Monga akunena, vuto la kusakhulupilira silinabwere lokha, koma pambuyo pokhapokha theka yonyenga imadziwa za izo. Pambuyo pake, muyenera kupanga chisankho: kusiya maukwati kapena kukhala. Kawirikawiri chikhumbo choyamba ndicho kusiya mnzanuyo. Koma nthawi zina si zophweka. Ndiyeno lingaliro lalikulu limabwera kwa mutu wa mkazi: iye amangobwezera - ndi kuiwala. Koma momwe mungabwezere chilango pa munthu chifukwa cha chiwembu?
Kubwezera chifukwa chotsutsa - diso kwa diso
Amayi ambiri amathetsa funso ili mwachidule: "Ngati angathe, ndiye kuti ine ndikubwezera kubweretsedwa kwa mwamuna wanga." Anthu ambiri amayamba kufunafuna mwamuna kuti akhale paubwenzi kumbali. Wina amadziŵana ndi ena pa intaneti, wina amayamba kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi, ndipo ena amadzipangira okha masiku onse ndi kubwereranso. Iwo amati ngongole imatuluka.
Komabe, njira zonsezi sizolondola. Amayi ambiri amakonda kwambiri mwamuna wawo, kuti ngakhale chifukwa cha kuperekedwa kwawo sangathe kukondana ndi wina. Kotero, kupatula ngati inu nokha simuli munthu wachikondi wokhala ndi anthu ambiri okonda, simuyenera kuyesa nokha.
Momwe mungabwezere munthu wotsutsana ndi chigamulo
Samalani nokha - osati mawonekedwe anu ndi njira ya moyo chifukwa cha khalidwe lake loipa? Ngati simunagulitse lingaliro lachiwerewere kwa nthawi yayitali, yendani mozungulira panyumba yophimba (kapena mwazonse - chimodzimodzi), musapende, musakhale ndi zokondwerero zanu - zimangonena kuti munthu wanu akhoza kungotaya chidwi chanu . Chimodzimodzinso ndi zochitika zomwe mkazi amawoneka wopanda cholakwa, koma nthawi zonse amamuwona mwamuna kapena amamuyimbira.
Pachifukwa ichi, ndi bwino kupuma, kudziletsa, ndipo nthawi yomweyo muzidzipangitsa nokha - kulemetsa, ngati kuli koyenera, kusintha tsitsi lanu, kupanga zokhazikika, kugula zinthu zingapo zatsopano, kuyang'ana zokongola komanso zokongola. Mwinamwake, iye ayamba kukuchitirani mosiyana, koma apa ndikofunikira kuti mupume pang'ono ndikumupempha kuti asakufikireni pafupi kuposa mamita kwa nthawi ndithu.
Kodi mungabwezere bwanji kubwezera chiwonongeko?
Njira yabwino yobwezeretsera chiwembu - mobwerezabwereza momwe zingathere kupezeka kunyumba. Pitani ku kampu yolimbitsa thupi, pezani ntchito yamagulu, kambiranani ndi anzanu - panthawi imene ali pakhomo, musakhale inu, popanda zochepa.
Kuwonjezera apo, ndi bwino kusiya kuyanjana ndi munthu - musaike zinthu zake mu makina osamba, musamuphike chakudya chamadzulo, musamatsutse zinthu zake zobalalika, ndi zina zotero. Sizothandiza kuchepetsa kuchita zimenezi, koma masabata awiri adzakhala okwanira.
Momwe angabwezerere mwamuna wake chifukwa cha chiwembu - chilakolako chake
Ngati mudziwa kuti mwamuna wanu wachita zambiri kuposa chinthu chimodzi chopusa, kutanthauza kuti, kukhala paubwenzi kumbali, mukhoza kuyesa zambiri za chilakolako chake. Ngati ali ndi mwamuna, muyenera kupeza njira yolumikizana naye ndikumuuza zonse. Ngati iye ali yekha, ndiye kuti n'zotheka kuchita chinthu chonyenga: kuvomereza ndi mnzanu, makamaka zabwino, kuti amudziwe bwino, ndikukonzekera kuti tsiku lawo lilowe mmalo mwa munthu wanu.
Momwe mungabwezerere mwamuna wake chifukwa cha chiwembu - kulekanitsa kwa kanthawi
Ngati muwona kuti simungathe kukhala ndi munthu uyu m'chipinda chomwecho, lizani kuti mukusowa nthawi ndikupeza njira yolimbana nayo. Mwina panthawi ino mudzazindikira kuti tsopano ndiphweka kwa inu popanda.
Koma kumbukirani - iyenso akhoza kuchita zambiri panthawiyi, ndipo ngati ana anu akukangana, ndi bwino kuti musayese mwayi. Moyenera kwambiri, musamachite ngozi ngati mukukayikira. Ndipo ngati mukumva kuti mukunyansidwa, ndiye kuti iyi ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yofikirira komanso yosavuta kuti mudzidziwe nokha.
Chinthu chachikulu ndi kubwezera ngati mukufunadi, komanso mu njira zoyenera. Pali milandu pamene mayi, ataphunzira za kugulitsidwa kwa mwamuna wake, adatsuka chimbudzi cha katsulo ndi mankhwala ake, chifukwa chiyani helminths amamuzunza, kapena amangomutsanulira pureni, zomwe zinamupangitsa kukhala ndi mavuto ambiri. Komabe, izi sizili njira zolondola, choncho musataye mutu wanu.