Amakhulupirira kuti mkazi ndi wovuta kumvetsa. Ndipo iwo amaganiza chotero, ndithudi, amuna. Zoposa mbadwo umodzi wa asayansi mumayendedwe a maganizo amaganiza kuti asinthe zomwe mkaziyo akufuna. Koma mu malingaliro aumunthu, iwo samakumba mochititsa chidwi kwambiri. Ndikudabwa chifukwa ichi chikuchitika? Ndipotu, amayi amakhala okhudzidwa kwambiri ndi zoyembekezeka za amuna, ndipo zomwe akufuna - sizidziwika.
Timapereka kuti tiganizire pa mutu wakuti "Kodi mwamuna akufuna, kapena mtsikana wabwino pamaso pa anthu." Inde, amuna onse amafuna kuwona mkazi wochenjera, wokongola, wachuma pambali pawo. Koma makhalidwe omwe akufotokozedwa ali opangidwa kwambiri. Ndipo munthu aliyense pansi pa mawu akuti "wochenjera", "wokongola," "chuma" amaona chinachake chake. Komanso makhalidwe amenewa sangathe kuwerengedwa mofanana, motero, zotsatira za kuyerekezera, mwachitsanzo, azimayi awiri aluntha adzadalira kwambiri zomwe zimachitika, komanso zomwe amai amachita mu moyo wa munthu. Ndipotu, mayi wamkazi, mzanga wamkazi, mtsogoleri wamkazi ayenera kukhala ndi makhalidwe osiyana. Koma tikuyesa kufotokoza zomwe msungwana wabwino ali, malingaliro a amuna ndi anyamata .
- Pafupifupi theka la gawo lachimuna la dziko lathu liyamba ndi nzeru za mkazi. Koma pa nthawi yomweyi, amuna ambiri samawakonda ngati mtsikana kapena mkazi amasonyeza ubwino wake wopambana pa chikhalidwe cholimba. Chifukwa chake timapeza mfundo yosavuta: kudzera mwa amuna ndi anyamata, msungwana wabwino ayenera kukhala wanzeru, koma panthawi yomweyi abisala mwaluso.
- Pa malo awiri ofunika kwambiri, amuna adayika deta zakunja. Koma, mwinamwake, palibe chidziwitso chowongolera kuposa kukongola kwa akazi. Ndipo sitidzadabwa wina aliyense ngati titanena kuti kukongola kwa ukazi kwa mwamuna aliyense kapena chibwenzi ndi chosiyana.
- Kachitatu, makhalidwe a amayi awiri amatengedwa mwakamodzi. Izi ndizo kukoma mtima ndi kukhulupirika. Ndipo ngati mokhulupirika chirichonse chiri chodziwika bwino, ndiye mwachifundo pangakhale miyeso yowonjezera. Wina amaganiza kuti ndikokwanira kuti mayi wabwino akhale wachifundo, wachifundo komanso wololera kwa anthu, ndipo amuna ena amamvetsetsa chikhumbo cha utumiki wosakhudzidwa ndi anthu komanso kudzimana.
- Ndiponso maso abwino a anyamata a anyamata ayenera kukhala achikazi. Pansi pa izi, anyamata ndi abambo amamvetsetsa kufatsa, kufooka kwazimayi, chisomo, chifundo ndi zambiri, makhalidwe abwino.
- Mosakayika, msungwana wabwino ayenera kukhala wamkono ndi wofunikira kwa mwamuna. Koma kachiwiri, kukonda kwanu kwa amuna kumasiyana kwambiri. Ndipo ngakhale kuganizira kuti munthu amakonda maso ake, ndiye chimodzimodzi, amayi omwewo akhoza kumakonda munthu mmodzi, ndi wina-ayi.
- N'zosangalatsa kuti amuna ochepa amatsindika izi monga kusamalira chuma. Lingaliro lawo ndi ili: msungwana sichiyenera kuti akhale wachuma, koma ndizophatikizapo zokondweretsa kwa zina zonse za makhalidwe azimayi. Koma posankha bwenzi limodzi la moyo, chuma chikupita patsogolo. Choncho, atsikana ayenera kuganizira ngati mnyamata wawo ndi wokhulupirika kuti simukuphika, kapena sakonda kuyeretsa. Mwinamwake iye samangowona moyo wake wamtsogolo ndi inu.
- Maso abwino a anyamata ndi anyamata ayenera kukhala woona mtima ndi kuleza mtima.
Kukhulupilira n'kofunika kwa inu. Koma apa ndikofunika kuti musapite ku zovuta zina ndipo musasonyeze chidwi pa zomwe zikuchitika. Choncho, yesetsani kusokoneza munthu yemwe ali ndi mafunso, komanso mochulukirapo, musamufunse kuti afotokoze mwatsatanetsatane za milandu yonse yomwe adachitapo masana. Koma musonyeze chidwi ngati iye mwini akufuna kuti akuuzeni momwe tsiku lake linayendera. - Kumbukiraninso za nsanje. Ayi, sitinakukulangizeni kuti muzichitira nsanje mwamuna wanu wamkazi. Koma musawope kulankhula zakukhosi kwanu ngati mukuwoneka ngati mukukayikira. Nsanje yofanana idzapindulitsa ubwenzi wanu.