Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti kukhulupirirana pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi ndi maziko a ubwenzi wautali ndi wachimwemwe, pamene mudziwa kuti wokondedwa adzakuthandizira pa zovuta; pamene angakhoze kunena za kukayika kwake kwakukulu, kutsimikiza kuti adzamasulira molondola mavumbulutso anu ndi kupereka malangizo abwino. Tsoka, moyo kawirikawiri umapanga zodabwitsa zosasangalatsa, ndipo iwe ukuzindikira kuti yemwe iwe watsegula moyo wako dzulo, lero iwe mosadzichepetsa waperekedwa.
Kutaya chikhulupiriro ndilosavuta, ndikovuta kubwezeretsa, ndipo ngati moyo wavulala, n'zovuta kumvetsa momwe mungaphunzirire kudalira mwamuna, kotero malangizo a katswiri wa zamaganizo, pa nkhaniyi, sangakhale oposera.
Momwe mungaphunzirire kudalira mwamuna - uphungu wa katswiri wa zamaganizo
- Kulimbana ndi wokondedwa wanu sikumakhala kovuta, koma ngati muli pachibwenzi, yesetsani kulankhula momasuka naye, osakondwa, onyoza ndi zotsutsa.
- Ngati mbali zonsezo zili zokonzeka kumvetserana, yesetsani kufotokoza chifukwa chake palibe munthu amene ali pafupi ndi inu.
- Pokambirana, musaganize zomwe gulu lina linanena, musapange chinachake chimene, mwinamwake, sichoncho.
- Yesetsani kumvetsetsa zolinga zachithunzichi, zomwe zinachititsa kuti mutaya chikhulupiriro, kuti mupeze zifukwa zomwe zinayambira pomwepo.
- Kumbukirani, ngati munapereka mwayi kwa munthu wokondedwayo atayamba kuchokera kwa inu chinachake choti mubisale: kunyalanyaza kwambiri, kukwiya kosalekeza kumayambitsa khalidwe lotere la munthuyo.
- Ngati chikhulupilirocho chitayika kale, chikhoza kubwezeretsedwa kokha ndi kuyesetsa kwa mbali zonse ziwiri, pokhala ndikudandaula ndi kutsutsana. Ndipo ngati mukufuna kudziwa momwe mungaphunzirire kudalira okondedwa anu, gwiritsani ntchito malangizo a katswiri wa zamaganizo omwe, mwinamwake, angakuthandizeni osati kupeza kokha njira yothetsera zovuta, komanso kubwezeretsanso chidaliro ndi chimwemwe.