Amuna 10 okonda kugonana

Azimayi mwachibadwa amakhala ocheperapo komanso ocheperapo kusiyana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Choncho, nthawi zambiri, malingaliro awo ogonana ndi osavuta. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti atsikana samakonda kugonana. Iwo amangosankha zosiyana zazing'ono zosiyana. Akatswiri a zachikhalidwe cha anthu anachita kafukufuku wapadera, omwe anawulula maganizo okhudzana ndi kugonana kwa amayi. Akatswiri ambiri amaganizo afika pozindikira kuti malingaliro achiwerewere amayendera atsikana nthawi zambiri, mosiyana ndi amuna.

Pamwamba-10

1. Akazi okhwima ambiri amafuna kuti azigonana, ngakhale pazifukwa zina amabisa mfundo iyi. Maganizo okhudza ubwino wokhala pabedi akhoza kukhala osiyana komanso osasangalatsa. Ndipo ulamuliro uwu ukhoza kuwonetseredwa ngakhale mu mawonekedwe okhwima, mwachitsanzo, kumangiriza munthu ndi handcuffs pabedi ndi kuchita nawo, chirichonse.
2. Njirayi ndi mbali yotsatila yoyamba. Pali akazi omwe amakonda kumvera komanso kukwaniritsa zokhumba za anthu. Amakonda malamulo ndi malamulo onse a amuna. Mwina chosavuta kwambiri ndi kugwiritsa ntchito manja. Kuyankhulana kumathera ndi kukwaniritsa kugwirizana kwa zilakolako, ndiwonetsedwe kotereku komwe kumayesedwa bwino.
3. Zimapezeka kuti amayi ambiri amakopeka ndi fano la otchedwa achilendo usiku. Pa nthawi yomweyo, ayenera kukhala wamtali, wamphamvu ndi wolimba mtima. Akazi amangoganiza zokomana ndi mlendo wabwino pakati pa usiku ndikupanga chikondi kwa iye. Monga lamulo, munthu uyu sayenera kukhala ndi zinthu zomveka bwino, chifukwa chithumwa chonsecho chimakhala mu chithunzi chodabwitsa, chomwe chimatha nthawi yomweyo chiyambireni.
4. Akazi ogwira ntchito m'maofesi nthawi zambiri amalota kuti azigonana ndi abwana awo kapena anzawo. Komanso, zinthu ziyenera kukhala mwadzidzidzi, popanda kukonzekera. Kugonana pa ofesi ya ofesi pakati pa tsiku logwira ntchito kapena pambuyo pa ntchito ndi chimodzi mwa ziganizo zazikulu zogonana. Komanso, amai nthawi zambiri amalota za chikondi.
5. Lingaliro lamakono lachinyengo ndi chikondi chosatha. Amayi ambiri, makamaka omwe sakhala okonda nthawi yaitali, amalota maola ambiri osangalala omwe amakhala osachepera maola angapo. Mu malingaliro awa, chikondi chenicheni ndi chowonadi chimakhala ndi gawo lalikulu kwambiri pamene mkazi sangathe kudzichotsa yekha ku chinthu chomwe iye akuchikongoletsa.
6. Ndizodabwitsa, koma zozizwitsa zazimayi zomwe zimawonekera kwambiri ndizogwiriridwa. Koma tisaiwale kuti amayi akulota malingaliro oterowo pokhapokha atakhala osatetezeka, ndiko kuti, kukhala otetezeka. Chiwonetsero cha malingaliro awa m'moyo weniweni sichivomerezeka. M'malo mwake, mungathe kugwiritsa ntchito njira yachiwiri kapena kusewera masewero owonetsera.
7. Chimodzi mwa malingaliro achikazi okhumba kwambiri ndi achiwerewere pamalo osayenera . Funso la kukwaniritsidwa kwa malingaliro oterowo kumadalira kulimbika kwa mmodzi wa zibwenzi. Kugonana kungathe kuchitika kulikonse - m'chipinda choyenera, chihema, boti, padenga, ndi zina zotero. Zopeka izi zimathandiza kuwunikira masiku amtundu ndi nthawi zamasiku onse.
8. Zinadziŵikiranso kuti amayi ambiri amangoyamba kuchita nawo hule nthawi imodzi. Chikhumbo chingakhale chosiyana kwambiri, kuchoka ku mahule achiwerewere kupita ku anthu olemekezeka. Kugonana koteroko ndikolakalaka, molimba mtima ndi kumasulidwa, kumene mkazi angathe kudziulula yekha ndikudziwonetsera yekha.
9. Amayi ambiri amalota za kugonana kwachiwerewere, pamalo ena osazolowereka ndi wokondedwa wawo. Kawirikawiri chinthu cholingalira choterocho ndi Amaliyana, omwe onse amadziwika chifukwa cha chilakolako chawo ndi chikondi chawo panthawi yomweyo. Apa zosankha zingakhale zosiyana kwambiri.
10. Palinso malingaliro okhudza kugonana kwa magulu. Nthano iyi ndi yotchuka kwambiri pakati pa onse, komabe ali ndi malo oti akhale. Pa nthawi yomweyi mpikisano sayenera kukhalapo, ndipo abambo ayenera kukhala okongola, osungunuka ndi kuyamikiridwa ndi mkazi. Mkhalidwe uwu, ngakhale kugonjera kwa mkazi n'zotheka.