Momwe mungavomerezere kwa mnyamata wachikondi, ngati ndinu wamanyazi?

Kunyada kwakukulu kungakhale cholepheretsa cholinga chanu ndi maloto a chimwemwe ndi wokondedwa wanu. Wothandiza kwambiri kwa anthu odzichepetsa mwachibadwa adzakhala Internet, chifukwa ndi mawonekedwe ake, ambiri ali ndi abwenzi ndipo akuwonjezera bwalo la anzawo. Koma pambali pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti pali njira zambiri zoti muvomereze kwa mnyamata wachikondi, ngati ndinu wamanyazi, koma momwe, adzanenedwera m'nkhaniyi.

Kodi mungavomereze bwanji kuti mumakonda mnyamata popanda kuchoka panyumba?

1. Ingotumiza uthenga wa SMS ndi mawu okondedwa. Ngati yankho la wothandizirayo silo lomwe mukufuna kuwona, mukhoza kulemba kuti munalakwitsa nambalayi.
2. Njira yomweyi, koma pokhapokha ndikugwirizanitsa ndi kompyuta. Ngati mnyamatayo ali "abwenzi" kumalo ena ochezera a pa Intaneti, lembani kuvomereza. Kuwonjezera pa njirayi ndikuti palibe amene adzawone ndikuona manyazi, kuponderezana, nkhope yofiira ndi manja otumidwa. Ndipo ngati mutakhala kuti munavomereza kwa munthu wachifundo, ndipo iye samakhala chete kapena amalemba mawu akuyankhidwa, ndiye kuti maganizo ake akhoza kufotokozedwa mwachidwi, mwakutumiza chizindikiro "Joke" kapena kulemba kuti wothandizirayo akulakwitsa.
3. Pokhala ndi chidaliro mu chifundo chake, mukhoza kuulula mokweza polemba "pamtambo" kapena pansi pa chithunzi. Mukhoza kupanga signature pansi pa mphatso. Mwa njira, iyo ikhoza kukhala yanyumba, kotero wotumizayo adzatsegulidwa kokha kwa owonjezera.
4. Mungathe kukhazikitsa tsamba latsopano pansi pa dzina lachinyengo ndikupatseni chinthu chamzanu wachifundo ndi kuyankhulana. Izi zidzakuthandizani kuphunzira zambiri za iye komanso ngati pali malo omasuka mumtima mwake.

Maso ali m'diso

Zoonadi, kuvomereza chikondi kwa mnyamata mwachindunji sikophweka, pambali, ambiri amakayikira ngati n'zotheka kuvomereza mnyamatayo mwachikondi poyamba. Koma ngati ali wamanyazi komanso wosamvetsetseka, ndiye kuti azungulira kuti muthe kuyenda kwa nthawi yayitali, choncho palibe kanthu koma osadziŵa. Koma nthawi ino ikhoza kugwiritsidwa ntchito phindu, kupanga wina ndi mnzake kukhala wosangalala komanso wosangalala kwambiri! Kuwonjezera pa lero, mosiyana ndi zaka zapitazi, anyamata akuthandizira ndipo mwachibadwa amasonyeza kuti akuwoneka kuti ndi ofooka komanso sakuwona cholakwika chilichonse chifukwa chakuti atsikana ndi oyamba kuwamvera chisoni. Choncho, kulimbika mtima kuti tikwaniritse maganizo atsopano.

Njira zingapo zovomerezeka kuti muzimukonda mwamuna mwa mawu anuanu:

1. Kuti musinthe mkhalidwewu, momwe mungakhalire nokha ndikumufunsa mosapita m'mbali munthuyo momwe angayankhire ngati avomereza kwa iye mwachikondi. Mungathe kunena kuti mukukonzekera mawu okhumba ndipo mukuwopa kuti mnyamatayo adzachita zosayenera. Mwa zomwe amachitapo ndi kuyankha, mudzamvetsetsa chilichonse.
2. Anthu omwe ali odziletsa kwambiri, mungathe kunena mwazinthu zina: "Ndimakukondani" ndikuyang'ana zomwe zimachitika. Ngati mnyamatayo akadali wosayanjanitsika, yesetsani kutembenuza chirichonse kukhala nthabwala kapena kunena zomwe anamva.
3. Mutha kumuwerengera ndakatulo pa mutu wachikondi ndikumufunsa zomwe akulingalira. Chinthu chachikulu ndikubweretsa zokambiranazo ku mutu woyenera, ndipo m'tsogolomu sizidzakhala zovuta kupeza mgwirizano wake.

Zoonadi, kudziwika nokha ndi njira yolondola yophunzirira za mzimayi weniweni, koma ngati manyazi ndi aakulu kwambiri moti simungathe kugwiritsa ntchito njira yotereyi, nthawi zonse mulembe chikondi ndikuchiika m'thumba, buku kapena kwina. Tsiku la Sabata la Valentine ndi nthawi yabwino yodziwika, chifukwa tsiku lino aliyense adzapatsana makadi omwe ali ndi mtima wochitira moni ndipo makamaka wamanyazi akhoza kutenga mphindi. Mukhoza kupempha mnzanu kuti akuthandizeni: Mulole am'funse munthuyo za chifundo chake. Ndipo ngati mutayankhulana mu kampani imodzi, zidzakhala zosavuta kuti mudziwe poyankhula ndi bwenzi lake lapamtima.