Chaka chilichonse cha ukwatiwo chimakhala ndi dzina lake lodabwitsa, lomwe silinawonekere mwangozi. Ndi zaka makumi asanu ndi zitatu zokha za moyo wothandizira womwe umatchedwa ukwati wa oak, chifukwa thundu limasonyeza mphamvu ndi moyo wautali. Kotero banja lomwe liri ndi zoterezi lapeza ubale wamphamvu, "oak", woyesedwa ndi chisangalalo ndi chisoni chazaka zambiri.
Moyo wothandizana ndi okwatirana umakula kwambiri chaka chilichonse, motero kuchokera ku maina a tsiku lokwatirana amatha kumvetsa kaya ndi banja lolimba kapena mgwirizano womwe ukupeza mphamvu. Sizowonjezera kuti tsiku loyamba la moyo wogwirizana ndi maina a thonje, gauze, ukwati wa pepala. Ubale m'mabanja omwe ali ndi zochepa zokhala pamodzi ndi ofooka, okwatirana akukumana ndi mavuto ambiri, kuyang'ana, kugwiritsa ntchito zizoloŵezi za hafu yawo ndipo si onse omwe ali ndi mphamvu ndi chipiriro kuti ayende limodzi ndi osankhidwawo. Choncho, mgwirizanowu umangowang'amba mosavuta monga pepala kapena pepala.
Pa tsiku la ukwati wa oak, mwamuna ndi mkazi amamvetsetsana pang'onopang'ono, amadziwa kuti theka lachiwiri lidzamvetsetsa ndi kuthandizira nthawi zonse. Mgwirizanowu wa anthuwa wakula kwambiri kotero kuti iwo athe kulimbana ndi mavuto ndi kugonjetsedwa kulikonse ngati mtengo wamtengo wautali, ndipo nkovuta kuthetsa banja lawo.
Kufufuza zaka zingapo okwatirana omwe amakondwerera ukwati wamtengo wa thundu angaganize kuti ali ndi banja lalikulu ndipo ali ndi mwana wofanana ndi mtengo waukulu wa oak. Ndipotu, kwa zaka 80 ndikukhala pamodzi, ndithudi, banjali adakhala agogo ndi agogo-aakazi, ndipo mwina ali ndi zidzukulu zazikulu.
Ukwati wamtengo wa thundu umakondweretsedwa ndi ziwindi zautali, ndi anthu omwe ali anzeru odziwa zambiri, omwe achita zambiri m'moyo wawo, ndipo phindu lawo ndilo banja. Mphatso yabwino kwambiri kwa iwo idzakhala ya banja lonse kuti ibwere palimodzi, izi ndizochitika zachilendo ngati pali mibadwo 4-5, chifukwa ngati ana kapena adzukulu apita ku mizinda ndi mayiko osiyanasiyana, zidzukulu zambiri zingakumane koyamba.
Pamene iwo amakondwerera ukwati wa thundu?
Ukwati wa thundu umakondwerera pazaka makumi asanu ndi zitatu zokha za moyo wokhudzana, kotero "okwatirana" ali kale pafupi zaka zana. Amuna ambiri amakhala ndi zaka ngati zimenezi, choncho chochitika chachikuluchi chimakhala chosangalatsa kwambiri.
Chifukwa cholemekezeka zaka za okwatirana ndi ana awo, ndi bwino kukonza phwando lachisangalalo, koma phwando lokondweretsa kwambiri ndi banja. Inde, wachibale wake sadzafika khumi ndi awiri, choncho ndikofunikira kukonzekera malo a phwando pasadakhale.
Pa chikondwerero cha ukwatiwu, ndibwino kupereka mafano opangidwa ndi mitengo yopangidwa ndi manja kapena makoswe a mtengo waukulu, oak rosary. Mphatso yapachiyambi idzakhala yopangidwa ndi mwambo, momwe wojambulayo akuwonetsera banja lachinyamata pansi pa mtengo wa thundu, ndipo nkhope ndi zithunzi zidzatengedwa kuchokera ku zithunzi zomwe zasungidwa kuchokera kuukwati wa achinyamata.
Mphatso yamtengo wapatali idzakhala mtengo wamtunduwu , womwe sungapangidwe mwamsabata umodzi. Kwa mamembala ena a m'banja, nkhani zochititsa chidwi zidzauzidwa ndi chisangalalo, koma angaphunzire zambiri za mbadwo wachinyumba kuchokera kwa zidzukulu kapena zidzukulu.
Chinthu chokondweretsa ndicho kudzala thundu lero, zomwe zidzasonyeze moyo wautali ndi mphamvu za mgwirizano, ndipo zidzakhala chitsanzo kwa mibadwo ina. Mtengo ukhoza kubzalidwa m'munda kapena, mogwirizana ndi akuluakulu a boma, mu paki yamzinda. Ukwati wa Oak ndi chinthu chosowa kwambiri, ndipo mumzinda wawung'ono, banja lomwe lakhala likukondwerera tsikuli limayamikiridwa ndi a meya ndi anthu a m'matawuni, choncho ndi bwino kudzala mtengo wa thundu mumunda wa mzindawo.
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