Kodi mungakumane bwanji ndi mnyamata?

Choyamba, tiyeni tidzipange okha ndi chidziwitso chodabwitsa ichi chodabwitsa chimene kwa zaka zambiri mitima ya anthu onse yazunzidwa.

Asayansi, okonda kuwononga nkhani zabwino, ngakhale kumverera kumeneku kunatha kusokoneza ndi kuwona pansi pa microscope. Ndipo iwo adawona chiyani kumeneko? Zovala zambiri. Chabwino, si zachilendo. Mahomoni, malo oledzera, kuyambira zaka zitatu mpaka zitatu zomwe zimakhudza ubongo wa munthu. Mtima unanjenjemera, kuthamanga kudutsa thupi lake ... "Ichi ndi chikondi," mukuganiza. "This phenylethylamine inakula kuchuluka kwa adrenaline ndi endorphins," anatero asayansi. "Ayi," mumakwiya, "ndimakonda munthu uyu, ndikufuna kukhala naye moyo wanga wonse, ndikufuna kuphunzitsa ana athu, kugawana chimwemwe ndi chisoni ...". "Inde," asayansi amati, "ziyenera kukhala choncho, chilengedwe chimasamalira kusunga mitunduyo." Kotero musanadziwe bwino ndi mnyamata amene mumakonda, dziwani ngati mukufuna munthuyo kapena mahomoni akutsogolerani.

Ngakhale kupsompsona kwa sayansi yomwe inkaikidwa pa masamulovu. Zimakhala kuti panthawi yopsompsona ubongo wanu umayang'ana "mankhwala" a mnzanuyo, amasonkhanitsa deta yonse kuti apitirizebe kupitirira. Asayansi amafufuza mopanda nzeru maganizo athu ndi mtima wathu. Ndipo pamapeto, iwo amafalitsa chikondi mu mamolekyu. Choonadi chinapangidwira chofunika kwambiri kwa ife - ngati mumakonda munthu, ndiye chilengedwe chakupatsani kuti mumamukonda.

Eya, asayansi asamalire madzulo ndi michere ndi microscopes, tikhoza kudya chakudya chamakono ndi makandulo, zilakolako zachiwawa, ndi banja losangalala. Pano pano choyamba muyenera kudziwa m'mene mungamudziwire.

Inde, ngati mukudzidalira nokha, wokongola ndi wokondweretsa, ndiye sikungakhale vuto kuti mumudziwe bwino. Zidzakhala zokwanira kuti amve kuti amakukondani. Chokhacho, ndiye kuti palibe asungwana ambiri olimba mtima komanso odalirika. Kawirikawiri, ngakhale atsikana okongola kwambiri amavutika ndi ma complexes, chifukwa cha zomwe amakhala otsekedwa komanso osagwirizana. Ndiye mumapeza bwanji mtsikana wabwino mtsikana amene amaganiza kuti ndi wamba komanso wosakondweretsa? Iye amakhulupirira, chifukwa, wokondedwa wanga, munthu aliyense ali wokha ndi wokondweretsa.

Kotero, iwe unadziuza wekha kuti: "Ndikufuna kukomana ndi mnyamata!" Kodi ndichite chiyani kenako? Ndi njira ziti zomwe mungakumane ndi mnyamata wogwiritsa ntchito atsikana masiku ano?

Chuma cha zana lathu ndi intaneti. Mukungoyenera kufotokozera magawo oyenera pa malo ochezera a chibwenzi kapena pamalo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndikukhala mosasamala kuchokera kwa anthu ambiri omwe akufunitsitsa kudziwana bwino. Mmodzi "koma" - mumoyo mwina sangakhale munthu amene akumwetulira kuchokera pa zithunzi pa tsamba.

Koma musanayambe kudziwana ndi mnyamata wokongola pamsewu, yesetsani kuti muwononge pang'ono. Mwina khalidwe lake silidzakhala lokongola monga momwe alili. Koma ngati mutasankha, khalani olimba. Musamangokhalira kukumbukira momwe mungamudziwire munthuyo. Zidzakhala zosasamala ndipo sizidzasangalatsa. Chitani momwe mumamvera. Chinthu chachikulu ndikumvetsera, koma musakhale ovuta kwambiri. Ngati ali ndi chikhumbo chokumana, padzakhala zowonongeka zokwanira. Ngakhale, ngati mumaganiza kuti ndi wamanyazi, yesani kuyambitsa kukambirana.

Musanayambe kumudziwa, yang'anani naye - ganizirani zomwe angakonde, komwe angagwire ntchito. Izi zidzakuthandizani kuti muyambe kukambirana ndi kumukonda.

Mwina muli ndi mwayi wopeza nambala ya foni ya munthu amene mumamukonda. Tiyeni tiganizire zomwe tingalembere mnyamata kukomana? Ndibwino kuyambitsa makalata ndi mawu ena oseketsa - zoseketsa sizongopeka.

Ngati simunayese kuti mutenge masitepe, yang'anani mumzinda wanu komwe mungakumane naye munthu wabwino. Zimadalanso ndi zomwe mumakonda. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mumadana mpira, ndiye kuti ndi bwino kupatula nthawi pa masewera a mpira? Ndipo ngakhale mutakhalapo ndikudziƔa wina, kodi mumabweretsa chisangalalo kwa kampaniyo?

Inde, ndi bwino kusankha nthawi yomweyo chifukwa mukufuna kukomana ndi mnyamata. Mukufuna ubale weniweni kapena wachidule, wokondana. Mwinamwake mumangofuna bwenzi kapena munthu wokhudzidwa. Izi zidzasankha kusankha malo komwe mungakumane naye.

Yesetsani kusokoneza moyo wanu - lembani maphunziro, funsani gulu losangalatsa. Ngati mukuwopa kudziwana ndi mnyamata, ndiye kuti, pokhala ndi zofuna zofanana, zidzakhala zosavuta kuti mumudziwe bwino ndi kukambirana za chinachake.

Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kudzidalira kwambiri. Musawope kugwiritsira ntchito malingaliro anu, ndipo inu nokha mudzapeza momwe mungadziwire munthu yemwe mumamukonda. Musawope kutsegula pang'ono, pangani anzanu atsopano. Inu mumapatsidwa moyo umodzi wokha - kusamalirako ndi kuopsa ndi chizoloƔezi.