Mabwenzi onse awiri awiri. Choncho timakonzekera kuti tilole chikondi chachikulu ndi choyera, koma kulera sikutithandiza kuti tiyambe kudziwana ndi oyamba, chifukwa sizolondola, pansi pa ulemu wathu, ndi zina zotero. ndi zina zotero. Nchifukwa chiani chinachitika kuti mkazi ali ndi chiwopsezo choyang'anira moyo wake, koma safuna kutenga chirichonse m'manja mwake?
Nchiyani chimalepheretsa kumudziwa bwino mwamuna?
Pali zifukwa zingapo zomwe zimapangitsa kuti tikhale osungulumwa ndipo sitingapeze chimwemwe chathu:
- kudzikayikira;
- kusowa nthawi pa nthawi yofulumira kwambiri ya moyo;
- Kukana kupirira zofooka kapena zizoloŵezi za anthu ena;
- sitidziwa kumene mungakumane nawo komanso momwe mungakhalire.
Ngati zifukwa zitatu zoyambirira zikuthandizani kusintha pang'ono kudzera m'mabuku osiyanasiyana monga "Njira Yopambana" kapena "Momwe Mungalankhulire ndi Anthu", ndiye kuti mfundo yotsiriza imakhala ndi yankho lolondola. Phunzirani momwe mungalankhulire ndi kupeza malo omwe mungakumane naye mnyamata, mungathe popanda mavuto.
Kumene mungapeze munthu wabwino?
Chinthu choyamba ndi chofunika kwambiri: ngati mumakhulupirira kuti simungapambane, mungatsimikize kuti izi zidzachitika. Choncho, pansi pa mawu akuti "Ndine wokongola komanso wokongola kwambiri" timachoka:
- Ku sitolo. Inde, inde, anali m'sitolo. Mukudziyerekezera kuti munamutenga kuti mukamufunsitse malonda ndikupempha thandizo, ndiye mutamwetulira ndipo mupemphabe. Musakhale waulesi kuti muyang'ane mu trolley yake, zomwe zili mkati mwake zidzakuuzani ngati ziri bwino kuti mupitirize kukambirana (kukhalapo kwa anthu ojambula kapena zizindikiro zochokera mu "mndandanda wazimayi" zikupatsani chizindikiro chofiira). Kapena mwinamwake iye anangogula zitoliro ndipo zinatsimikizirika kuti panalibenso munthu woti am'phike? Pachifukwa ichi, modzichepetsa tisonyezerani kuti mumakonda pelmeni, koma mumakonda kuphika nokha. Chabwino, munthu angamane bwanji?
- Mu masewera olimbitsa thupi . Malo ochepetsera thupi, ndi mbiri yabwino - iyi ndi malo abwino kumene mungakumane ndi munthu wabwino. Mupemphe iye kuti athandize pogwiritsa ntchito projectile kapena kumupempha kuti afotokoze momwe angagwiritsire ntchito moyenera, musaiwale kuyamika! Kawirikawiri ndi malo olimbitsa thupi ali ndi tiyi tiyi, iyi ndi malo abwino komwe mungadziwe bwino ndi munthu wokondweretsa ndi wolemera.
- Mu cafe. Unobtrusively funsani za momwe mungadyetse apa. Funsani kuti mudziwe chomwe chiri chokoma kwambiri, khalani pansi pa tebulo lapafupi - kuti mutha kupewa chochititsa manyazi ngati munthuyo akuyembekezera kale munthu wina.
- Malo abwino oti mukumane ndi munthu ndi "chipinda chosuta" . Ingofunsani kuwala, kuyambitsanso zokambiranazo ndipo musaiwale kunena kuti ali ndi kukoma kwabwino, popeza amasuta fodya (ngakhale zili zotani, chinthu chachikulu ndikutamanda).
- M'zinthu zazikulu zamalonda ndizosavuta kudziwana bwino. Simukusowa kuyang'ana malo apadera kuti mudziwe bwino mwamuna wabwino, zongokwanira kuti mugwetse mulu wa mapepala pafupi ndi iye. Munthu wobadwa bwino adzakuthandizani
kusonkhanitsa chirichonse, chabwino, ndiye-bizinesi ya sayansi. - Mutha kudziŵa bwino popanda kumvetsera mwatcheru malo omwe mungakumane naye. Zokwanira kungoyamba kukambirana, ngati kuti mwadziwana kwa zaka zana, ndikuseka ndikuvomereza kuti mwawapanga dzina lanu.
- Sikofunika kokha malo omwe mungapeze munthu wabwino, komanso nthawi . Mu chikwama cha usiku, simungathe kukhala pachibwenzi cholimba. Koma ndizotheka kuti musayambe kukambirana panthawi yamasana mu cafe, koma mwadzidzidzi mudzadya mgonero pamodzi?
Musaiwale: Ngati mwaganiza kale kuti mupeze malo oti mumudziwe bwino, muyambe kudziyesa nokha! Chotsani mawu-zowonongeka, yesetsani zochita zanu ngati mumathamangira ndi kukakamira. Chiyanjano choyamba nthawi zambiri chimayambitsa chitukuko cha maubwenzi, kotero zovala ziyenera kukhala zosasangalatsa (zofanana ndi kupanga). Munthu aliyense amasankha zinthu zonse yekha, choncho mumuthandize kusankha kukumana nanu!