Kodi hetero-kutanthauza chiyani?

Kawirikawiri mukamadzaza mitundu yosiyana komanso poyamba pa tsamba la chibwenzi pa tsambali, muyenera kudzaza malo otsogolera. Tsambali limapereka njira zitatu: hetero-, bi- ndi homo-. Kugonana kwa chiwerewere kumatanthauza kusankha woimira mwamuna kapena mkazi ngati mwamuna kapena mkazi.

Mauthenga otsogolera - momwe mungamvetsetse izi?

Ngakhale kuti chaka chilichonse chiwerengero cha amuna kapena akazi okhaokha chimawonjezeka, anthu ambiri padziko lapansi amagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Amakondana kwambiri ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo.

Kuti timvetse zomwe zikutanthawuza, hetero-orientation, asayansi m'madera osiyanasiyana a dziko adachita kafukufuku. Nkhaniyi inakhudzidwa koyamba ndi Richard Kraft-Ebing. Wasayansi akupereka lingaliro lakuti kugonana kwa chiwerewere ndi mtundu wa chibadwa mwa zolengedwa zamoyo, chifukwa ndi iye amene amalola munthu kupitirizabe mtunduwo. Kafukufuku wa katswiri wina wamasayansi Kinsey analola kuti kugonana kuguluke mu subtypes.

Asayansi ambiri, kumvetsetsa tanthauzo la chikhalidwe chosagwirizana, amanena kuti laikidwa mwa munthu pa chibadwa, koma palinso kachiwiri komwe kamapangidwa panthawi ya moyo, yomwe ikuchitika pa maphunziro.

Monga tanenera kale, kupatulapo kugonana kwa amuna ndi akazi okhaokha, pali awiri ndi amuna ndi akazi okhaokha. Tiyeni tiyankhule za izi mwatsatanetsatane:

1. Kugonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi njira yomwe imasonyeza kukhalapo kwa chikoka, kwa mwamuna ndi mkazi.
2. Kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi chikhalidwe chomwe chimalimbikitsa kukhalapo kwa malingaliro kwa anthu ogonana.

Lero, nkhani yodziwa zochitika zina zogonana kusiyana ndi kugonana ndi amuna okhaokha ndizovuta kwambiri. M'mayiko ena, mwachitsanzo, ku America, ngakhale kulembedwa kwa maukwati ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kunaloledwa mwalamulo. Zinthu zosiyana ndizo ku Russian Federation, komwe m'chaka cha 1999 chinaperekedwa chigamulo, kuti chiwerewere ndi chizoloŵezi, ndipo zofuna zogonana ndizo zoperewera.

Momwe mungadziwire kugonana kwa hetero, bi ndi homo?

Popeza kuti kugonana kumakhala kosiyanasiyana komanso kosasintha, sikuti anthu onse angathe kudziwa molondola zao. Ndi ntchitoyi idzakuthandizani kulimbana ndi kugonana kwa Klein.

Poyesa kugonana kwawo, ndikofunikira mu miyeso itatu: zaka zapitazo (zaka zisanu zapitazo), zomwe zilipo (chaka chatha) ndi tsogolo labwino, kulingalira magawo asanu ndi awiri

1. Kukukopa kwa kugonana - oimira zogonana amachititsa chisangalalo chochuluka.
2. Mchitidwe wokhudzana ndi kugonana - ndi oimira za kugonana komwe amachita zosiyana zogonana: kumpsompsonana, kugonana, ndi zina zotero.
3. Kuganiza za kugonana - oimira zogonana zomwe mumakonda kuziimira m'maganizo anu, komanso omwe mumaganizira pa nthawi ya kudzikondweretsa.
4. Zosangalatsa zaumtima - zomwe anthu amakonda kukhala mabwenzi, kusunga maubwenzi, kugawana zinthu zobisika, ndi zina zotero.
5. Zomwe anthu amakonda - ndi oimirira za kugonana komwe kuli kosavuta kupeza kukhudzana ndi moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku: ntchito, kulankhulana, kuthera nthawi yopuma.
6. Ndi otsogolera omwe mumakonda, nthawi zambiri mumagwiritsa ntchito nthawi yanu yaulere: ndi abambo, amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
7. Kudzidziwitsira - ndi mtundu wotani womwe mumadziganizira nokha.

Pezani pepala, ligawikeni muzitsulo zitatu: zakale, zamtsogolo, ndi zam'tsogolo . Pambuyo pake, lembani mizere isanu ndi iwiri pa kuwerenga izi. Zotsatira zake, mu maselo 21, nambala za 0 mpaka 6 ziyenera kulembedwa.

Kusankha mayankho:

• 0 - anthu okhaokha amuna kapena akazi okhaokha;
• 1 - makamaka anthu osagonana, koma nthawizina awo;
• 2 - amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amachititsa chidwi, koma anthu omwe amagonana nawo amachitanso mbali yofunikira;
• 3 - chimodzimodzi kwa onse, ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha;
• 4 - mtengo 2, koma motsutsana;
• 5 - mtengo 1, koma motsutsana;
• 6 - anthu okhawo omwe amagonana nawo.

Muyenera kuwerengera ndalamazo pazomwe zilipo, ndikugawaniza phindu lomwe mwapeza. 3. Pambuyo pake, onjezerani zotsatira za mndandanda uliwonse, ndipo patukani zotsatirapo 21.