Munthu ndi gawo la chilengedwe chonse. Ndipo ndi mfundo imeneyi palibe aliyense amene angatsutsane. Koma ngati mumvetsetsa, ndiye kuti pali chilengedwe chomwe chikuwoneka (ngakhale kwa amodzi omwe amadziwidwa), ndipo pali chilengedwe chomwe sitimachiwona, koma timadziwona tokha. Ku chilengedwe chachiwiri ndizo malingaliro athu, malingaliro, maloto ndi zikhumbo. Ndipo momwe timasinthira ku miyoyo yathu, pamapeto pake zimadalira zomwe zidzakhaladi. Kodi munayamba mwadzifunsapo kuti n'chifukwa chiyani anthu omwe sakhulupirira za dziko lapansi sachita chilichonse? Kapena, iwo omwe amawonetsa mphamvu zofunikira nthawi zonse ndi zabwino ndipo zinthu zikukwera mmwamba. Zonse zokhudzana ndi kukonda zilakolako zakuthupi, kapena kani, njira yolondola yowonjezera.
Kuzindikira zinthu: Kuchita
Lingaliro lililonse limene limabwera m'maganizo mwathu lingathe kusintha moyo wathu. Funso lokha ndilo momwe tingagwiritsire ntchito malingaliro athu moyenera? Lamulo la chilengedwe ndiloti ngakhale ngati sitipempha phindu linalake, koma timadzibwerezabwereza nthawi zonse, ndiye zomwe timaganiza za posachedwapa zidzachitika m'moyo wathu. Ambiri ambiri adzidziŵa kale izi pamene ndege inawonongeka, ndipo tsiku lotsatira m'nkhaniyi adanena kuti ndegeyo inagunda kwinakwake. Kapena kuti tsiku lomwelo munakumbukila mnzanu wapamtima ndipo tsiku lotsatira iye anakumana mosayembekezereka. Zonsezi zimatsimikiziranso kuti tonsefe ndife a gawo lomwelo, zomwe timachita mwachidwi ndi zomwe timaganizira. Ndipo ngati zili choncho, ndiye kuti muyenera kuphunzira momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito zinthu zakuthupi ndi zolakalaka zanu, kuti muthe kusintha moyo wanu kosatha.
Njira yothetsera malingaliro
Musanaphunzire kugwiritsa ntchito malingaliro anu ndikuyamba kutembenuza maloto kukhala enieni, ndikofunika kukonzekera kusintha kwa moyo wanu. Kwa izi ndikofunika kudutsa muzigawo zingapo.- Kusanthula zakale. Chimene chinachitika kwa inu m'zaka zonse za moyo wanu ndicho zotsatira za zomwe mumakhulupirira nokha ndi zomwe mumafuna. Kodi mulibe ndalama zokwanira? Waperekedwa mnzanu wapamtima kapena amabweretsa thanzi? Kotero, penapake mu kuya kwa moyo wanu, izi ndi zomwe mumafuna. Mwa ichi, choyamba lembani zomwe sizikugwirizana ndi inu m'moyo wanu. Pambuyo pake, yambani zodandaula zanu kukhala zolinga. Chotsatira chake, mudzalandira nkhani zokhudza zolinga zanu. Ganizirani zomwe mukufuna, ngati muli ndi mwayi wokwaniritsa zofuna zanu zonse.
- Chithunzi cha tsogolo. Dzifunseni nokha ku mafunso - kodi mukuyembekeza chiyani mtsogolomu, momwe mukuganizira. Nchiyani chiti chidzachitike kwa inu mu chaka, zaka zisanu, kodi mudzathera bwanji ukalamba wanu? Tsopano yang'anani maso anu ndi kulingalira tsogolo lanu, zomwe zidzakupangitsani kukhala osangalaladi. Kenaka mutsegule maso anu ndikuganiza kuti maloto anu onse akwaniritsidwa kale. Pambuyo pazimenezi, onetsetsani kuti mukuthokoza chiwonongeko kapena chilengedwe cha chirichonse chimene chidzakhala chimodzimodzi momwe mudaganizira.
