Kugonana - chimodzi mwa zosowa za munthu, zomwe ndi mbali yofunikira pamoyo wake. Nthawi zambiri kugonana kumadalira zinthu zambiri, ndipo nthawi zina sikungathe kugonana nthawi zonse. Kudziletsa ku chibwenzi sikungakhudze mtima komanso moyo wabwino. Pambuyo pa zonse, kudzera mu kugonana, munthu amayamba kutuluka thupi komanso kusokonezeka maganizo, motero amachepetsa chikhalidwe chake.
Kodi ndi nthawi yanji yothetsa kugonana yomwe imakhala ngati kudziletsa, munthu aliyense angadziwe yekha? Kwa wina ndi masiku angapo, kwa ena - miyezi ingapo, kapena ngakhale zaka.
Asayansi amapanga maphunziro ochuluka pa ubwino ndi kuvulazidwa kwa chiwerewere mwa akazi, zomwe ziganiziro zomwe sizinawonongeke.
Kuipa kwa kudziletsa kwa kugonana kwa amayi
Chimodzi mwa makhalidwe osadziwika a munthu ndi ntchito yake yogwidwa ndi kugonana. Aliyense ali ndi ake omwe ndipo sitingathe kusintha. Anthu omwe chilengedwe chapatsidwa chikhalidwe cholimba, si zophweka panthawi yomwe palibe chiyanjano chokhazikika. Ngakhale kudziletsa kwa masiku asanu kugonana ndi mkazi kumamuvulaza. Amakhala wamanjenje ndi wokwiya, ndipo mkwiyo wake ndi chiwawa zimatha kuwombera aliyense amene agwera pansi pa dzanja lake lotentha. Komanso kwa anthu oterowo, kudziletsa kwa nthawi yayitali kungakhale kovulaza chifukwa chakuti magazi, kutsanulira kumaliseche, amayamba kufooka m'mimba yaing'ono.
Popeza kuti munthu aliyense ali ndi chilakolako chogonana, zotsatira za kudziletsa mwa amayi ndizokha: munthu akhoza kuvulaza, pamene ena, m'malo mwake, amapindula.
Kugwiritsa ntchito kudziletsa kwa amayi
Imodzi mwa nthawi zabwino zokhala ndi chizolowezi chogonana kwa kanthawi ndikumveka bwino pa nthawi yogonana. Akatswiri ambiri amalangiza
Kuchokera pakuwona kwa sayansi, pali chinthu chofanana ndi kugonjera, kutanthauza, kukonzanso mphamvu zopanda mphamvu. Kudziletsa kwa nthawi yochepa kumaphatikizapo chilakolako chofuna kuchita zinthu zowonjezera komanso kudzikonza, komanso ntchito zina, zomwe nthawi zambiri zimasowa nthawi ndi mphamvu.
Komabe, phindu la kudziletsa kugonana ndizochepa pokhapokha. Choncho musataye kugonana. Ndipotu, kugonana kokondana ndi gawo labwino la moyo wa munthu aliyense. Ndipo okondedwa ambiri amavomerezana ndi izi.