Momwe mungamasulire munthu ku malingaliro - malangizo a katswiri wa zamaganizo

Kuyanjana ndi munthu wina wapafupi ndi kovuta kwambiri. Ndipo ngakhale pambuyo pomaliza chiyanjano, sichikhoza kuiwalika. Zinthu ngati zimenezi si zachilendo, ndicho chifukwa ambiri amalingalira momwe angamasulire munthu ku malingaliro, ndipo malangizo a katswiri wa zamaganizo pa nkhaniyi angathe kuthandizira, koma pokhapokha ngati mumawaganizira mozama.

Kodi kutanthauzanji kumasula munthu?

Choyamba, muyenera kumvetsa nokha zomwe mungalole kuti mupite - kenaka phunzirani kukhala popanda izo. Musaiwale konse, owonongeka kuti muyanjanitse ndi kusowa, kuti muyambe kukhala watsopano - mokwanira, mosangalala, koma popanda. Izi zikutanthauza kuti pachiyambi muyenera kuchotsa maganizo oipa, osakhudzidwa ndi inu nokha, kudzimva kuti ndinu ochimwa chifukwa cha "kupanda ungwiro" kwanu, kudzichepetsa komanso zovuta. Ndipo mutangokhalira kusintha ndondomeko yowonjezera, muyenera kupita ku "chithandizo" chachikulu.

Momwe mungamulole munthu kuchoka mu moyo wake chikondi chikatha?

Akatswiri a zamaganizo amalangiza pankhaniyi:

1. Lirani - kamodzi, koma mokwanira, mpaka chitayiko chonse.
2. Musamangoganizira ubwenzi wanu ndi wokondedwa wanu, yesetsani kukumbukira osati nthawi zabwino zokha, komanso zolakwika.
3. Chotsani zinthu zake zonse, mphatso, zomwe mwagula zomwe mwagula, zomwe ndizo, kuchokera ku zinthu zakuthupi.
4. Musaganizirenso za izo, koma za inu nokha.
5. Musayang'ane wolakwa.
6. Chotsani malingaliro odandaula.
7. Pezani thandizo la anzanu.
8. Pezani zifukwa zatsopano zosangalalira.

Kodi mungamasulire bwanji wokondedwa wanu kuchokera pansi pamtima ndikumverera mosiyana?

Komanso, ambiri amakhudzidwa ndi vutoli kuchokera kumalo amodzi a psychology: momwe angamusiyire munthu wokondedwa, ngati sanabwezeretse. Yesetsani kuyang'anitsitsa mosamala, fufuzani ndi kuziganizira kwambiri:

1. Pewani kuyembekezera - dikirani kuyembekezera kuti adzakhala ndi inu.
2. Musayandikire kwambiri ndi iye, yesetsani kudula onse ocheza naye ngati n'kotheka.

Kodi mungamasule bwanji munthu pamtanda ngati wamwalira?

Mwatsoka, zimakhalanso kuti wokondedwa amatichotsa m'dziko losiyana. Ndipo poyanjanitsa ndi izi, ngakhale kuzindikira kuti imfa, ndizovuta kwambiri. Malangizo a katswiri wa zamaganizo momwe angatulutsire munthu maganizo ake pa nkhaniyi ndi:

1. Pewani kumanong'oneza bondo - simungasinthe kanthu, koma ichi si chifukwa chozunzira.
2. Kuwotcha ndi kuvomereza kuti iye kulibenso.
3. Musakhale ndekha kwa nthawi yayitali.
4. Lembani kalata yolekanitsa ndikuisunga.
5. Mangani mapulani a tsogolo - muyenera kuzindikira kuti mudakali nazo.