Kumbukirani wophunzirayo, Komsomol ndipo, potsiriza, wokongola basi, heroine wa filimuyo "Akapolo a ku Caucasus"? Ndi chifukwa chakuti anali ndi mwayi, kukwatira mokakamizidwa, popanda chilolezo komanso opanda chikondi. Koma mwayi anali wokongola, anapulumutsa Shurik wake wolimba mtima, osati osati ... Ngakhale, ndi chiyani chomwe chingachitike? Ayenera kuti akwatiwe, ndipo pakapita kanthawi amakaimbidwa milandu kukhoti, kotero iwo amati, ndipo motero, podalira chochitika ichi chinachitika, chiyenera kukonzedwa ...
Moyo - chinthu chosayembekezeka, ndikwati - nkomwe. Winawake akukwatirana chifukwa cha chikondi, wina mwa kuwerengera, ndipo wina adanyengedwa, amakakamizidwa, nati: "Zinatero!". Kutsiriza, ndithudi, nthabwala.
Koma choyenera kuchita ngati wina wa okwatirana akufunabe kuzindikira kuti ukwatiwo ndi wosayenera, tiyeni tiwone. Choyamba, ndondomeko yodziwa chosowa ndi yosiyana kwambiri ndi kutha kwa chikwati (chisudzulo). Ngakhale kuti zonsezi zikugwiritsidwa ntchito m'khothi, ndondomeko yoweruza milandu ndi zotsatira zaukwati, kapena kuti, "kusiyana" kwake, zidzakhala zosiyana. Chachiwiri, n'zosavuta kuti munthu asudzulane ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi kusiyana ndi kupeza umboni wofunika wosonyeza kuti sakukwatirana. Lembani kalata yonena kuti, musaiwale za msonkho wa boma komanso ndalama zomwe mumapereka kwa woweruza milandu yokhudza banja, popanda, .
Musanayambe ndondomekoyi, nkofunika kudzipangira nokha ngati mukufuna izi, komanso ngati zingakhale zabwino kwa inu. Ndipo m'pofunika kuti mudziwe momwe mungazindikire kuti ukwatiwo ndi wosayenera.
Ndipo pazimenezo, maziko ake?
Ngati mudasankha pa sitepe iyi, ndiye kuti zifukwa zoyenera kuti muzindikire ukwati ndizosafunikira. Pali zikhalidwe zina, zomwe zimakakamizidwa pa nthawi ya ukwati. Kuzindikira kuti palibenso kanthu kumaperekedwa ndi chigamulo cha khoti ngati zinthu zikanasokonezedwa.
Makhalidwe oti azindikire ukwati ngati osayenera akhoza kukhala motere:
- kukakamizidwa ukwati. Mkwatilo unalowa, koma panapezeka kuti panalibe kuvomereza kuvomereza kukwatira, mwachiwonekere, mdierekezi anatenga;
- ukwati, kumene mwamuna wamwamuna wamng'onoyo sanakhale nawo / anali ndi chilolezo cha boma;
- ngati munthuyo / anthu ali kale muukwati wina wobvomerezeka. Ndikhoza kunena chiyani, mwinamwake, za banja lawo loyambirira kapena kulawa kumene kunalowa;
- ukwati pakati pa achibale;
- ukwati pakati pa anthu omwe ali mu chiyanjano cha munthu wovomerezeka ndi wolandira;
- kukwatirana ndi nzika yosadziŵa bwino amene chidziŵitso chake sichidziwika ndi khoti;
- kukwatirana ndi munthu amene ali ndi matenda monga matenda a HIV kapena matenda opatsirana pogonana komanso amene wasiya munthu wina mfundo iyi;
- ukwati wonyenga, kumene munthu / anthu okwatirana popanda cholinga cholenga banja. Mwinamwake chitetezo chofunikira mwamsanga kapena china chake, icho chasankhidwa kuthandizira bwenzi ...
Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kukumbukira kuti simungathe kuzindikira ukwati wanu ngati zosayenera za zolinga zamakampani. Lamuloli likufuna kuthetsa mayesero amenewa. Izi ndizolangidwa ndipo sungapitiridwe. Inde, ngati mukufunadi, yesani-musamazunze, mutenge mwayi. Koma musati munenepo kuti simunachenjezedwe ...
Kuphatikizidwa
Ukwati umaonedwa kuti ulibe kanthu ndipo mavuto onse a ndondomekoyi atopa kale, ndi nthawi yoganizira zotsatira zake. Mosakayika, pambali pa kuwonongeka kwamanjenje ndi zowonongeka mbale, padzakhala zina zotsatira za kuzindikira banjalo. Tiyeni tione zotsatira zake kuchokera ku machitidwe alamulo:
- Choyamba, ufulu wonse ndi maudindo omwe amachititsidwa ndi banja losavomerezeka sakhalapo, ndipo zatsopano, zomwe zimayambitsidwa ndi kuthetsa chibwenzi choterocho, sizimawuka;
- Chachiwiri, kusalephera kwa ukwati sikukhudza ufulu wa ana obadwa m'banja, zotsatira za izi zikhonza kukhala ndi udindo wokonza zinthu ndi alimony;
- Chachitatu, kugawidwa kwa malo a okwatirana pakuzindikira kuti ukwati sikokwanira ayi kusiyana ndi chibwenzi. Malowa adzawonekeratu ngati ofanana. Ndi funso limeneli muyenera kumvetsa nthawi yaitali komanso mowawa. Kuphatikiza apo, popanda loya wabwino, mwachiwonekere chosowa ...
Pano pali, kamphindi koyembekezeredwa pamene banja lanu lichotsedweratu. Pambuyo pa khotilo mutapeza kuti siloyenera, mukhoza kupuma mwamtendere. Ndipo kenako, polemba zikalata zilizonse, pamutu wakuti "chikwati cha banja", mungathe kusonyeza kuti simunakwatirane. Ndi zomwe tikukuthokozani. Ndipo nchiyani, kodi inu simunafune izi?