Mikangano ya m'banja

Palibe banja lingathe kuchita popanda mikangano, kusagwirizana kulikonse. Kusamvetsetsana kungakhale pakati pa mamembala onse, ndipo nthawi zambiri izi zimachitika pakati pa okwatirana. Choncho, ngati mukufuna kusunga mtendere m'nyumba mwanu, sikungakhale zopanda nzeru kuti mukhale ndi lingaliro la mikangano yaukwati monga, ndi njira zothetsera.

Zomwe zimayambitsa mikangano ya m'banja

Ndikofunika kukumbukira kuti pakamakangana pakati pa okwatirana palibe chokwanira ndipo chifukwa chake mtsutso wawo ndi wovuta kwambiri. Koma amachita ngati madzi oundana: Nthawi zambiri mikangano ing'onoing'ono siidaperekedwa mosamala, ndipo izi zimabweretsa mavuto ambiri.

Zimayambitsa mikangano ya m'banja ndi izi:

1. Chimodzi mwa zifukwa zazikulu zomwe zimagawidwa m'banja ndizosiyana maganizo. Munthu aliyense ali ndi tsankho lake, miyambo, mfundo zake komanso nthawi zina ngakhale anzake okondedwa, sangagwirizane ndi makhalidwe ena ake.
2. Banja lanyengerera. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zifukwa zowopsa kwambiri ndipo zowona zokhudzana ndi zochitikazi zikhoza kudziwitsidwa ndi katswiri kapena ngati okwatirana opanda maganizo akumakambirana za izi.
3. Chikondi kapena osati chikondi? Monga momwe tikudziwira, maubwenzi amakhala ndi magawo angapo a chitukuko, ndipo pamene siteji yachikondi sichigwa, m'mabanja achichepere, mikangano yaukwati ya mtundu uwu ikhoza kuwuka. Ndipo pamene chikondi chimasintha kukhala mtundu wina, zingaoneke ngati mmodzi mwa okonda kuti palibe chilakolako choyambirira. Pankhaniyi, khalidwe la abwenzi limadalira khalidwe lawo. Choncho, munthu samasowa, amalowa m'malo ovutika maganizo. Ndipo wina amayika zofuna zapamwamba pa munthu wokondedwa wake, monga chifukwa chake, makangano amabadwa.

Kuthetsa mikangano ya m'banja

Gwiritsani ntchito zotsatirazi, ngati mukufuna kuti banja likhale mikangano pakati pa inu ndi okondedwa anu silikusandutsa mkangano wa m'banja:

1. Musapite kwa umunthu panthawi ya kusagwirizana. Kumbukirani kuti mnzanuyo nthawi zonse amatha kuchitapo kanthu mwatsatanetsatane, ndipo izi zidzapangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta.
2. Pakati pa mikangano, musayambe kuika khalidwe la mnzanuyo ndi mawu akuti "simunasinthe" kapena "nthawi zonse".
3. Kodi chifukwa cha nkhondo yapachilendoyo ndi imodzi? Choncho sikoyenera kukambirana kenanso pakutha. Kwa inu, chinthu chachikulu pakali pano ndi kupeza kumvetsetsa, osati kuwonjezera mafuta pamoto.
4. Pezani kulimba mtima kuvomereza kuti mukulakwitsa.
5. Lembani ndipo musawononge zonse zomwe zasungidwa madzulo. Chifukwa cha ichi ndi chimodzi chokha: mu theka lachiwiri la tsiku zovuta zonse zomwe mwazipeza tsiku lonselo zimasonkhana. Ndipo nthawi zina mwamuna wanga samagwira nawo ntchitoyi.
6. Osamenyana pamaso pa munthu wina.
7. Ngati mukuyamba kukangana, sankhani cholinga chomwe mukufuna kuti mukwaniritse.