe ka galu" pena palipamwamba kwambiri, kwa ena - chinachake chosadziwika kapena choletsedwa. Pachifukwa ichi, ndi bwino kukumbukira mawu otchuka kuti chirichonse chimene chimachitika pakati pa bedi pakati pa anthu awiri sichingaonedwe kuti n'cholakwika mpaka chimasangalatsa onse awiriwo. Choncho, ngakhale "owonetsetsa" mu kugonana sayenera kukana mosaganizira izi zomwe sizili zoyenera, ndipo nthawi imodzi amayesera.
Kodi "chikhalidwe cha" doggy "chikuwoneka bwanji?
Mwinamwake, mwa anthu omwe samasulidwa kwambiri chikhalidwe chotsutsa chikhalidwe ichi ndi chifukwa chake si "lolondola" dzina - "galu-ngati". Kwa ena, izi zikumveka ngati zonyansa, koma panopa, mumangobwezeretsa dzina ili ndi sayansi yowonjezereka: "ndondomeko yamagulu" - ndiko kuti, gologolo wamagolo. Ndiyeno zimakhala zomveka, kwenikweni, zomwe zimagwirizana ndi malo a zibwenzi.
Ndiyenela kudziŵa kuti malo amenewa adadziŵika ngakhale pa nthawi yakale. Ndipo mu nthawi ya Kubwezeredwa, pamene cholowa choyambirira, kuphatikizapo luso la kuseketsa, chinali chodziwikiratu ndi olemekezeka, iye anawonekera "maonekedwe a mkango wamphamvu". Agalu akazing'onowa ankasungidwa mobwerezabwereza m'khoti ndipo ankaganiza kuti ndizovala zamakono. Anthu ankawona kuti nsanja zawo zamfupi zinali zazifupi kuposa miyendo yawo yamphongo, choncho chiwombankhanga chinkawoneka kuti chikukwera. Kupeza kumeneku sikunaphule mwayi wa khoti donzhuany, mochenjera poyerekezera malo a thupi la levretka ndi udindo wa thupi la mkazi panthawi yovuta. Panopa, malinga ndi kafukufuku wambiri, vutoli limatchedwa mmodzi mwa otchuka kwambiri. Kotero, mwa mwamuna, iye amatsogolera pamwamba zitatu zosangalatsa komanso zosangalatsa.
Ponena za njira yokhayo, chikhalidwe choyenera cha "doggy style" ndi chonchi: Mkazi amagwada, akugwedeza mabala ake, ndipo ngati n'kotheka, akukweza mapewa ake, ndipo munthuyo amalowa m'mbuyo, nawonso amaimirira pamadzulo akugwada. Izi zimapangitsa wokondedwa kuti alowe mkati mwa abambo ake, kumuthandiza kuti azivutika kwambiri ndi mbolo mkati mwake, zomwe zimapereka chidziwitso chowonjezereka komanso cholimba kuchokera ku chiwerewere.
Komabe, omwe ali ndi udindo wovomerezeka, ndizotheka kuyesera kusiyanitsa. Pachifukwachi mungagwiritse ntchito, osati bedi, koma sofa kapena cholowa chachikulu: Mayi akugunda pamtanda kuti apite m'mimba mwake ndipo amathandiza kuti mapiko ake azikwera mmwamba, ndipo munthuyo amakhala ndi mawonekedwe pamabondo kumbuyo. Miyendo ya wokondedwayo ikhoza kuchepetsedwa kwambiri, malingana ndi momwe zimakhalira kwa iye ndi mnzawo. Mungayesere zomwe zimatchedwa "ndondomeko yowoneka bwino": Mkazi ali ndi udindo pa khoma, akudalira ndi manja ake ndikuyendayenda,
Ubwino wa chikhalidwe cha chikhalidwe
Kugonana mu "chikhalidwe cha machitidwe" kumakhala kofunika osati kwa okhawo omwe akufuna zosiyana, komanso kwa iwo omwe ali ndi mavuto mu moyo wapamtima. Mothandizidwa, mkazi amakhala ndi mwayi wambiri wofikira kugonana komanso osamva zowawa panthawi yogonana. Kuonjezera apo, akhoza kutulutsa malingaliro ake osasamala za momwe nkhope yake ikuwonekera, ndikudzipereka kwathunthu. Zomwezo zimapita kwa amuna. Kuonjezera apo, chikhalidwe cha "galu" chiloleza oimira mphamvu zakugonana kuti ataya "nyama" zawo panthawi yogonana popanda kuvulaza mnzanu yemwe angathe kukonda chiwawa chotero. Ndipotu, amayi ambiri amawona malingaliro awo opusa.