Mwamwayi, moyo si nthawi zonse ngati nthano, ndipo tonse timakonda m'njira zosiyanasiyana, choncho tiyeni tiyesere kuzindikira kuti ndi chikondi chanji.
Pakati pathu palibe anthu amtundu womwewo, kutanthauza kuti aliyense amaona chikondi mwa njira yake.
- Chikondi ndi chizoloŵezi. Anthu ambiri amadziwa chikondi, chomwe mwachikondi sichili. Anthu okha omwe amakhala palimodzi ndipo, mwinamwake, osakhala ndi maganizo ozama, amodziwitsana wina ndi mzake: nthawizina - onse, nthawizina - mmodzi wa abwenzi. Iwo samagawana kumverera kwakukulu, koma, mochuluka chotero, mantha a kutayika. Kodi amaopa kutaya chiyani? Winawake - ndalama ndi chitonthozo; wina -wopereka chitetezo ndi bata, ndipo wina akugwira mantha a kusungulumwa kapena kutsutsidwa kwa achibale ndi abwenzi. Pali chikondi chenicheni chokha.
- Pali mtundu wina wa chikondi - uwu ndi utumiki wa chikondi , pamene, chifukwa cha chimwemwe, ubwino, ntchito yabwino ya wina, wachiwiri wokondana ndi wokonzeka kuyika chiwonongeko chake pa guwa la moyo. Mtundu wina wa chikondi uli pafupi naye: chikondi ndi kupembedza.
- Chikondi chimadziwika -kudzipereka . Iyi ndiyo malo apamwamba a maubwenzi, pamene chifukwa cha chimwemwe, komanso ngakhale moyo wa mwamuna kapena mkazi wake, winayo ali wokonzeka kupereka moyo wawo.
Kodi chikondi chimakhala chiyani?
Chiwerengero cha thupi ndi chochuluka: kuchokera kukumverera kwa chimwemwe ndi chimwemwe chonse ku zowawa ndi chidani.
Tiyeni tiyambe ndi zotsirizazo. Zikuwoneka kuti chikondi ndi chidani sizigwirizana, koma ndendende kufikira tikukumbukira kuti kuchokera kumverera limodzi kupita ku chimzake - sitepe imodzi yokha.
Malinga ndi kusungunula, zimakhala ndi mthunzi wambiri ndipo zimatsimikiziridwa ndi zomwe zinachititsa kuti: "Ndikukusowa, bwerani posachedwa", kapena "Anandisiya, ndipo sindikudziwa momwe ndingakhalire", ndi zina zotero.
Zimakhala bwino pamene maubwenzi ogwirizana amamangidwa pa ulemu ndikusangalatsanso. Pa nthawi yomweyo, chinthu china chilichonse chimakondweretsa iwe komanso kuti iwe uli m'dziko lino, ndiye kuti mumakhala ndani. Komabe, sizingasokonezeke chifukwa chodandaula za munthu yemwe ali wokondedwa, wapafupi komanso wokondedwa.
Chikondi sichitha popanda chikhulupiriro, chomwe chiri chosavuta kutaya, koma chovuta kubwezeretsa. Kusakhulupirika kumapangitsa kumverera kovuta komanso kovuta - nsanje, yomwe imayaka kuchokera pakati pa onse awiri ndikuphwanya miyoyo yawo.
Chikondi sichili chete, chili ndi "malirime" awo, koma awiriwa amalankhula okha kapena ngakhale ochepa.
Amanena kuti kuti adziŵe zamaganizo onse, ndizofunika kumvetsetsa zilankhulo zisanu za chikondi zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi anthu okonda.
Tiyeni tiyankhule m'chinenero cha chikondi
Kodi ndizinenero ziti zomwe chikondi chimayankhula?
Kwa ena, awa ndi mawu olimbikitsa omwe onse awiri amafunikira. Kwa ena, ichi ndi chisamaliro chosagawanika chomwe mnzanuyo akuchifuna kuchokera kwa wina. Mwa njira, akazi amakhala olankhula chinenero choterocho. Amamvetsetsanso zotsatirazi - chinenero cha mphatso. Mwamwayi, palinso china: ndi chinenero cha chithandizo, chisamaliro, chithandizo. Chilankhulo chabwino kwambiri!
Ndipo chilankhulo chapamwamba ndi kugwirizana kwa thupi, pamene okwatirana awiriwo amasungunana wina ndi mnzake, akuphatikizana ndi amodzi ndikuyankhula chinenero chimodzi - chilakolako ndi chikondi.
Ndiwe wokondedwa wanga!
Zaka zaposachedwapa, pankhani ya chikondi, kawiri kawiri kambiranani za momwe mwamuna ayenera kusonyeza chikondi kwa mkazi wake, koma theka lolimba sichidzapweteka kumvetsa mtundu wa chikondi cha mwamuna.
Dziwani kuti sivuta. Mu Chikondi
Chiyambi chakumverera kotereku kungazindikiridwe pozindikira zizindikiro za chikondi. Zina mwa izo: kukondweretsa wokondedwa (wokondedwa), chilakolako chokhala pamodzi nthawi zonse, komanso kuthana ndi mavuto omwe amadza pamodzi; wokonzeka kutsata wokondedwa kufikira kumalekezero a dziko lapansi ndi kuopa kutaya; osakhulupirira kuti chikondi sichidzakhala "kosatha."
Chikondi ndi kukumbukira kuti mthandizi wofunikira kwambiri m'chikondi ndi mtima wanu.