"Chabwino, kachiwiri, dampness yatha" - mwamuna adzalankhula kwa wosankhidwa wake, amene adayambanso misozi, mwachionekere chifukwa chosadziwika. Ndicho chifukwa chake akazi akulira, ndipo amuna amangogwedezeka pa izi? Mutha kuganiza kuti tikulira misozi chifukwa cha zosangalatsa zathu! "Mkazi wamphamvu akulira pawindo" - kotero adayimba A. Pugacheva. Ndipo tinkakonda kuyang'ana misozi ngati chiwonetsero chafooka, koma kodi nthawi zonse zimakhala choncho?
Nchifukwa chiyani akazi akulira?
- Kuyambira ubwana tidamva pempho lolira, ngati chinachake choipa chikuchitika, zikuwoneka zosavuta pambuyo pake. Ndipo ndi zoona, mutatha misonzi, kuchokera ku moyo ngati kuti gawo la katundu lichotsedwa. Misozi yotereyi imapangidwira thupi - limodzi ndi masamba a mahomoni otulutsa nkhawa, omwe amamasulidwa ndi kusokonezeka kwakukulu kwa mitundu yosiyanasiyana. Ndi chifukwa chake akazi akulira chifukwa chachisoni ndi chimwemwe.
- Mzimayi akulira mopanda mphamvu ... Inde, kuchokera ku zomwe mwaganiza kuti mayiyo akulira chifukwa chachitika chachikulu kwambiri! Chirichonse chomwecho, amayi akhoza kulira chifukwa chosiyana, komanso kuchoka kutero. Chiwerewere mwachibadwa mwachilengedwe ndikumverera kwambiri. Kotero chikhalidwe cholamulidwa kuti mkazi ndi woyang'anira nyumba, chimene chimadetsa nkhaŵa za mwamuna wake ndi ana ake, palibe chomwe chingamulepheretse iye. Ndipo ngati mwamuna amasonkhanitsa pang'onopang'ono mphika wa mphika wosweka ndi kutulutsa masamba ndi kusweka masamba, mkaziyo amatha ngakhale chifukwa cha kuchepa kwake.
- Nchifukwa chiyani akazi akulira, ndipo amuna sangamvetse chifukwa? Ndipo chifukwa amayi ali ndi mahomoni a prolactin, omwe ali ndi udindo wopatsa misozi. Kwa amuna, pali testosterone, yomwe imalola kuti kusungunuka kwa madzi amisozi.
- Amayi amphamvu amafuula. Ndipo kodi mukudziwa chifukwa chake? Chifukwa mkazi aliyense ali ndi mphamvu zotero zomwe palibe wothamanga yemwe wakhala akuwalotapo. Mwachidule, mphamvu iyi ili ndi chikhalidwe chosiyana, chiyambi chake chiri m'chilengedwe. Ndipo pamene palibe chinthu chomanga, ndi chilakolako pamene mukufuna, mphamvu yosadziwika imatuluka misozi.
- Ndipo mkazi wamphamvu akufuula, akufuna kuti munthu wamphuno azidziwa cholakwika chake. Kangana ndi kulumbira ndi cholengedwa pamwamba, cholemetsa ndi mwamphamvu mwamphamvu kuposa momwe mulibe ntchito, koma kulira, mukhoza kumupangitsa kuganiza. Kugwiritsa ntchito molakwa kokha sikofunikira - palibe amene angayambe kulira.
Pamene tikuwona misonzi - izi sizili zofooka, koma njira yowonjezera yowonjezera yomwe imakulolani kuti musayambe kukwiya chifukwa cha zokhudzidwa kwambiri ndi zamoyo zosiyanasiyana.