Ubale ndi wokondedwa wanu ukhoza "kuphwanya" pa nthawi yosayembekezereka, pakhoza kukhala zifukwa zambiri za izi, koma mulimonsemo kusiyana kumakhala kovuta nthawi zonse. Winawake akulekanitsa yekha, wina akuyesera kudziiwala yekha ndi mowa, wina akuyang'ana njira zina zosokonezera, ndipo wina akuyesera kuti apeze mochedwa.
Kodi mungabwezere bwanji ubale ndi wokondedwa wanu?
Ganizirani mfundo zingapo zomwe zingakuthandizeni kumvetsa momwe mungabwerezerere ubale mutatha kugawa:
- Poyambira, yesetsani kubwezeretsa kuyankhulana ndikukhala bwenzi lanu basi, kuthandizira, kupereka malangizo abwino, kugawana chimwemwe, ndi zina zotero, koma osadandaula kuti mufunse anzanu mutangotsala pang'ono kusiya, dikirani pang'ono, mukhale mwezi kapena awiri.
- Musaiwale kuti muyang'ane mawonekedwe anu, ngati mutatha kukwanitsa kuonekera pamaso pa okondedwa anu atavala mwinjiro osapangidwa, tsopano mukhale zida zankhondo, mulole mnyamatayo awone kukongola komwe iye wataya.
- Njira ina yotsimikizika, kubwezeretsa chiyanjano ndi mnyamata atatha kupatukana, ndiko kukhazikitsa chiyanjano ndi amayi ake. Ngati simunachite izi, ino ndiyo nthawi. Bwerani kudzamuchezera, muuzeni momwe mwana wakeyo aliri wokongola, momwe mumamukondera iye ndi momwe kulili kovuta popanda iye. Ndikhulupirire, amayi amachititsa kuti ana awo azitha kuchita zimenezi.
- Kumbukirani kuti nthawi zonse simunakonde munthu mwa inu. Mwinamwake iye ankaganiza kuti iwe ndiwe wamwano kapena wodzikuza, yesani kusintha ndi kukhala zomwe iye akufuna kuti mukhale.
- Kuyanjananso ndi wokondedwa wanu patali, ndithudi, n'kovuta, koma pano palinso ubwino. Mulole bamboyo asakuwoneni kwa kanthawi, musamve mawu anu. Mukuyesera kusintha, kudziyika nokha mu dongosolo, chabwino, tsiku lina, dzidzimve nokha, kuitanira, kutumiza SMS, ndithudi izo zidzakhala zosangalatsa kuti mnyamatayo alankhule ndi inu ndikuwona, chabwino, chitanipo.