- Phunzirani kulingalira zokhazokha. Kwa ambiri zidzakhala zovuta. Koma kupeza luso kuti muwone bwino ngakhale zinthu zoipa zidzakuthandizani kwambiri moyo wanu. Phunzirani kunyalanyaza zoipa zonse zomwe mukukumana nazo. Ngati simungathe kusintha mkhalidwewo, sungani malingaliro ake. Posachedwa mudzazindikira kuti ndi malingaliro abwino ngakhale mavuto omwe mumatha kuthetsa mosavuta.
Mukadzikonzekera kusintha kwa moyo wanu, sitepe yotsatira idzakhala njira yeniyeni yokhumba zikhumbo ndi maganizo. Pali mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya iwo. Ntchito yanu ndi kusankha omwe mumakonda kwambiri ndikugwirizana ndi moyo wanu.
- Mapu a zikhumbo. Kwa nthawi yaitali yodziwika ndi yothandiza kulandira. Pokhala ndi lumo, makina a magazini ndi chithunzi chanu, pangani nyuzipepala ya khoma yomwe pambali pa chithunzi chanu mumasungira zithunzi kapena mitu yomwe, mwa lingaliro lanu, iyenera kugwirizanitsa moyo wanu. Kungakhale chithunzi cha yacht, galimoto, nyumba ya dziko kapena kuyenda. Ikani khadi lanu pamalo otchuka kwambiri. Nthawi zambiri mumamuwona akukumbutsa za maloto anu, zomwe zimakulimbikitsani kukwaniritsa zokhumba zanu zidzawonekera.
- Magic wand. Dzifunseni nokha wandula, kapena kachigawo kakang'ono ka nthambi, kamene pamaganizo kamene kamapatsidwa mphamvu zamatsenga. Komanso, ngati muli ndi chokhumba chilichonse, lembani m'buku lapadera, ndipo motero, ngati kuti kale likuphedwa, mwachitsanzo, muyenera kulemba mu nthawi yamakono. Mwachitsanzo: "Ndikugula galimoto." Vzmahnite ndi wand wanu wamatsenga ndipo mutsirizitse mawu anu a ndondomekoyi: "Ndikufuna kuti zikhale chomwecho." Ndipo onetsetsani kuti mumapeto pake muyamike mawu oyamikira pofuna kukwaniritsa chikhumbo chimenechi.
- Zindikirani pang'ono za kuyamikira. Njira imeneyi yokhala ndi malingaliro ndi zilakolako zakuthupi ndizosavuta kugwiritsa ntchito. Akukonzekera kumanga mwala woyamikira. Ingoipezani kumene mtima wanu ukuuzani. Ziyenera kukhala zosangalatsa kwa inu mu mtundu,
kukula ndi mawonekedwe. Tsiku lirilonse, mum'pweteke ndi kunena kuti zikomo kwa iye chifukwa cha zinthu zonse zomwe zinachitika. Ndipo mothandizidwa ndi mwala womwewo, mukhoza kukopa zochitika zomwe sizinachitikepo, ngati kuti zakhala zikuchitika kale. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mukufuna munthu yemwe mumakonda kukumana nanu panjira, pewani miyalayi ndikumuuza kuti: "Zikomo kwambiri, kuti ndidzakumananso ndi munthu uyu kumeneko ndi apo." Ndipo munthu uyu ndi wotsimikiza kukumana nanu. Chinthu chachikulu ndikukhulupirira mu mphamvu ya mawu anu.
Pokhapokha, njira yokhala ndi malingaliro ndi zilakolako zakuthupi ndi yosavuta kugwiritsa ntchito. Chinthu chachikulu apa sichikufuna kokha ayi, komanso kulingalira momwe zidzakhalira kudziwonera wekha muzochitika zomwe malotowo atha kale. Phunzirani kulingalira zokhumba zanu ndi momwe adzakupindulitseni. Ndipo pokhapokha kugwirizanitsa zinthu kudzakhala gawo lofunika kwambiri pa moyo. Moyo wanu watsopano.