Ndi makhalidwe ati omwe mkazi wabwino ayenera kukhala nawo? Tiyeni tiyese kupanga chithunzi chake. Inde, munthu aliyense ali ndi malingaliro ake ake pa izi, koma makhalidwe ena omwe amachititsa kuti kugonana kwabwino kugoneke, komabe, akhoza kusiyanitsa.
Kodi mkazi weniweni ayenera kukhala wotani?
Pa mutu uwu, mutha kukangana nthawi zonse, koma kutsindika mfundo zofunika kwambiri, ziyenera kunenedwa kuti mkazi woyenera akhale:
- Zogwirizana . Kukwanitsa kuchita zinthu moyenera ndiwekha komanso ndi chilengedwe chanu n'kofunika kwa mkazi aliyense. Mdziko lino, imayamba kutenga mphamvu zabwino ndikukhala pakati pa chilengedwe chonse.
- Wokongola . Chikhalidwe sichiyenera kukhala choipa. Ngakhale panthawi yachisokonezo ndi mikangano, mkazi ayenera kukhala mkazi.
- Kusamalira ndi chifundo . Mayi weniweni ayenera kumupatsa chikondi ndi kutseka anthu. Palibe wina koma iye akhoza kutonthoza komanso kutentha m'banja. Kubeleka kumathandizanso pakupanga mkazi "I". Ndikofunika kukumbukira kuti ndi mkazi yemwe ali ndi udindo wa banja lonse, komanso "nyengo panyumba."
- Wogwira ntchito komanso wogwira ntchito . Msungwana wokongola ndi wokonzekera sangathe kupambana mtima wa mwamuna, ngati sachita chilichonse. Ulesi ndi mdani wamkulu wa mkazi.
- Zachuma . Konzani chakudya chokoma, kuyeretsa kalirole m'nyumba, kulenga ulesi ndi kusoka batani ku jekete - izi ndi zomwe mtsikana aliyense ayenera kuphunzira ali mwana. Kukwanitsa kuyendetsa bizinesi ya munthu kumayamikiridwa, chifukwa aliyense amasangalala pamene mkazi wake ali woyang'anira nyumba.
- Kusonkhana ndi kusunga nthawi . Makhalidwe amenewa ndi ofunika kwa munthu aliyense. Ndikofunika kukonzekera tsiku lanu bwino ndi kutaya nthawi.
- Economy savvy . Monga lamulo, ndi amayi amene amayang'anira bajeti ya banja, choncho ndi kofunika kwambiri kuti muphunzire momwe mungakonzekere ndalama komanso mugawire ndalama moyenera.
- Waletsedwa . Mkazi ndi chitsanzo kwa ena, makamaka kwa ana. Muzochitika zilizonse, ziyenera kudziletsa zokhazokha ndi zochita zake ndipo zisayambe mikangano.
Kulankhula za momwe mkazi wamakono ayenera kukhalira, ndikofunikira kutchula mfundo "kudzikuza". M'moyo wamakono, pa nthawi yamagetsi, ndikofunikira kuti mkazi athe kumvetsetsa uthengawu ndikuyesa kukwanira ndi kudzikwanira. N'kofunikanso kuti mkazi adziwe njira zing'onozing'ono zomwe zidzakuthandizira kukhala zosangalatsa ndi zokongola kwa wosankhidwa wake.
Kodi mkazi wanzeru ayenera kukhala wotani?
Musalole munthu kumvetsa kuti ndinu wochenjera, wophunzira kwambiri, kapena wamphamvu kuposa iye mwini. Izi zimakhudza kwambiri kudzidalira kwa kugonana kolimba. Kwa iye, muyenera kukhala mtsikana, mkazi, wofooka ndi wofooka, yemwe akufuna kumusamalira ndi kumuthandiza. Pamene mwamuna amva kuti amafunikira iye, amadziwa kufunika kwake, ndipo izi zimamupangitsa kukhala ndi zinthu zatsopano. Ngati simukufuna kuti chitetezo chanu chitembenuke kukhala munthu wopangidwa ndi nkhuku, musamuletse kuti asadziwonetse yekha kuti ndi munthu weniweni - wamphamvu, wodalirika komanso wodalirika. Koma kumbukirani kuti panthawi yomwe mukufunikira, muyenera kusonyeza mphamvu zanu ndikutha kuthandiza munthu wokwera mtengo.
Ngati mukufuna malangizo abwino, funsani munthu wanu, osati mnzanu. Mwinamwake, mudzadabwa ndi yankho lake, chifukwa anthu amaganiza mosiyana. Musanasankhe zosankha zofunika, onetsetsani kuti mukufunsana ndi wosankhidwa wanu, mutha kupeza uphungu wabwino, ndipo mwamunayo amadziwa kuti maganizo ake ndi ofunikira kwa inu.
Kodi muli ndi ubale ndi mwamuna? Kumbukirani kuti choyamba ndiwe mkazi. Ndikofunika kuti musangokhala wopezera nyumba. Muyenera kukhala okoma mtima mwa iye, khalani wokondweretsa interlocutor, ndipo chofunika kwambiri - kumusamalira.
Potsatira ndondomeko izi, mutha kumverera kuti makadinali amasintha mmoyo wanu, ndipo ndikukhulupirirani, zidzakhala zabwino.