Ngati muli ndi masewero a masewera, ndipo mukufuna kupereka wokondedwa wanu ndemanga yeniyeni, ganizirani zomwe mungachite kuti mulembe mnyamata kuti amukitse. Pakhoza kukhala njira zambiri, koma ndizofunikira kusankha zomwe zingamve zachirengedwe kuchokera kwa inu - mwinamwake munthu akhoza kutengeka ndi kuseka kapena nthabwala, ndipo amachita mosiyana mosiyana ndi momwe mukuyembekezera.
Momwe mungakondweretse mnyamata mwa makalata?
Monga momwe akudziwira, anthu amavomereza bwino zithunzi zowoneka (ndichifukwa chake kuonera ndi zolaula zimatchuka kwambiri). Ngati simukufuna kutenga nthawi yolemberana, kukhazikitsa kukhudzana ndi zina zotero, ndiye mutha kulemba zomwe mudagula zovala zatsopano, corset kapena kuphatikiza, ndi kutumiza kuwombera chinthu chatsopano. Mwa njira, ngakhale simungatumize chithunzi, koma afotokozere mwatsatanetsatane momwe mukuwonekerako, kumvetsera mwatcheru pachifuwa, m'chiuno ndi m'chiuno, zotsatira zingakhale zochepa.
Amuna amachitanso bwino kuchisoni cha mkazi. Kuganizira za mawu omwe angakondweretse mnyamata, musapange malemba ojambula, koma yesetsani kunena momveka bwino zomwe mukufuna kuchita naye, kangati.
Njira inanso yokondweretsera munthu ndikukukumbutsani za phwando lachidwi lomwe linakhalapo, ndikuwona zinthu zochepa zomwe mumakonda kuposa ena.
Kodi mungakondweretse bwanji mnyamata pa intaneti?
Pa intaneti, osati mauthenga okha omwe alipo, komanso kusinthanitsa mavidiyo ndi mavidiyo, komanso kuyankhulana kwa mavidiyo. Ngati mukufuna, mungasankhe nthawi yoyenera pamene mnyamata sangasokonezedwe, ndipo mumuitane kuti alankhule, mwachitsanzo, mu Skype. Valani zovala zamakono zolimbitsa thupi ndikuyang'ane nazo mu ulemerero wake wonse. Ngati izi zimakhala zodabwitsa kwa iye, mwachiwonekere, zotsatira zokhumba zidzakhala ngati simunanene kanthu.
Mu funso la momwe mungakondweretse mnyamata, ndikofunikira kumvetsa zolinga zomwe mumayesetsa. Ngati mukuyembekezera kuti pambuyo pake adzabwera kwa inu kuti mupitirizebe kusangalala, simungachite manyazi kuti musankhe njira zosangalatsa komanso kupereka chilichonse, mpaka kugonana. Ngati mukufuna kumunyengerera, ndi bwino kuti musamapite kutali, koma kuti mukhale ndi mfundo zowunikira-mwachitsanzo, kunena momwe mwasokonekera, ngati kuti mukudzidetsa nokha thupi lanu.
Kuwonjezera apo, samalani poyambitsa wokondedwa pamene muli kutali ndi wina ndi mzache: nkotheka kuti adzasankha kuchotsa chisangalalo chokwanira ndi mkazi woyamba amene adagwidwa.