Kusungulumwa kwa amayi

Mutu wa zosungulumwa za amayi, choyamba, akazi okha. Yerekezerani mawu oti "mkazi wosakwatira" ndi "munthu womasuka" - mwinamwake, ndi mawu awa omwe anthu ambiri amadziwa kusungulumwa kwa mkazi ndi mwamuna. M'nkhaniyi tidzakambirana za zozizwitsa zokha, mawonetseredwe ake ndi njira zothetsera.

Vuto la kusungulumwa kwa amayi

Izi ndizodandaula kawirikawiri za amayi a msinkhu uliwonse. Chinthu chochititsa chidwi kwambiri ndi chakuti kusungulumwa kungathe kukhumudwa ngakhale ndi okwatira kapena akazi okondana. Ndipo tanthauzo la mawu awa, aliyense akhoza kudzipangira okha. Mwachitsanzo: "Ndimasungulumwa, ndilibe chibwenzi." Kapena: "Mwamuna wanga samandimvetsa nkomwe, ndili ndekha ...". Kodi vutoli limachokera kuti?

Zifukwa za kusungulumwa kwa amayi

1. Mavuto. Mayi aliyense, makamaka, magazini yamwamuna amajambula pamasamba ake chithunzi cha amai abwino. Nkhani yofanana ndi mafilimu, mapulogalamu, malonda. Mafilimu ndi oimba amawononga nthawi ndi ndalama paunyamata wawo komanso kukongola kwawo. Ndizosadabwitsa kuti akazi, kutali ndi dziko losauka, ndi zovuta kwambiri kuti athetsere mpikisano woterewu. Ndi kudziyerekezera nokha ndi zokongola zosapangika zomwe zimapanga zovuta ndi kusatsimikizika.
2. Zosintha. Kawirikawiri, amai amayesetsa kutsatila malingaliro awo, ndipo pachiyambi cha chiyanjano amayesera kugwira ntchito ngati chidontho kapena mkazi wowononga. Izi zimaphatikizaponso "amuna okonda ..." - m'mimba, blondes, compressant ndi zina zotero. Poganizira zovuta za choonadi, amai amawathandiza mu ubale, ndipo izi sizimapangitsa kuti akhale amphamvu kapena ataliatali.
3. Kupanda tanthauzo. Ndichifukwa chiyani ndikufunikira kupeza mnzanga? Kodi mtendere wa amayi ndi achibale ena? Kuti mukhale ndi abwenzi? Ndiye ndikofunikira? Mwamwayi, atsikana ndi amayi ambiri amadzipanikiza payekha. Panthawi ina, kukankhira pagulu tsopano kumakhala chikhumbo-kukonza, potsiriza, moyo wake.

Mudziko lathu, mwambowu ukadali wamoyo, malinga ndi zomwe mkazi angathe kutenga chiyanjano ndi mwamuna. Izi Kuyika kumakhala kofala makamaka pakati pa okhulupirira. Pakati pa akazi a Orthodox, buku lakuti "Kusungulumwa Kwachikazi" la Marina Kravtsova ndilofala, momwe wolembayo amapereka malangizo a momwe angakonzekerere tsogolo lake. Koma osati chikhulupiriro chokha chimathandiza kwambiri pa zochitika za amayi. Kuyambira ali mwana, atsikana amamvetsera nkhani zachinsinsi za Cinderella ndi White Snow ndi kutenga chitsanzo chawo - momwe angakhalire moyo mu maloto a kalonga akubwera. Ndikufuna kunena kuti zochitika zoterezi sizikutha ntchito masiku ano? Lero, mkazi ali ndi mwayi wonse wokhala wolemekezeka wokondedwa. Ndipo pamene munthu amakhala ndi kuzindikira bwino mbali zonse, moyo wake umakonzedwa bwino.