Ndiuzeni, kodi munayenera kuchitira nsanje (anthu osachepera pang'ono) omwe amapambana pa chirichonse - kodi iwo amapambana kuntchito, m'banja komanso ngakhale kusewera kokondweretsa? Ndiye n'chifukwa chiyani anthu ena ali ndi mwayi pamoyo wawo, ndipo wina sangathe kupambana payekha kapena poyera? Kwenikweni, ndilo chifukwa cha nyenyezi zosagonjetseredwa kapena ulesi wamba?
Nchifukwa chiyani palibe mwayi mu moyo?
Ndikuyang'ana anthu ena, ndikanafuna kunena kuti: "Uyu ndi munthu wathanzi, ngati kuti wabadwa mu shati", zonse ziri nazo. Pambuyo pa lingaliro ili, kudzipeza kudzidzimutsa kumatsatira kawirikawiri, kumabweretsa zokhumudwitsa zokhudzana ndi zolephera zanu. Chabwino ndi njira ziwiri zokha - kapena kugwirizanitsa ndi tsoka kapena kuyesa kukhala ndi Fortuna wopanikizika kwa mwiniwakeyo. Ngati pali chikhumbo chofuna kupeza malo a dona wosinthika, muyenera kumvetsa chifukwa chake mulibe mwayi mu moyo, kuti mudziwe zomwe mukufuna kusintha. Funso limeneli limadodometsa anthu ambiri, wina amadzika ku zisotericism, kuyesa kupeza mwambo wokukopa mwayi, wina ayesa kupeza yankho m'maganizo . Pa maphunzirowa amatha kumva malingaliro oti aganizire bwino, kukhululukira abambo ndi amayi (malinga ndi ochita kafukufuku ena, kukwiya kwa amayi kumalepheretsa kuti pakhomo likhale bwino, ndipo kunyansidwa kwa abambo sikulola kuti bizinesi ikule), kugwiritsa ntchito zowonjezera ndi zina zambiri.
Ndipotu, njira iliyonse ingathandize, choyamba muyenera kudziwa zomwe zikukuletsani, ndikuyesetsani kuthetsa kusokoneza uku. Nthawi zonse zinthu zinayenda bwino, kenako mwaima mwadzidzidzi kuti zikhale ndi moyo? Fufuzani chifukwa chake, kumvetsetsa zomwe zinachitika. Poyamba, anzako anali okondwa kuthandiza, ndipo tsopano zikuwoneka kuti wasiya? Kotero mwina mwakhala mukukondana nawo kwambiri? Palibe malingaliro atsopano, ntchito yofunikira yoperekedwa kwa wogwira ntchito wina? Mwina mwataya kuwala, chidwi chomwe chinakupangitsani wantchito wodalirika, fufuzani njira yobwezera.
Ndipo mwinamwake simunakhale nawo mwayi uliwonse, monga momwe ziliri pano kuti mupeze nsomba? Ndipo kachiwiri muyenera kumvetsa zomwe mukuchita molakwika. Inde, mwina simunakhale ndi mwayi ndi banja lanu komanso malo obadwira, koma mukafika pokhala akulu, muli ndi mwayi womanga tsogolo lanu nokha. Kumbukirani, chilengedwe chathu chikuwonetsera dziko lathu lapansi. Ngati simungapeze nthaka pansi pa mapazi anu, mukukumana ndi mavuto azachuma, ndiye kuti pali chisokonezo mu moyo wanu, simungamvetse zomwe mukufuna. Mukangomvetsa zomwe mukufunikira, zinthu ziyamba kugwira ntchito mwamsanga, monga momwe mukumvetsetsera kuti mukuyenera kusuntha.
Osakhala ndi mwayi m'moyo wanu waumwini?
Ndi ntchito zonse zili bwino, koma moyo wake ulibe mwayi? Yesetsani kumvetsa zomwe mukuchita molakwika, kodi zochita nthawi zonse zimagwirizana ndi zikhumbo?
Izi ndi zitsanzo zitatu zokha, mfundo ndi kuima pa mphasa, ndikudzifunsa nokha funso: "Ndidzakhala liti liti m'moyo?", Ndi kuyamba kuchita. Impartially (popanda kunama nokha ndikukongoletsa deta yapachiyambi) yongolani mkhalidwewo, yokhudzana ndi zikhumbo ndi zochita, pangani ndondomeko yowonongeka ndikuyamba kugwira ntchito. Chisangalalo chimakhala chovuta, ngakhale kusowa kwa talente kumatha kugonjetsedwa chifukwa chochita khama.