Gawo la mkango wogulitsa ogulitsa kugonana ndi okwatirana. Ndipo, ine ndikuyenera kuvomereza, anzeru kwambiri ndi apamwamba okwatirana. Kwa zaka zambiri, kugonana kumakhala kosavuta, mukuona, ndizovuta kwambiri pambuyo pa zaka khumi zokhuza banja kuti zisadabwe chinthu chomwe chimakondabe mwamuna. Choncho pa nthawi ngatiyi, maanja ali ndi njira ziwiri:
- kusudzulana - chifukwa kuleza mtima kwa nthaŵi yaitali kumabweretsa mkwiyo, ndi kukwiya ndi mikangano ndi zipolowe;
- Kukonzekera ndi chinthu chimene simunayesedwe pamedi, pankhaniyi, ndizo zazing'ono zamagonana zogonana.
Kodi mungatani kuti musamachite manyazi?
Tikukhala mumtundu wodzisamalira, komwe aliyense amawopa kuti adzawona, kumva, "kugwira" mnzanu komanso pafupi ndi malo ogulitsira kugonana.
Anthu akuopabe izi, chifukwa ndi zovuta kumenyana ndi mafilimu omwe amati anthu opotoka okha amagwiritsira ntchito zikopa zamatsenga, zikwapu ndi zikhomo.
Chidwi chanu pa zogwiritsira ntchito zogonana kwa anthu okwatirana ali ndi chilengedwe chachibadwa. Ndipo ngati mukuwopa kuti mupite kumsika wogonana, konzani kudzera pa intaneti.
Zotani?
Funso lina lovuta ndi lodziwika ndilo ngati simunagwiritse ntchito zinthu ngati izi kale. Mwamuna ali wotopa ndi mwinjiro wanu wam'nyumba, tsitsi lopaka tsitsi komanso osati zovala zoyera kwambiri. Yambani ndi mfundo yoti mumusangalatse ndi makasitomala okondweretsa, masituniketi, masentimita odulidwa ndi kutsogolo. Lolani izi zikhale zakugonana kwanu koyamba, ngakhale osati ndi toyese, koma "chovala" chapadera.
Ngati mwamunayo avomereza luso lanu, yesetsani mitu yawo: tenga zovala za masewero owonetsera. Inde, simuli wojambula, koma kuti mumusewere namwino mukakhala okondwa ndi chilengedwe - ndinu okhoza.
Eya, kenako magwiritsidwe a kugonana sakudziwa malire: moyo waumunthu sungakwanitse kupeza zonse zomwe zingatheke, ziphuphu, ziphuphu, kugonana, masewera, vaginas, mavitamini, zithunzi, komanso ngakhale zidole zapadera.
Okhulupirira za kugonana amakhulupirira molimba mtima kuti zonsezi ndi njira yolondola yopezera ndi kuteteza kusudzulana ambiri okwatirana pa nthawi yachisangalalo. Choncho, timalimbikitsa tizilombo togonana kuti anthu azikhala achilendo. Ndipo phunzirani kulingalira za izi osati monga kugwa ndi chinthu chochititsa manyazi, koma monga wamkulu yemwe ali ndi chidziwitso mwachibadwa. Kodi mwayesapo kugonana toys? Ngakhale kuti yankho lanu silibwino, mulibe khalidwe loyenera kuwatsutsa omwe amawagwiritsa ntchito mosangalala.