Maukwati osakondana

Pambuyo pathukukhala ndi mwayi woyenda padziko lonse lapansi, ndipo malire adatseguka kwa alendo akunja, maukwati pakati pa nthumwi za mitundu yosiyanasiyana akukhala otchuka kwambiri.

Mawerengero a maukwati a interethnic amasonyeza kuti akazi amalowa mwa iwo kawiri kawiri monga amuna, ndi kuti chiwerengero chawo chikukula mofulumira. Ngakhale izi zili choncho, malingaliro okwatirana osakwatirana ndi osamala, amachititsa mantha ambiri komanso kutsutsidwa kwa ena. Tiyeni tiyesetse kuona ngati mabanja okondwa ndi alendo ndi otheka, ndipo adziŵe zomwe zikuluzikulu za kulembedwa kwawo.

Mbali za kukwatirana

Chofunika kwambiri ndikuti ukwati wa mitundu yosiyana ndi, choyamba, mgwirizano wa zikhalidwe ziwiri zosiyana. Anthu awa analeredwa mmkhalidwe wosiyana, ali ndi zizolowezi zosiyana, malingaliro pa moyo ndi malingaliro ku mbali zofunika pa moyo. Mwachitsanzo, ndi omwe akuyimira chikhalidwe cha ku Ulaya chilankhulidwe chofala si chovuta kupeza, koma oimira anthu akummawa, akumwera ndi kumpoto amasiyanitsa kwambiri. Ndipo mitundu ina yakale poyamba inaletsa ana kulemekeza mtundu wawo.

Kulowa m'banja lamtundu wapadziko lonse, kumbukirani kuti mudzayenera kuyang'anizana ndi dziko losiyana, osati nthawi zonse. M'banja mwanu simungagwirizanitse malingaliro pa ulimi, kulera ana, malingaliro kwa achibale, maholide, ndi zina zotero. Choncho konzekerani zodabwitsa zosiyana siyana ndi kusamvana nthawi zonse: kuleza mtima, kumvetsa komanso chikondi kumathandiza kuthetsa mkangano uliwonse. Ngati okwatirana amakhala m'mayiko osiyanasiyana, ndiye kuti, kulembedwa kwa ukwati ndi mlendo kumangotanthawuza kusamutsidwa kwa mmodzi wa iwo. Kenako adzayang'anizana ndi chikhalidwe chokhala nzika, zosiyana kwambiri ndi moyo, malingaliro osiyana ndi mwina, kuti athetse chilankhulo cha chinenero.

Kodi mungakonzekere bwanji ukwati ndi mlendo?

Ndikofunika kulembetsa ukwati ndi mlendo m'dziko limene mukukhalako pambuyo pake, chifukwa ukwati wotsatidwa malinga ndi malamulo a boma limodzi siwunthawikidwe nthawi zonse.

Kuti mumvetsetse momwe mungapangire ukwati ndi mlendo kuti musayambe kukayikira m'dziko lililonse lapansi, werengani mosamala malamulowa ndi kusonkhanitsa zofunikira zonse. Chonde dziwani kuti iwo ayenera kumasuliridwa m'chinenero cha dziko limene mudzalembetse ukwatiwo ndipo mwalamulo. Mndandanda wa zolemba zofunikira zimasiyana m'maiko osiyanasiyana, koma ndithudi mufunikira pasipoti, kalata yobereka, kalata yothetsera kulemba ndi kalata yothetsera ngati mutakhala membala.

Khalani osamala kwambiri ngati mukufuna kulembetsa ukwati kunja, makamaka m'mayiko ovuta malamulo okhudza alendo. Apeze ngakhale ngakhale visa yokacheza ndi mkazi wosakwatira ndi yovuta. Kuwonjezera apo, ngati mupita ku tchuthi, ndipo mwadzidzidzi mudzakwatirana, kenaka pangani njira yopezera nzika ndikudzipeputsa phindu. Choncho, kuti mufike kumadera awo muyenera kutsatira mosamala malamulo onse, makamaka, pa zomwe amatchedwa mkwatibwi visa, zomwe zimapangidwira pa pempho la mkwati.

Motero, maukwati osakondana, zochitikazo ndi zosawerengeka. Koma palibe kukayikira kuti mgwirizano m'banja sichidalira mtundu wa okwatirana, koma moona mtima ndi mwachikondi mu chiyanjano, kulemekezana, kukhulupilira ndi zigawo zina zofunikira za ubale weniweni.