Inde, mwamvapo mobwerezabwereza mawu omwe simungawakonde, koma nthawi zina mukufuna kufunsa wokondedwa wanu: "Kodi mukudziwa chifukwa chake ndimakukondani?". Ngakhale inu nokha simunaganize za yankho. Ndipotu, chikondi nthawi zonse chimapangitsa chilakolako choganiza ndi kukamba za inu nokha. Ndipo ngakhale asayansi a dziko lapansi nthawi zonse amafunsa chifukwa chake timakhala m'chikondi ndipo, makamaka, zomwe anthu amakondana, ndiye kuti sizodabwitsa kuti maganizo awa amabwera kwa inu. Tiyeni ndipo ife tiganizire (kufotokoza kwa asayansi ndi zosagwirizana kwambiri), yemwe angakonde mwamuna, ndipo kodi wina anganene chiyani kwa munthu kuti afotokoze mphamvu ya malingaliro omwe akukutsutsani.
Choncho, auzeni mwamuna chifukwa chake: "ndikukukondani":
- chifukwa ndimadzikonda ndekha pafupi ndi inu. Zimamveka zodabwitsa, koma ndi zoona. Nthawi zambiri timadzikonda tokha komanso mkhalidwe wathu pafupi ndi wina. Ndicho chifukwa chake tikufuna kwambiri kuti chinthu cholambirira chiri "pafupi". Sitili kokha m'chikondi ndi munthu, tili m'chikondi ndi lingaliro loti "ife" ngati limodzi;
- chifukwa iwe umandipangitsa ine kulota. Maloto ndikumverera kwa ubwana, pamene moyo ukuwala ndi mawonekedwe ndi mphamvu ya mphamvu yako. Maganizo amodzi amatsitsimutsa mitundu ya moyo ndi kumverera kwa nthano zomwe chirichonse chiri chotheka;
- chifukwa iwe umandilimbikitsa ine. Pafupi ndi zomwe mumakonda mumakhala bwino. Ndikufuna kudabwa, kukula - chifukwa ichi mumayamikira theka lanu. Pamapeto pake, moyo wanu umakhala wokondweretsa kwambiri kuchokera ku izi;
- Ndine chidwi pafupi ndi inu. Kupyolera mu chikondi tidzatha kudziwa dziko lino bwino. Amawonjezera malire ake, ndikusandulika kukhala zosangalatsa komanso zosangalatsa. Ngakhale mvula yamba imakhala chinthu chamatsenga pamene muyang'ana pawindo, mutagwira dzanja la wokondedwa wanu. Inu mukufuna kuti mupeze dziko lino kachiwiri, kupyolera mu prism ya chikondi chanu;
- Ndikumva kuti ndine wamoyo. Kusamvetsetsana (chikondi, chikondi, chisamaliro) nthawi zambiri zimatitengera ife kupsinjika. Tiyenera kukonda, ndipo akupatsani mwayi umenewu, ndicho chifukwa chake mumayamika. Kumverera koyamikira ndi kofunika kwambiri kwa munthu aliyense, ndipo, ngati maginito, imalowa mu moyo wanu chikondi ndi chimwemwe chochuluka;
- chifukwa ndi inu ndimamva ngati wapadera. Chifukwa chimene ndimakukondani, ndi mwayi woti ndikhale wapadera, wopusa pang'ono, wofooka pang'ono, wopenga pang'ono, koma wokondedwa nthawi zonse. Ndinu wokondwa kukhala nokha;
- chifukwa ndi inu sindikuwopa. Simukuwopa kuti mawa kudzakhala nyengo yoipa, kuti aphunzitsi / mtsogoleri azikhala opanda mitundu, ndi zina zotero. Mukudandaula ndi zinthu zopanda pake: kaya angakonde kavalidwe kanu katsopano, kaya chakudya chidzakhala chotheka komanso ngati mutha kukomana naye. Koma ichi ndi chisangalalo chosangalatsa;
- pafupi ndi inu ndikufuna kupereka. Chibadwa cha munthu ndi chakuti timakhala okhutira nthawi zonse ndi zomwe timachita. Inu mukufuna kupereka ndi kupereka, ndipo izi zikukukhudzani kwambiri ndi chikondi. Mumalandira zambiri, ndipo izi zikukutsutsani;
- chifukwa nthawi zonse ndimalota za inu. Zimatsimikiziridwa kuti akazi omwe, omwe adakali ana amazindikira kuti ndibwino kwa mwamuna, mwamsanga "dziwani".
Komabe, ngakhale mutalota chinthu chosadziwika komanso chosamvetsetseka, mukakumana ndi okondedwa anu, zikuwoneka kuti nthawi zonse mumakhala maloto anu; - chifukwa simukusowa kuchita chilichonse, kuti ndikukondeni. Iwo sakonda kanthu, ndipo inu mumakonda kuzindikira kuti chikondi chanu chiri chomwecho.
Kufunsa chifukwa chake timakonda munthu, chinthu chachikulu ndikumaliza ndi lingaliro ili. Zonse zoyenera, zomwe timayamikira kwambiri (komanso mwa wokondedwa wanu, ngakhale ulemu wochepa kwambiri umaweruzidwa pamlingo waukulu) ndi nkhani ya kunyada kwathu, koma mumakumana ndi munthu wina yemwe ali ndi zofanana, izi sizimatsimikizira kuti zimakhala zomveka. Ingosangalala ndikumverera mwachikondi ndipo kondwerani!