Chikondi - mumayimba ndi ndakatulo. Zolemba zanu zayesedwa kwa zaka mazana ambiri ndi akatswiri a filosofesa. Akatswiri a zamaganizo ali okonzeka kusokoneza zakuya kwake ndikusokoneza malingaliro anu pogwiritsa ntchito microscope, kuti asinthe chikhalidwe chanu. Wina amaganiza kuti ndiwe mphatso yakumwamba, wina amakuitanani kuti ndinu, koma ndinu munthu yemwe simunalipo.
Koma tiyeni tisiye magulu a filosofi tsopano, tiyeni tibwerere ku dziko lapansi lochimwa, ndipo yesetsani kumvetsa chomwe chiri - chikondi, ndi momwe zidziwonetsera.
Momwe mungamvetsetse - mumakonda, kapenanso chizoloŵezi?
Nthawi zambiri mumatha kumva kuti pakapita nthawi, aliyense, ngakhale kukondana kwambiri kumachepetsa makhalidwe awo abwino, ndipo chikondi chimatha pang'onopang'ono, kusiya, bwino, chikondi ndi kulemekezana, ndipo poyipa ndi chizoloŵezi chokhala pamodzi. Nthano zachinsinsi mu mawu awa, ndithudi, ziri, koma, mwinamwake, ndizogawika kwambiri. Inde, patatha zaka zambiri ndikukhala pamodzi ndivuta kuyembekezera ku chiyanjano cha mkuntho umodzi wa chilakolako monga miyezi yoyamba yolidziwa. Munthu amazoloŵera zonse, zabwino ndi zoipa, ndikutaya zachilendo, zomwe zimayendetsa mutu kumayambiriro kwa buku (mwa njira, ngati tikulankhula za biochemistry ya thupi laumunthu, pali chizoloŵezi cha oxytocin, chinthu chomwe chimayambitsa chikondi, ndipo chiri ndi udindo zokondweretsa). Koma zaka siziwononga nthawi zonse chikondi. Kawirikawiri amawamasulira kukhala khalidwe linalake: ndipo chikondi chochokera pansi pamtima chimakhala chidziwitso chenicheni, ngakhale chosakhala chowala kwambiri, koma chimatha kutentha moyo wathu ndi chikondi chathu kwa zaka zambiri, chimakula.
Maganizowa ndi ovuta kusokoneza ndi chizoloŵezi, koma chizoloŵezi cha zochitika za tsiku ndi tsiku kapena kupsinjika kwa nthawi yaitali kungapangitse kukayika kukayikira kwake. Kuti mumvetse ngati ichi ndi chikondi, ganizirani momwe mudzamvera ngati mutadzuka ndikupeza kuti yemwe adayenda nanu kupyolera mu moyo adatayika kwamuyaya. Ngati yankho liri - chabwino, zikomo Mulungu, zikuwoneka ngati kuti mwatsopano wabadwa, ndiye mwinamwake muli ogwirizana ndi chinachake chomwe sichikugwirizana ndi chikondi. Komabe, ndibwino kuti musasokoneze kutentha, koma kuti mupite kukaonana ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo - mwina osati chirichonse chomwe chatayika.
Kodi mungamvetse bwanji kuti ichi ndi chikondi chenicheni?
Pamwamba pake panali funso la "odziwa bwino" maanja, koma funso la chikhalidwe cha malingaliro omwe atha, nthawi zina amawachezera awo omwe maubwenzi awo adayamba posachedwapa. Pankhaniyi, izi ndizowopsya chabe - popeza kukayikira koteroko sikungoyambe kuyanjana pachiyambi. Nthawi yokonda chikondi sichitha nthawi yokhala ndi chidwi. Ngakhale, n'zotheka ndi njira yomwe, pamene mumamudziwa kwambiri, mumayamba kumukonda kwambiri. Njira imodzi, tiyenera kuyembekezera kukula kwa zochitika, ndipo ngati kukayikira kumangowonjezeka, mwinamwake sikuti ndi munthu amene akufunikira.