M'dziko lamakono lino, anthu ochepa amaganiza za chifundo. Chiyero cha moyo, nkhawa, kusakhazikika kwachuma ndi mavuto ena a moyo zimapangitsa munthu kuganizira za iwo eni komanso moyo wawo. Mkhalidwe wotere ukhoza kuwonetsa kusokonezeka kwa chikhalidwe cha anthu komanso kuwonongedwa kwa miyambo, kotero musamaiwale za makhalidwe oterewa.
Chisoni - ndi chiyani?
Chifundo ndi chimodzi mwa zofunikira kwambiri, kumveketsa maganizo kapena zochitika. Chifundo ndi chiyani? Zimathandiza munthu kumvetsetsa maganizo a anthu ena ndikukhalabe munthu. Mkhalidwe wotere ukhoza kukhazikitsidwa pa mfundo zotsatirazi:
- chikondi;
- kumvetsetsa;
- ulemu.
Kawirikawiri, kumverera kotero kumasonyeza chifundo kwa munthu wina. Zitha kuwonetsedwa m'njira zosiyanasiyana:
- mawu ofunikira kapena ofatsa;
- zolimbikitsa;
- thandizo lathupi kapena zakuthupi.
Kukhoza kumvetsetsa ndi khalidwe labwino la munthu , ndikofunika kuti azichita nthawi ndi kusasokoneza, monga nthawi zina pamakhala nthawi yowopsya yomwe "chizindikiro" chimenechi chidzakhala chodabwitsa ndipo pali mwayi waukulu kuti chifundo chidzasokoneza maganizo kwa munthu. Choncho, ndikofunika kwambiri moyenera komanso nthawi yoyenera kusonyeza zomwe zili pamutu.
Kodi pali kusiyana kotani pakati pa chifundo ndi chifundo?
Kumvetsetsa chifundo ndi chifundo ndiko, kudzakhala kopindulitsa pa chitukuko cha khalidwe ndi umunthu. Awa ndi malingaliro ofanana omwe akusonyeza kumverera kwa chifundo kwa munthu wina. Kusiyanasiyana kwawo kumakhala chifukwa chakuti chifundo chimalola osati kumvetsa kokha mkhalidwewo, komanso kumverera maganizo a winayo. Chisoni ndi chifundo ziyenera kukhalapo pa moyo wa anthu, kopanda apo izo zidzakhala zosasamala ndi zosayanjanitsa ndi dziko lozungulira.
Chifundo ndi chifundo - kusiyana kotani?
Chinthu china chofanana ndichisoni. Zikuwonekera mwa mawonekedwe a chifundo chomwecho, koma popanda kuwonetsa maganizo, popanda kukhala ndi malingaliro ofanana ndi kumverera. Nthawi zina kumverera chisoni sikukuphatikiza ndi chilakolako chochita nawo vuto la munthu, koma limangowonongedwa mwachifundo, mawu olimbikitsa. Nthaŵi zambiri, pochitira chifundo, munthu amamasulira malingaliro ake kwa wina, ndipo sazindikira alendo. Chifundo ndi chifundo mwachizolowezi ndizofanana, koma ali ndi mawu osiyana.
Kodi chifundo ndi chabwino kapena choipa?
Anthu ambiri akudabwa ngati anthu amafunikira chifundo. Mayankho a funsoli akhoza kukhala awiri, ndipo aliyense wa iwo ali ndi kufotokoza kwake:
- Chisoni ndi chofunikira chifukwa chimalimbikitsa chiyanjano pakati pa anthu, amalola anthu kukhalabe anthu ndikuwonetsa maganizo awo. Wachifundo, timasonyeza kuti munthu satiganizira.
- Ngati munthu wakwiyitsa, chifundo chimatha kufooketsa malingaliro ake, kuwonjezera maganizo olakwika ndi kukulitsa mkhalidwewo. Pachifukwa ichi, chifundo chidzakhala chopanda pake.
Kuchokera ku mayankho omwe talingaliridwa, tingathe kunena kuti chifundo ndi chofunikira nthawi zina, malingana ndi momwe zinthu zilili komanso mmene munthu akumvera. Ndikofunika kuti musapitirirepo ndi kudziŵa nthawi yomwe maonekedwe a maganizo oterewa angakhale othandizira kuthandizira munthu, ndipo osati mosiyana, zimakulitsa vutoli.
Kodi mukusowa chifundo ndi chifundo mu moyo wanu?
Funso lovuta, lafilosofi: kodi mumafunikira chifundo ndi chifundo kwa anthu? Anthu ambiri, mwinamwake, adzanena zomwe zikufunikira. Makhalidwe amenewa ndi mawonetseredwe a chisamaliro, osati mtima wosayanjanitsika. Ndikofunika kuti awadziwitse ana za kulera ndi umunthu wawo. Nthawi zonse kulandira gawo la malingaliro achifundo ndi chifundo, munthu akhoza kuwafunsanso mobwerezabwereza - adzazoloŵera kwa wozunzidwa kapena akuyembekezera njira yothetsera mavuto ake. Iye akhoza kugwiritsa ntchito chuma chake kuti akwaniritse zolinga. Choncho, mawu oti "zonse zili bwino" sizothandiza.
Kodi mungaphunzire bwanji kuwamvera chisoni?
Yankho la funso la momwe mungasonyezere chifundo kumadalira pachinthu chomwecho. Ndikofunika kuti mukhale oyenera komanso pakapita nthawi. Munthu ayenera kusonyeza kuti anamumvetsa, kugawira zomwe adakumana nazo, koma panthawi imodzimodziyo anapatsa mphamvu kuti achoke panopa. Kawirikawiri amafunika:
- mvetserani kwa munthu;
- agawana zomwe mwakumana nazo;
- kusokoneza vuto;
- kupereka thandizo lothandiza kapena kuthetsera mavuto;
- Nthawi zina zimathandiza kupatsa munthuyo mwayi womvetsa maganizo ake.
Mabuku okhudza chifundo
Kuti mumve zambiri komanso kumvetsetsa tanthauzo la mawu awa, mukhoza kutchula mabuku ena, akulu ndi ana. Mwachitsanzo:
- Buku la wolemba Ruth Minshull "Momwe mungasankhire anthu anu" likufotokoza zomwe mungamvetsere mukakumana ndi anthu komanso momwe mungasankhire omwe angadzatchedwenso "awo". Bukhuli liri ndi mutu wosiyana womwe umagwirizana ndi lingaliro lachisomo.
- Alex Cabrera "Fairies akulankhula za chifundo" - buku labwino kwambiri, kupatsa mwanayo tanthauzo la lingaliroli ndikumuphunzitsa panthawi yoyenera kusonyeza chifundo.
Mabuku okhudza chifundo ndi chifundo amalola anthu kukhala omasuka komanso okoma mtima, kuphunzitsa ana kuti asakhale osiyana pazochitika zina. Nthawi ndi nthawi mukudzikumbutsa nokha kuti chifundo ndi chiyani, ndipo nthawi zina simungathe kuchita popanda izo, mukhoza kupanga dziko kukhala malo abwinoko. Kuwonetsera kwa kumverera koteroko, pamodzi ndi chifundo ndi kuthandizana, kumabweretsa mgwirizano wa anthu, kukhazikitsidwa kwa mgwirizano pakati pawo, kusunga miyambo ndi kugwirizana kwa mibadwo. Izi ndizofunikira kuti pakhale chitukuko cha anthu onse okhwima, okhwima.