Posachedwapa, chikhalidwe chakummawa chasangalatsidwa ndi ife, sichidutsa chidwi ndi moyo wapamtima. Chisangalalo chapadera ndi njira ya kugonana kwa tantric, ndi chitsanzo chomwe chimaphunzitsidwa mu maphunziro opangidwa ndi "gurus" osiyanasiyana. Masiku ano, funso la momwe tingagwirire ndi kugonana kwachilendo ndi lothandiza kokha pakupeza chisangalalo chowonjezeka kuchokera ku chikhalidwe, ngakhale tantra ikuphatikiza mgwirizano osati osati matupi okha, komanso miyoyo.
Njira yothetsera kugonana kwa Tantric
Chizoloŵezi chimenechi chinachokera ku nthawi ya Vperyodic ndipo ndi njira yodzichepetsera, pozindikira momwe mphamvu yogonana imagwiritsidwira ntchito. Sukulu yamakono ya maanju ochuluka amakhulupirira kuti mwamuna ndi mkazi ali awiri osiyana ndi mfundo za Mulungu. Ndipo chiwerewere chomwecho chikulingalira kuti chigwirizanitse ndondomeko izi za uzimu, choncho abwenzi amafunikira mphamvu yowona mphamvu kupyolera mu sushumna (vertebral channel) kupyolera mwa chakras 7. Izi zikutanthauza kuti kugonana kwabambo kumaphatikizapo kusinthana kwa mphamvu zomwe zingathandize okondedwa kuti azidziwana bwino, komanso kuthandizira kudziwa za dziko. Kotero, poyamba tantra ankawoneka ngati chiphunzitso chachipembedzo ndi zikhalidwe zomwe zimachitika mwambo wachihindu - mantras, kusinkhasinkha , kupuma kwa mpweya, ndi zina zotero. Chifukwa cha zomwe anthu ambiri amagonana nazo, mgwirizano umenewu umatha, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti azitha kugonana nawo kutali, ndiko kuti, kutali, wina ndi mzake, akhoza kusinthanitsa mphamvu ndi kusangalala popanda kukondana mwachindunji.
Zomangamanga ndi zochitika za kugonana kwa tantric
Masiku ano zakhala zikugwirizana ndi ziphunzitso zakale ndipo tsopano palibe yemwe akuimba pasanapite nthawi, koma ndi malamulo ena omwe akukhalabe.
Lamulo lalikulu - palibe kuthamanga, okondedwa ayenera kuyesa kukondana wina ndi mnzake malinga ndi momwe mungathere. Chifukwa mumphindi zochepa ndizosatheka kumva wokondedwa, izi zimatenga nthawi, zomwe zimapindula poletsa kudziletsa. Zotsatira za zoyesayesa zoterezi ndizo kugonana kwa nthawi yaitali (mphindi 30-90) ndi zosangalatsa, zomwe sizili zofanana ndi zina. Inde, tikhoza kunena kuti palibe chinthu chapadera pano - madzulo okondana omwe amakhala ndi nthawi yaitali, sizinatsegule, awiriwa akhoza kuwerenga zambiri m'mbiri yake. Choncho, zimakhala kuti aliyense ali ndi zibwenzi zogonana? Koma ayi, kusiyana pakati pa chibwenzi choterocho ndi kugonana komwe kuli kofanana ndi pakati pa masewera olimbitsa thupi ndi yoga.
Mtsogoleri wodziwika kwambiri wauzimu Osho amalankhula za kugonana kwa tantric monga njira yolenga, pamene ubale wapamtima uli ndi cholinga chomasula mphamvu, ndiko kuti, chiwonongeko. Ndicho chifukwa chake chinthu chachikulu mu tantra ndi kusinkhasinkha, kukhala motalika
N'zachidziwikire kuti izi sizidzachitika pazomwe zilili, choncho zokhudzana ndi kugonana kwapakati zimasankhidwa chifukwa cha mwayi wowonana naye ndikumusamalira. Izi zikutanthauza kuti, kugonana koteroko sikudzakhala malo apamwamba, monga "wokwera" kapena "chikhalidwe". Komanso, m'pofunika kupeŵa malo a thupi, pamene kuponderezedwa kwakukulu kumachitika, monga mmishonare, zovuta zidzasangalatsa zosatheka. Imodzi mwa malo abwino kwambiri ndi malo omwe mukukhala moyang'anizana ndi nkhope, mulimonsemo, kuti muyambe bwino ndi izo, ndipo ndi kupeza mwayi, mukhoza kupita kukafunafuna zina zofunika.