Kulankhula kwathu ndi chinthu chodabwitsa kwambiri cha munthu. Pambuyo pa zonse, mothandizidwa ndi malingaliro ofanana tikhoza kusinthanitsa mauthenga, kufotokoza mtundu wa maganizo wa zomwe tanena. Chifukwa cha mawu, anthu amatha kumvetsa mmene mumamvera komanso kumva mawu anu. Ndizodabwitsa ... Zingakhale zabwino ngati sitinaponyedwe mawu kumphepo, sikungakhale kopanda pake kuti tigwiritse ntchito mawu kuti tikhumudwitse munthu! Ndipo mungathe kuchiza mawu, zokhazo zinanenedwa zokha ndipo zimakondweretsa iwo omwe akulembedwera ku mawu athu ofunika!
Kulankhulana - maganizo
Zilankhulo zingathe kuchitika pa zifukwa zosiyanasiyana ndikudalira zifukwa zosiyanasiyana. Mwachitsanzo:
- "Phokoso loyeretsa", kulumpha palate, kuluma kosadziwika ;
- kuphwanya ubongo woyenera kulankhula;
- kuphwanya malingaliro, mawonekedwe a misomaliseche, kumva ndi masomphenya;
- njira ya moyo wa abambo mpaka nthawi yomwe ali ndi pakati;
- njira ya mayiyo asanakhalepo / panthawi yoyembekezera;
- Matenda achibadwa, achilendo ndi ovuta a mayi;
- mpweya wa intrauterine wodwala njala , chifukwa chakuti panthawi ya mimba, mayi amakhala nthawi yaying'ono mu mpweya wabwino;
- mikwingwirima, kuvulala ndi kugwa kwa amayi amtsogolo;
- Nkhondo ya Rhesus pakati pa mayi ndi mwana;
- kuvulaza ndi kuvulaza mwana pakapita nthawi / kubereka;
- zovuta;
- Matenda afupipafupi ndi aatali;
- ngakhale kubwezeretsanso kwa omasulira.
Psycholoji ya mawu olankhulira
Ngati mukufuna kuyankhula pagulu bwino, muyenera kukumbukira malamulo ena:
- Konzani bwino ntchitoyi. Kuchita izi: gwiritsani ntchito mabuku ena, kupanga ndondomeko yolankhulidwe, sankhani mutu waukulu ndikukhazikitsa cholinga chanu.
- Muyenera kuyesetsa kuti nkhaniyi isakhale yosangalatsa. Ndipo chidwi chimenecho chinayendetsedwa, kokha, kwa inu. Kuti muchite izi, muyenera kulingalira zofuna za omvera ndipo, ngati n'kotheka, kambiranani za zomwe musakondwere nazo. Ndemanga za zomwe zingakhudze anthu onse ndi aliyense, payekha.
- Kumbukirani kuti: "Kujambula maganizo, malingaliro ndi kuwerenga ndizowongolera kugulitsa malonda"!
- Gwiritsani ntchito nkhope yanu ndi manja kuti mugwire ntchito "yamoyo".
- Kuti mukwaniritse umunthu wanu pamtima wanu, samalirani fano lanu ndipo musaiwale za malankhulidwe.
ChizoloƔezi chofala
Ambiri amakhulupirira kuti kulungamitsidwa pa zokambirana ndi chizindikiro cha bodza. Koma kulankhula, pogwiritsa ntchito psychology, ndi kosiyana ndi zosiyana. M'malo mwake, izi ndizochitika mwachibadwa kwa munthu ku milandu yotsutsana naye. Mwa njira, kufotokozera ndi kufotokozera pa kulankhulana ndi chizindikiro chakuti wolembayo amalankhula zoona ndipo ali ndi chidaliro m'mawu ake. Zinthu zimakula mosiyana, ngati munthu ayenda kumbuyo, amakhudza mphuno kapena kumbuyo kwa mutu.