Kodi mungatani kuti mukhale wokongola komanso kuti mukhale wosiyana kwambiri ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha? Funsolo si lophweka, koma izi zikhoza kukhala mkazi aliyense. Kwa ichi muyenera kudziwa zinsinsi pang'ono.
Momwe mungakhalire wokoma ndi ofatsa?
- Ndikulankhulirana komwe munthu amatha kuwonekera. Phunzirani kulankhulana koona. Ikani zonyansa. Muzichita zinthu mwachifundo padziko lonse. Onaninso zokhazokha: musayambe kukambirana ndi mawu akuti "Ndine wokwiya ...". Kuyambira kumphindi yoyamba iwo amatsutsa interlocutor.
- Ngati pangakhale nambala ya atsikana okoma, ndithudi sakanena momwe angayang'anire mau ake, koma momwe angakhalire okongola, kuwonjezera zilembo zoimbira. Choncho, yesetsani kuti musamve kulira pamene mukufunitsitsa kuteteza maganizo anu. Konzani chigamulo cha mawu, kutulutsa mawu osalongosoka.
- Samalani kuyenda kwanu. Chithunzi cha kalembedwe cha Brigitte Bordeaux nthawizonse amamuyamikira ndi kumusangalatsa malingaliro ake, ulemu wake . Kuthamanga kwake kumapangitsa kuti chikazi chikhale chachikazi. Pankhaniyi, mawonekedwe ojambulidwa nthawi zonse amaphimbidwa.
- Kodi mungakhale bwanji wokongola? Khalani odzichepetsa. Chilichonse chiyenera kukhala chokhazikika. Anthu akhala akukondwera ndi kukongola kwachilengedwe, choncho yesetsani kusankha kusankha, zomwe zidzatsindika kukongola kwanu, osati kukupangitsani kukhala munthu wonyansa.
- Samalani mawonekedwe, ukhondo wa tsitsi, misomali, ndi zina zotero. Ndipotu, modabwitsa, "amakumana pa zovala." Maonekedwe anu ayenera kukhala mbali ya dziko lanu lamkati. Samalani kuti kutalika kwa mkanjo, kuya kwa decollete sikuli kovuta kwambiri. Pitani kumalo okongola a ballet, nsapato zokongola, nsapato. Pewani zovala zogwiritsira ntchito mwaluso, zovala, malo, zoopsa. Masewera a masewera, masewera - simukusowa kuti muwasandutse zovala zosasangalatsa za tsiku ndi tsiku.