Malingaliro achikondi

Ponena kuti munthu amalingalira zochitika zina za kugonana palibe cholakwika. Zithunzi zosangalatsa nthawi ndi nthawi zimayendera ndi amuna ndi akazi. Ndipo ngati pali chikhulupiliro chokwanira ndi mgwirizano pakati pa zibwenzi, zongoganizirazi zingagwiritsidwe bwino.

Malingaliro achikondi a amuna

Phunzirani kwa wokondedwa wanu zokhudzana ndi kugonana kwake. Gawanani wina ndi mzake malingaliro apamtima ndi maloto. N'zosadabwitsa kuti malingaliro achilendo a amuna ambiri amodzimodzimodzi. Mndandandawu ukhoza kulembedwa kwa nthawi yaitali, nthawi zonse uikwaniritse. Komabe, mazikowo sasintha. Tiyeni tipeze zomwe amuna akulota pa kama.

1. Kugonana kwapakati. Mukhoza, ndithudi, zambiri. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti mwamuna akufuna kuti akhale yekha, ndipo ena onse omwe ali nawo mu "polojekiti "yi ndi akazi. Ndizodabwitsa kuti, ngakhale maloto ngati amenewa, ambiri omwe ali ndi mphamvu zogonana, pamene mwadzidzidzi amapeza mwayiwu, musafulumize kuchigwiritsa ntchito. Malinga ndi akatswiri a zamaganizo, chifukwa chochita mantha ndi kukhala osamvetsetseka ponena za kugonana ndikukhala ndi "fiasco", osakhutitsa abwenzi onse.
2. Akazi awiri. Kuti muone zochitika za kupanga chikondi ndi atsikana awiri wokongola, aliyense akulota. Palibe zosiyana.
3. Maliseche achikazi. Lingaliro lachiwiri mndandanda ndi chikhumbo chowonera mkazi wokondedwa wanu. Afuna kuona mmene amadandaulira, akuwonetsa poyera chilichonse chimene akuchita. Ndikofunika kwa iye kumverera ndikumverera komwe iye akukumana nawo. Choyamba, amuna ngati awa, ndipo kachiwiri, ndi mtundu wa "master class", kumene angaphunzire chinachake chatsopano ndi chothandiza.
4. Kugonana ndi munthu wosadziwika. Mwamuna akulota kuchita popanda chinyengo ndi zowonjezera kuchita ndi mkazi yemwe amamukonda, kugonana. Ndi zophweka kawiri kapena ziwiri: anabwera, adawona ndipo anatenga.
5. Malo amtundu. Pa mpira wa masewera pamsinkhu wamkuntho, paki, m'sitilanti, mumagulu - pafupifupi munthu aliyense wachitatu akulota zogonana ndi mkazi akuwonekera.
6. Chikhumbo chomvera. Sewani akapolo ogonana ochepa adzakana. Izi ndi zowona makamaka kwa anthu omwe amasunga zonse pamoyo wawo. Amphamvu, olemera ndi odzitukumula - nthawizina iwo amafuna kuti azigwada patsogolo panu. Zoona, iwo savomereza kawirikawiri izi.
7. Chiwerewere. Chowonadi ndi chakuti malo opangira zosangalatsa ali mu anus ya munthu. Ziribe kanthu momwe adayesera kubisala, choyamba kuchokera kwa iyemwini, koma malingaliro oterowo alipo. Kuopa kuganiza kuti kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kumamulepheretsa kuvomereza zofuna zake.

Kwa mwamuna samapereka chithandizo cham'tsogolo, kambiranani naye za kugonana ndipo musawope kuyesa pabedi.

Malingaliro achikondi a akazi

Monga zitsanzo za malingaliro okhudzidwa ndi atsikana, zotsatirazi zikhoza kutchulidwa:

1. Kugonana kwapakati. Chochititsa chidwi ndi chakuti malingaliro ameneŵa nthawizonse amakhalabe osatheka. Kulota kuti mwasamalidwa paliponse komanso mwakamodzi, kupereka zosangalatsa zosasangalatsa - n'zotheka. Komabe, sikuti mkazi aliyense akhoza kupirira amuna awiri.
2. Kugonana ndi mkazi. Chimodzi mwa mafanizo achikazi oyambirira. Njira yabwino yodziwira zofuna za mkazi ndi ya mkazi. Perekani msungwana wachikondi, wachikondi ndi wachikondi - ndicho chomwe chimakopa pa nkhaniyi.
3. Kukhala mu mphamvu. Chiyembekezo chokhala womangidwa ndi mikono ndi miyendo chimakopa atsikana ambiri. Pa nthawi ya chibwenzi, ndikufuna kudzimva wopanda chitetezo, kudzipereka ndekha, kuti ndisanyamule udindo uliwonse. Ife tiri nazo zokwanira mu moyo wake. Uwu ndiwo mtundu wa kugonana popanda nkhawa.
4. Mkazi wa sukulu kapena wantchito. Kusewera masewera ndi zovala zodabwitsa ndi loto la mkazi aliyense. Ndikufuna kukhala mu fano la mtsikana wophunzira kapena womvera wogonjera. Amuna, kumbukirani.
5. Kubwezera. Chiyembekezo chogwidwa ndi mphamvu, kukulolani kuchotsa zovala zanu ndikumva mawu achipongwe - zochitikazi zimakukhudzani kwambiri.

Musabisize malingaliro anu olakwika. Gwiritsani ntchito ndi kusangalala.