Sizodziwika kuti nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kwa munthu yemwe samadya chifukwa cha kugwirizana. Zikatero, amayi ambiri amakondwera ngati mwamuna akhoza kukonda nthawi, ndipo amayenera kuchita chiyani kuti apambane osankhidwawo. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amati chirichonse chiri chotheka, chofunikira kwambiri, kudziwa zinsinsi zina ndi kuzigwiritsa ntchito molondola.
Momwe mungapangire munthu kukukondani?
Choyamba, tifunika kunena za lamulo lofunika kwambiri - simukusowa kuvala mask ndi kuchita nawo, chifukwa posachedwa chinyengo chidzawululidwa, chomwe chidzapangitsa mikangano, ndipo mwinamwake kupatukana .
Mmene mungapangire mwamuna kukonda mkazi:
- Chilichonse chimene anganene, koma anthu amakonda maso, choncho mkazi amayenera kuyang'ana ndi singano. Chilichonse chiyenera kukhala chodziwikiratu, izi zimagwiritsidwa ntchito kumapangidwe ndi zovala.
- Kwa amuna, nkofunika kuti mkaziyo azikonda abwenzi ake, koma pa nkhaniyi ndikofunika kuti asapitirire kutero ndipo, mwinamwake kuti asakonde nawo.
- Oimira abambo amphamvu ndi osaka, choncho musakakamizedwe mwamuna. Choncho muiwale za kuyitana nthawi zonse ndi mauthenga ambirimbiri.
- Kulankhula za zomwe mungachite kuti mwamuna azikukondani, ndi bwino kupereka uphungu umodzi wowonjezera - kukhala mayi wabwino wa nyumba. Izi ndi zomwe asungwana amakono alibe. Mwamuna adzayamikira ukhondo ndi chitonthozo m'nyumba, komanso chakudya chokoma pa tebulo.
- Zimakhala zovuta kukumana ndi munthu yemwe safuna kukhala msilikali, choncho mkazi ayenera kuchita zonse zomwe zingatheke kuti amve. Kuti tichite izi, ndi bwino kupempha thandizo, ngakhale ngati nkhaniyo ikutheka.
- Oimira machitidwe ogonana amphamvu monga kutamandidwa, motero n'kofunika kuzindikira ulemu wawo ndi zotsatira zawo. Kuchita izi n'koyenera, komanso kunena zoona.
- Khalani otsimikiza, chifukwa mkazi wosasangalala komanso wokwiya samakonda anthu ambiri. Ndikofunika kupanga chikhalidwe cha kuwala ndi chimwemwe.