Mu maloto, munthu sangathe kudziletsa yekha, choncho mdziko lino thupi lake lidzakhala loona. Asayansi a ku Brazil anapeza ngakhale kalata pakati pa zovuta pamene agona limodzi komanso mgwirizano pakati pa awiriwa. Tiyeni tikambirane zomwe zimachitika kuti okondedwa alowe mu maloto.
Tanthauzo la zofunsira za kugona pamodzi
- Gwiritsani ntchito "supuni" kapena "kujambula" - mwamuna amamukumbatira msana, pamene awiriwo akugona, akuphatikizana palimodzi, mitu imatsogoleredwa kumbali imodzi. Izi zimachititsa kuti anthu azigona mokhazikika ndipo ali ndi tanthauzo: "Timathandizana". Ngati bwenzi likufuna kugona mu vutoli, ndiye kuti izi zikutanthauza chikhumbo chokhazikitsa ubwenzi pambuyo pa nthawi yozizira. Udindo umenewu umatengedwanso ndi anthu omwe ali ndi ubale weniweni, omwe ndi okwera mtengo kwambiri kwa iwo. Zikuoneka kuti sizinali zovuta kukwaniritsa zomwe zilipo, mwinamwake atayesa zolephera zonsezo anaganiza kuti apanga njira yopezera chimwemwe. Ndipo tsopano onse akuopa kutaya zomwe ali nazo.
- Nthawi yonse ya "chizunzo". Ziri ngati "supuni", koma kenako amaikumbatira mwamuna. Mwachiwonekere, dona ndi mtsogoleri mu ubale, ndipo mwamunayo amafunikira chifundo chachikulu kwa iye. Ngati mutu wa wokondedwayo umapewa kugwira, zimatanthauza kuyesa kuwonjezera kapena kusunga malo anu.
- Pose "chisokonezo" - mwamuna ndi mkazi akugona, akutembenuka, aliyense pa theka la bedi. Izi zikusonyeza kutsutsana kapena kusamvana kwa nthawi yaitali. Ngakhale, ngati banjali likuganiza kuti kugonana pamodzi kumakhala kovuta, ndiye kuti izi zingasonyeze kusweka kwa ubalewu.
- Chisa "Chanel" - abwenzi amagonana kumbuyo kwawo, kumagwira m'chiuno. Udindo umenewu ukuonedwa ngati wokhala wokonzeka kwambiri kugona, umene umagwirizana ndi mgwirizano wamphamvu. Kotero anthu akhoza kugona ndi mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya chikhalidwe, ndi zizolowezi zosiyana. Iwo ali pamodzi, koma aliyense wa iwo ndi munthu. Ngati banjali likugona, ndikukhudza mitu, mapewa ndi kumbuyo kwawo, koma kusiya malo omasuka m'chiuno, izi zimapereka okonda omwe ali ndi maganizo osiyana kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi. Choncho, ndi kovuta kunena chilichonse cham'mbuyo mmoyo uno. Ngati vutoli likuvomerezedwa ndi okwatirana, izi zimasonyeza chikhumbo chawo choteteza kudziko lakunja.
- Nthawi zonse "chikondi chimakumbatirana" - awiriwo amagona, akugwirana mwamphamvu, kumeta miyendo. Udindo umenewu ndi wapadera kwa chiyambi cha maubwenzi ndipo amalankhula za maganizo omwe akukwera nawo. Ngati pali mtunda wautali pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi pa malo awa, izi zimasonyeza kukhala wokonzeka kukhalira limodzi komanso osagwirizana. Mu awiriwa, onse ali okonzeka kulandila zofooka za wina ndi mzake.
- Maonekedwe a "denga" - ogonanawo amagona kumbuyo kwawo, amodzi amakumbatirana ndi mapewa kapena mutu. Zomwe zimakhalapo pamene mugona limodzi zimasonyeza kugwirizana kwa banjali, koma nthawi yomweyo amanena kuti palibe chiwerewere, popeza palibe chiwongoladzanja m'chiuno.
- Nthawi zonse " msinkhu " - msungwanayo amagona pa chifuwa cha munthu akum'kumbatira. Phokosoli likulankhula za mgwirizano wodalirika ndi mgwirizano wogwirizana. Mkazi amamva chitetezo cha mwamuna wake, ndipo amayamikira chisamaliro chake ndi chithandizo chake.
- Pose "chifukwa chogwirira ntchito" - abwenzi amagona kumbuyo kwawo, akugwira manja. Kaŵirikaŵiri okonda kwambiri ogona omwe ali ofanana kwambiri mu chikhalidwe. Iwo akhoza kukhala ofanana ndi kunja - mwa kukula kapena thupi. Zomwe zili kumbuyo zimasonyeza chidziwitso, koma okondedwa amafunikira kukhudzana.
- Pewani "kudziimira" - abwenzi ogona m'mimba mwawo popanda wina ndi mnzake. Dzanja la mmodzi wa iwo limakhudza thupi la wina. Phokosoli limalankhula za chikhumbo cha onse kuti asunge ufulu wawo, poopa kuti azikondana. Kukhudza ndi dzanja lanu kumasonyeza chikhumbo chopeza chithandizo chochotsera mantha awa.
- Khala "maso ndi maso" - abwenzi amagona kumbali zawo, akuyang'anizana, osakhudza miyendo. Izi zimasonyeza kuti pali kugwirizana kwakukulu pakati pa okondedwa, koma amakakamizika kuthera nthawi yambiri.
Monga momwe mukuonera, zovuta zomwe mumatenga m'maloto ndi okondedwa wanu zingathe kudziwa zambiri za izo. Komabe, simukuyenera kukhala osiyana kwambiri pakufufuza, poyamba, tikuyesetsabe kukhala ndi malo ogona ogona, osati ena omwe amafanana ndi momwe timamvera. Ndipo, kachiwiri, tanthauzo la mthunzi wa okwatirana lingasinthe kusintha kwakukulu. Mwachitsanzo, mawu akuti "kubereka" amalankhula za maubwenzi ogwirizana, koma ngati mwamuna amagwira mkaziyo ndi dzanja lomwe lili pa chifuwa chake, ngati kuti atseka mtima wake kuchokera kwa dzanja la mkazi, mtengowo umasintha. Izi zidzanena kuti mwamunayo akuopa kuti mtsikanayo ayandikire kwambiri.