Atsikana ambiri sangachite bwino kuti aponyera mnyamata, ndipo akuganiza momwe angabwezere. Ngati pali chilakolako chotere - khulupirira ine, palibe chovuta kutero. Komabe, musaiwale kuti muzochitika zambiri chiyanjanocho chibwezeretsedwa ... Koma mutatha kubwezera kwanu, sizingatheke.
Nchiyani chosayenera kuchita?
Poyamba, tidzakambirana zokhazokha zomwe sizidzawathandiza. Ndikoyenera kunena kuti chilakolako chobwezera chokha ndi chochepa komanso choipa, koma nthawi zina izi ndizo njira yokhayo yothetsera moyo wanu wopanduka. Mulimonsemo, yesetsani kuchita zinthu zotsatirazi:
- Bwererani kuti mubwezere. Nthawi zina zimakhala zosavuta kubwerera, ndipo mumakhala nthawi yambiri ndi khama pazinthu izi, ndipo mukakondwera kuchoka, mumusiya, angokuganizirani kuti ndinu wopusa wopusa yemwe sadziwa chimene akufuna. Ndipo malingaliro anu adzakhala ovuta - simuli robot. Kotero njira iyi imakanidwa mwamsanga.
- Kusakaza katundu. Ngati mutadula suti yake yamtengo wapatali, lembani galimoto yake kapena musiye chinachake kuchokera kumagetsi ake, ndipo akhoza kutsimikizira, mutha kukhala ndi mlandu pamaso pa lamulo. Maganizo ndi malingaliro, ndipo ndalama ndi ndalama. Kubwezera kotereku kudzatuluka wokondedwa kwambiri kwa inu, ndipo ndibwino kuti musayese mwayi.
- Kubwezera, kufuna ndalama. Ena amakhumudwitsa akazi samatsamira ngakhale polamula chikwangwani cholengeza ndi zosavomerezeka ndi zojambulazo. Kotero iwe umangosonyeza kusowa kwanu, kunyaditsidwa ndi mkwiyo, zomwe mwachiwonekere sizikuchitira iwe zabwino. Mwinamwake, iwo sadzamuseka iye, koma pamwamba panu.
- Kubwezera, zomwe zingakhale zovuta kwa inu. Amayi ambiri, akuganiza zobwezeretsa mwamuna wawo wakale, amasankha kukhala wokondedwa kwambiri ndikumuuza kuti ali ndi diso kwa wokondedwayo. Komabe, ngati simukumva kanthu kwa munthu uyu, ngakhale kwa iye, kapena kwa inu, maubwenzi awa sangapereke kanthu, ndipo sikoyenera kuti wanu wakale athe kuziwona. Musaiwale kuti ngati ubale wanu unali woipa ndipo anasiya chifukwa cha moyo wosavutikezeka ndi inu, ndikukuonani mofulumira kwambiri, angokuitanani kuti mumve mawu amodzi ogwira mtima omwe amalankhula za akazi okhwima ndi osangalala , kuti iye ali ndi inu.
- Lowani mu moyo wake womwewo. Azimayi ena omwe ali ndi cholinga chovulaza kale ankayamba kuphika chilakolako chake. Komabe, nthawi zambiri, palibe amene amasamala za izi, ndipo yekhayo amene amabwezera amavutika.
Chinthu chachikulu pakusankhira kwanu ndi khalidwe losavuta. Ndipo chofunika kwambiri - musabwezere choipa pa munthu amene mumamverera kuti amuthandize kuti ayambe kukondana. Pambuyo pake, mkuntho wakumverera udzatha, koma kubwezera kwanu sikungatheke kuiwalika.
Kodi mungabwezere chotani?
Pali njira zambiri zobwezera munthu mosavuta komanso popanda malipiro apadera. Chinthu chachikulu - chikhumbo chanu ndi luntha!
- Ngati wakale wapita, ndipo mukudziwa kuti ali naye tsopano, mukhoza kuwachititsa madzulo osakumbukika. Limbikitsani kupereka pizza, sushi, mankhwala - pafupifupi chirichonse - ndipo perekani dongosolo la adilesi yake. Momwemo, mukufunikira kukonzekera chirichonse mwa njira yoti opulumutsi abwere kamodzi pa theka la ora. Kuti asawoneke pamaso pa mayi watsopano ngati wopemphapempha, amatha kugulanso katundu woyamba, koma pamapeto pake zimam'bweretsa kumbuyo kwenikweni!
- Ngati mutakhala pamodzi, ndipo chifukwa cha kunyoza kwanu ndi kofunika kwambiri, mungathe kupirira moyo wake. Mkazi wina wodalirika anaika nsomba yaiwisi pa chimanga cha nsalu - ndipo sanapezeketse kwa nthawi yayitali pamene iye anaphulika ndi kuchotsa zonunkhira zodabwitsa za nsomba zovunda.
- Ndi chiyani chinanso chofunika kwa mwamuna? Galimoto yake! Chipulo chofanana ndi fungo loopsya chikhoza kutembenuzidwira ndi mmenemo, kuponyera nsomba pansi pa mpando.
Musaiwale kuti kuonongeka kwa katundu kungakuvulazeni, osati iye, kotero musasiye lingaliro la kusiya mpweya wake kapena kutsanulira shuga muchitsime cha mpweya.