Mkazi aliyense amafuna kukhala mbuye wabwino kwa mwamuna wake, ndipo pazimenezi muyenera kukhala ndi njira yothandizira kugonana. Inde, pali lingaliro lakuti amuna samakonda kuyamikira zonsezi mwachikondi ndikumva zowawa chifukwa chakuti akusowa wokondedwa. Zoonadi, "amuna" ofulumira ngati amenewa, koma nthawi zambiri, kugonana kwa amuna kumakhala kofunika kwambiri kuposa akazi. Koma musaganize kuti mutaphunzira njira zingapo, mutha kuyimira onse ogonana kuti azigwada ndi luso lawo - munthu aliyense ndiyekha, ndipo muyenera kumangoyesa ndi mayesero. Eya, nsonga zingapo zomwe tithandizira zidzakuthandizani kufotokozera mizere yaikulu ya khalidwe pa bedi.
Musanayambe kugonana musanayambe kugonana
- Pafupifupi amayi onse amayembekezera kufotokozera za kugonana kwapakati pa malangizo pa njira zamakono. Inde, amuna amayamikira mtundu uwu wa masewera achiwerewere, koma sizingatheke. Kuwonjezera apo, amuna amadziŵa kuti ngati atayikidwa kugonana kwa nthawi yaitali, kusamalitsa kwambiri kwa membala woyamba kumakhala kosayenera. Amuna, osachepera akazi, ndikofunika kumverera kugonana kwawo, choncho ndikofunika kusonyeza kuti mumakonda thupi lonse la mnzanuyo, kuti mukufuna.
- Pafupifupi masewera onse ogonana amayamba ndi kupweteka kwa khosi ndi nkhope. Monga chikhumbo chodzutsa chingagwiritsidwe ntchito ndikusambisa mutu, koma ndibwino kuti muzisonyeza chikondi chogonana chomwe chimagwira kumbuyo kwa khosi. Zoona, zimaperekedwa kuti muchite mwankhanza.
- Zomwe zimakhala zovuta kumpsompsonana ndi chikondi ndi chifuwa chachimuna. N'zoona kuti sagonjera ngati chifuwa cha amayi, komabe kumangokhalira kugwedezeka ndi kuwalimbikitsa mwachikondi ndi madera omwe ali pafupi nawo, amatha kupereka zosangalatsa zambiri kwa mnzanuyo.
- Mwa amuna, timayamikira manja ambiri amphamvu, koma pazifukwa zina timaiwala kuwamvetsera pa masewera achiwerewere. Mwinamwake, musanayambe kuvulaza, izi zimapangitsa kuti mwamuna wanu asabweretse, koma popanda iwo zovuta sizidzakwanira. Amuna ambiri amawakonda mwachikondi kapena chikondi ndi lilime pakati pa zala. Zomwezo, mungathe kunena, za mapazi, zala zakunja zingakhalenso zovuta kwambiri kuti zimveke.
- Pa mndandanda wamayambiriro musanayambe kugonana, m'pofunika kuyika kukwapula, kudumpha kapena kugwidwa bwino kwa nsalu kumbuyo, komwe kumakhala kosiya pakati pa mapewa, pamphepete mwa msana, ndi weasel m'makolo.
- Pazinthu zambiri amuna samakonda kunena momasuka, koma, komabe, amapereka zosangalatsa zambiri. Zimakhudza kudera pakati pa anus ndi scrotum. Amayi ambiri omwe ali ndi mphamvu zogonana amachititsa kuti ntchitoyi ikhale yoletsedwa, popeza imakumbutsa chikondi cha amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, koma izi sizikutanthauza kukhalapo kwa malo osokoneza bongo. Choncho, ngati bwino kupereka ma Caresses osagwirizana, zotsatira zake zingakhale zosangalatsa kwambiri.
- Bwino yowonjezera yowonjezera kwa munthu ndizo mayamiko anu. Musaiwale kumuuza za momwe mumakonda thupi lake, komanso momwe aliri wabwino. Kuonjezera kudzidalira kwake , mumatsegula njira yanu yosangalalira.
Pokonda masewera, njira zonse ndi zabwino, choncho musangogwiritsira ntchito milomo kapena manja, kupanikizira mfundo zosavuta ndi mpweya wanu, kuwakhudza ndi tsitsi lanu, kudzimanga ndi chofiira cha silika, gwiritsani ntchito malingaliro anu mokwanira. Koma mtundu uliwonse wa kugonana umachititsa kuti musangalatse mwamuna wanu, ndondomekoyi iyeneranso kukukondweretsani, kugwiritsidwa ntchito kokha kungachititse wina kusangalala.