Pa funso la momwe mungakonzere zolakwa za m'mbuyomo, zotsatirazi ziyenera kuyankhidwa: ndizofunikira? Zonse zomwe takumana nazo, ngakhale zolakwa zathu ndizofunika kwambiri. Sangakhumudwe - sakanakhoza kuchita momwemo. Munthu ayenera kuphunzira kuchokera ku zolakwa zake, mwinamwake izi ndi kungowona kuchokera kunja.
Ndi anthu angati - nkhani zambiri
Zolakwitsa za zaka zapitazi zingathe "kumenyana" ndi ife mobwerezabwereza, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti tizikumbukira zowawa zosautsa. Mwatsoka, tayiwala
- chinachake chimene chinali chosatheka. Sitinabwere ndi mapiritsi amatsenga "akuchotsa" zidutswa zina za m'maganizo athu. Choncho, funso la momwe tingaiwale zolakwa zakale sizothandiza. Mungathe kuchepetsa nkhawa yanu pochita zotsatirazi:
- landirani zomwe zinachitika. Izi zakhala zikuchitika kale ndipo zidakali kale. Inu simungakhoze kukonza chirichonse;
- yesani kuona zotsatira za zochitikazo;
- musati mukhale ndi choipa chirichonse pa aliyense ndipo musamunene mlandu aliyense;
- musadzitsutse nokha, sizidzasintha kanthu. Mwaphunzira phunziro ili;
- Khalani ndi kusangalala tsiku lililonse.
Kukonza zolakwitsa za zaka zapitazi nthawi zina zingaoneke ngati zenizeni. Nthawi zambiri atsikana atsikana amabereka ana ndi kuwapatsa ana amasiye. M'tsogolomu, akukwera kumapazi awo, amakumbukira zomwe adachita ndikuyendetsa mthunzi wawo. Ndipo mwanayu wayamba kale kukhala ndi banja lolemekezeka, ali wathanzi, wamaso ndi wosangalala nthawi zonse. Pachifukwa ichi, kuthandizira kwa amayi omwe ali ndi chilengedwe kumangopweteka mwanayo. N'zotheka kuti zonsezi zimachitidwa kuti "azikonzekera" okha, kuti adzichepetse okha. Zili ngati kudzikonda. Ganizirani, koma kodi mukufunikira choonadi chowawa kwa munthu amene munamuponyera? Tsopano khalani ndi udindo pa zomwe inu munachita. Ndipo chisamaliro chidzawonetsa kusasokoneza kwanu pamapeto mwa mwanayo.
Ngati mwanayo amakhala kumudzi wa ana amasiye, ndiye kuti chilakolako chanu chomutengera kunyumba sichiletsedwa. Komabe, konzekerani kuti sangakufulumizetu pamutu pake, akupereka manja ake.
Chinthu china chofala "kulakwitsa kalelo" ndizochitikira pakugwira ntchito zina osati malo abwino kwambiri. Atsikana ambiri amachotsedwa pa malo osatsegula pa intaneti, m'magazini ndi ntchito zina zomwezo. M'tsogolomu, ambiri a iwo amadandaula ndikuchita manyazi. Musadandaule ndikumva chisoni. Chinali chiani-icho chinali. Kotero, pa nthawi imeneyo izo zinali zomveka. Ndipo palibe yemwe ali ndi ufulu wakuweruza iwe.
Zakale sizingathetsedwe, koma kugwira ntchito kuti mupindule tsogolo lanu - chonde.