Pali magulu atatu akuluakulu a kuzindikira za chidziwitso, ndipo malingana ndi makhalidwe omwe akupezeka, anthu onse adagawidwa kukhala zojambula, omveka ndi zakumwa. Tiyeni tikambirane gawo limodzi mwa magawo awa. Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa kuti pali mitundu yonse yoyera. Kawirikawiri anthu amagwirizanitsa awiri mwa iwo: mwachitsanzo, omvetsera, kapena kinestetik-audial.
Omvera
Omvera ndi mtundu wa anthu omwe sali wovuta. Kaŵirikaŵiri amapatsidwa mawu omveka bwino, omveka komanso kukumbukira bwino. Amalankhulana mosavuta pa foni - kwa iwo ndikofunikira kwambiri kumva interlocutor.
Anthu awa amakonda kukambirana, amachita bwino komanso mosangalala. Kawirikawiri anthu oterewa amawoneka odzikuza, koma makamaka kwa okondedwa awo ndiye omvetsera ndi alangizi abwino kwambiri. Ndi ochokera kwa anthu oterowo kuti oyankhula bwino, ophunzitsira, psychologists ndi ojambula amapeze. Otsatira nthawi zonse amasankha nyimbo ndipo samapanga phokoso. Ngati mumadziwa munthu wokhala ndi mawu okondweretsa, okoma, ndi okweza mawu, mwachiwonekere ndi omveka.
Mukhoza kusiyanitsa omvera pakati pa maso ndi chizoloŵezi choyika manja anu pachifuwa chanu.
Mawu omveka omwe amamveka ali ogwirizana ndi kumvetsera ndi kuyankhula:
- Ndine wokondwa kumva;
- mvetserani;
- zimamveka kuyesa;
- n'chifukwa chiyani mumalankhula motere?
Kulankhulana ndi kumva chinthu chachikulu ndi kukambirana. Awa ndiwo anthu omwe amakonda makutu.
Onani
Anthu otere amadziwa dziko lapansi mothandizidwa ndi maso. Amalemba mosavuta nkhani pa chithunzi kapena afotokoze zomwe adawona. Kawirikawiri amatha kuthetsa chilichonse. Kuti agwire ntchito, amayenera kukonza ndondomeko ndi ndondomeko - popanda izi amatayika.
Kwa iwo, chofunikira kwambiri ndi kuwoneka. Nkhani yopanda zithunzi kapena zithunzi sizingatheke kumbuyo. Izi ndi chifukwa ngati sawona, zikuwoneka kuti sizikumva.
Ndi chimodzi mwa ziwonetsero za akazi ambiri omwe amasankha zovala ndi nsapato pamutu "wosasangalatsa, koma wokongola." Nthawi zonse amawoneka bwino komanso okongola.
Ndikofunikira kwambiri kuti anthu awa awone interlocutor, kuti awone maso ake. Ngati simukuyang'ana pazithunzi, pamene akunena chinachake kwa inu, akhoza kusankha kuti simumumvera.
Kawirikawiri anthu awa samawakhudza ndipo nthawi zina amawachitira iwo mosayenera. Kawirikawiri, sizomwe zimakhala zochepa, zimakhala zovuta komanso zimakhala ndi mawu apamwamba.
Zomwe akunenazo ndizo:
- ingoyang'anani pa izo;
- zikuwoneka ngati ...
- inu mukuwona;
- Ine ndikuwona izo ...
Mkulankhula kwa anthu oterowo masomphenya owonetserako ndilongosoledwa ka mtundu, mawonekedwe ndi zina zonse. Iwo ali ndi malingaliro oganiza.
Kinesthetics
Anthu awa amakonda kumudziwa dziko pogwiritsa ntchito, amadziwidwa m'maganizo ndi maonekedwe a tactile. Kawirikawiri maganizo awo amalembedwa m'maso mwawo, choncho amazoloŵera kuchotsa kapena kuwatsitsa.
Anthu awa amasankha zovala ndi nsapato pa mfundo yakuti "zikhale zoipa, koma zabwino". Ndikofunika kwambiri kwa iwo kuti khungu lawo likhudze kokha ndi matenda osakhwima kwambiri. Kuonjezera apo, iwo amayamikira kukhudza ndi kugwirizana.
Anthu awa ndi ofunika kwambiri, ndipo si onse omwe angapeze dziko lawo lamkati lamkati. Iwo amatha kuzindikira chirichonse mwa kulawa, kugwira ndi kununkhiza. Pofuna kumvetsa momwe china chimagwirira ntchito, amayesera kuyesera.
Zomwe akunenazo ndizo:
- Ndikumverera kuti ...
- Ndikugwira
- sungani nokha
- adzakhala chete
- tili pafupi ndi yankho.
Kwambiri mukulankhula kwa anthu oterowo ziganizo zomwe zimalongosola zochitika zakuthupi kuchokera pamalingaliro - zofewa, zofiira, zotentha, zonunkhira, ndi zina zotero.
Palibe zovuta momwe mungadziwire: zooneka, zomveka kapena zakuthupi kapena munthu wina. Ingoyesani khalidwe lake ndi zitsanzo zotchulidwa.