Palibe mkazi akufuna kukhumudwa mwa chikondi. Koma kuti mupewe izi, muyenera kudziwa momwe mungadziwire mkazi. Pambuyo pake, kugonana ndi munthu woterewa sikubweretsa kanthu koma kupweteka ndi mkwiyo.
Kodi mungazindikire bwanji mkazi ndi khalidwe lake?
Njira yeniyeni yothetsera chiyanjano ndi munthu woteroyo ndi kuzindikira mwa khalidwe lake panthaŵi ya chibwenzi kuti ndinu womanizer. Kuchita izi n'kovuta, chifukwa womanizer amayesera kumanga maubwenzi mwanjira yakuti mtsikanayo samvetsa zolinga zake. Koma, ngakhale zilipo, pali zizindikiro zomwe zimathandiza kuzindikira womanizer, apa ndi awa:
- Makhalidwe apamwamba a munthu pamene akumana ayenera kuchenjeza mkazi. Kawirikawiri, mnyamatayu amachita manyazi kuti abwere kudzalankhula ndi mtsikanayo yemwe amamukonda. Chifukwa chake, khalidwe lopitilira komanso khalidwe lopanda ulemu lingakhale chizindikiro chakuti mwamuna amakhala ndi chidwi ndi mkazi ngati "wodwalayo" ndipo sadziwa chilichonse kupatulapo kugonana. Kumudziwitsa kuti simukufuna kukondana usiku umodzi, kungathandize osati momwe mungadziwire mkazi wamkazi, komanso kupeŵa maubwenzi osayenera.
- Zobvala zoyera komanso mndandanda wa zofunikira zawo pa zokambirana zoyamba zitha kumuwuza mtsikanayo kuti munthu uyu sangapeze maubwenzi a nthawi yaitali komanso ovuta. Amuna amenewa nthawi zambiri amatsutsa, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti adzayesa kukopa chidwi kwa munthu wawo m'njira iliyonse.
- Zovomerezeka zoyambirira ndi masiku osakumbukika . Inde, izi zikhonza kukamba za zomwe zinachitikira mwamuna, koma nthawi zambiri anyamata sakudziwa momwe angakhalire ndi mtsikana amene amamukonda, choncho ngati munthu akukulimbikitsani kwambiri, muyenera kuganizira ngati akugwiritsira ntchito "nyumba".
- Kusakondweretsa kufotokoza mtsikanayo kwa abwenzi ake ndi achibale ake . Ngati banjali lakhala chibwenzi kwa miyezi isanu ndi iwiri, ndi zachilendo kuti msungwanayo amadziwa mabwenzi angapo a mwamuna wake. Ngati mwamunayo amapewa momveka kuti mkazi amakumana ndi abwenzi ake, izi zikhoza kukhala zizindikiro za maganizo osasangalatsa.