Nthaŵi imene atsikana ankadikirira kalonga wawo, adadutsa. Masiku ano, amayi osakwatiwa ali okonzeka zambiri kuposa kupeza munthu wabwino m'maselo awo. Kuphatikizana pakati pa zachiwerewere ndizokulu, kotero muyenera kudziwa zidule zomwe zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zosiyana ndi gulu ndikukwanilitsa cholinga chomwe mukufuna.
Kodi mungadziŵe bwanji mwamuna kuti akhale pachibwenzi?
Poyambira ndi kofunikira kufotokozera ndi mtundu wanji wa munthu yemwe ndikufuna kuti ndiwone pafupi ndi ine. Ngati mukufuna kumanga maubwenzi amphamvu, musawononge mphamvu ndi mphamvu pazowakondana. Musanapite ku "kusaka" zimalimbikitsidwa kuti mutenge uphungu omwe akatswiri a zamaganizo amapereka:
- Choyamba muyenera kuyang'ana maonekedwe anu. Chithunzicho chiyenera kuganiziridwa kupyolera mu mfundo zochepa kwambiri. Sankhani zovala zomwe zidzatsindika kukhala ndi ulemu ndikubisa zolakwika. Kupanga kusankha kusankha zachilengedwe, komanso kupanga tsitsi lokongola.
- Zidzathandiza kutuluka ndi kuchoka mu gulu kumwetulira, chomwe chiri chizindikiro cha kusangalala ndi kuunika, ndipo makhalidwe awa kwa amuna ndi ofunika kwambiri.
- Palibe chifukwa chochitira nawo mbali, chifukwa kukongola kwachibadwa ndi mtima weniweni kungachititse munthu kukhala ndi chikondi ndi chikondi.
Musakhale wamanyazi ndikuwopa kuti mutengepo kanthu, chifukwa ambiri omwe amatchedwa "amuna" enieniwo amawopa kukanidwa.
Amayi ambiri amafuna kudziwa momwe angadziwire munthu pa intaneti, popeza njirayi ndi yoyenera ngakhale kwa atsikana amanyazi kwambiri. Njirayi ili ndi drawback yaikulu - zambiri "zabodza". Mwamuna akhoza kugwiritsa ntchito chithunzi chonyenga, alembe zambiri zabodza, ndi zina zotero. Ndi chifukwa chake muyenera kumvetsera mwatsatanetsatane, chifukwa opusitsa nthawi zambiri amasokonezeka ndi umboni wawo. Yang'anani zomwe munthuyo akulemba moyenera, momwe akufotokozera malingaliro ake, ndi zina zotero. Mupemphe iye kuti atumize zambiri za zithunzi zake mu moyo wachirengedwe.
Kodi n'zotheka kuti mumudziwe bwino munthuyo?
Kambiranani ndi moyo wanu mamuna akhoza kukhala paliponse, ngakhale kuyima pamzere ku sitolo. Zilembedwa zazodziwika muzinthu zambiri zimadalira malo pomwe mkazi adamuwona munthu wokondedwayo.
Kumene mungamudziwe bwino munthu wabwino:
- Kuntchito. Akatswiri amalangiza kuti atenge chidwi cha amuna ndi kumwetulira. Mupemphe iye kuti athandize mwanjira ina, chifukwa ndi kofunikira kuti amuna azifunika. Pakulankhulana, mvetserani khalidwe la interlocutor, limene mungathe kuweruza ngati muli ndi maganizo olakwika kapena ayi.
- Mu cafe kapena malesitilanti. Ngati mukufuna, kuti mudziwe bwino munthu wolemera, ndiye kuti mupite kukadya chakudya chamadzulo kapena kudya ku malo ena abwino, omwe "kirimu" cha anthu amasonkhana nthawi zambiri. Ndi bwino kupempha thandizo la mnzanu kapena angapo, chifukwa malinga ndi chiwerengero, chibwenzi ndi chimodzimodzi mu makampani awa. Khalani mwachibadwa komanso mosagwirizana, musaiwale kutumiza
anthu okondwerera kumbali. - Njira ina, kumene mungadziŵe munthu woyenera - mawonetsero osiyanasiyana. Sankhani malo olemekezeka, mwachitsanzo, galimoto kapena zochitika zamalonda. Ndi kosavuta kuti udziphatikize - funsani funso, koma onetsetsani kuti mukulankhula za izo, kuti musagwidwe mu chisokonezo. Mukhozanso kupita ku zisudzo komanso zochitika zina.
Atsikana ambiri osungulumwa musanakonzekere tchuthi, ganizirani za komwe mungapite kukamudziwa. Ndipotu, njira iliyonse yomwe muyenera kuyidziwa, choncho sankhani malangizo omwe mumakonda, koma kumbukirani kuti malinga ndi ziwerengero, chikondi chokhazikika chimakhalabe cholimba kwambiri.