Mukawona kuti muli ndi vuto mu ubale wanu, musawope, chifukwa palibe moyo wa banja wopanda mavuto, mabanja onse akudutsamo. M'banja, pangakhale kukangana mu ubale nthawi ndi nthawi, ndikofunika kuti nthawi yomweyo yesetsani kusintha zinthu kuti musapewe mavuto. Zoonadi, ubale wokhalitsa ukhoza kupindula pokhapokha mutagwira nawo ntchito komanso mavuto omwe amabwera nawo. Pali njira zingapo zopulumutsira ukwati ndikukhazikitsa maubwenzi.
Mmene mungapulumutsire ukwati, njira:
- Jokes ndi chida chabwino kwambiri cha momwe angapulumutsire ukwati. Musakakamize moyo, musati mutenge zinthu zonse mozama. Tengerani zochitika zabwino, mubweretseni chisangalalo ku ubale wanu - izi zidzathetsa mikangano pakati pa inu, ndipo moyo udzakhala wosangalatsa kwambiri.
- Gawani nthawi, muwononge, zomwe zingakhale nonse awiri. Mumupereke ku kuyenda koyenderana, kapena ku chinthu chosangalatsa kwa onse awiri.
- Mukufuna kudziwa momwe mungasunge ubale - pewani mikangano. Kuchita izi, pokambirana, kudutsa nkhani zomwe mumatsutsana nazo, monga lamulo, izi ndizo mndandanda wa ndale, achibale, chipembedzo, okonda kale, kumasulidwa.
- Kumbukirani chiyambi cha ubale wanu. Pitani kumalo a misonkhano yanu yoyamba, ganizirani zomwe zasintha kuyambira nthawi imeneyo, mwinamwake kukondana kapena kulemekeza kwatha - ichi ndi yankho la momwe mungapulumutsire ukwati ndi chisudzulo.
- Kumvetsetsani ndikukhululukira mnzanuyo. Kuchokera ku zolakwa, palibe yemwe amatetezedwa, choncho phunzirani kukhululukira, kulola munthu kuti akonze. Kumbukirani kuti mu mkangano, kaŵirikawiri amadziimba mlandu.
- Gwiritsani ntchito kukhudzana. Chifundo, chikondi chikhoza kudziwonetsera ndi osiyana osiyanasiyana kupatula kugonana. Kotero mumasonyeza wokondedwa wanu yemwe mumamukonda ndikufuna kumusamalira.
- Siyani malo kwa mnzanuyo. Nthawi zina amalekerera wina ndi mnzake "ku ufulu", ngakhale madzulo amodzi - munthu aliyense amafunika malo akeawo.
- Funso lodziwika kawirikawiri m'banja limene maukwati a pakati pawo amayamba kuonongeka - "Kodi maubwenzi angapulumutsidwe?" - mukhoza, kusintha tsiku ndi tsiku. Sintha miyambo ya banja lanu, perekani popanda nthawi
mphatso, perekani maganizo atsopano ndikudabwa wina ndi mzake. - Ganizirani za malo anu mumzinda. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti sanali kudziwika kwa ena, ndipo sanasankhenso ndi awiri. Pali nthawi yabwino yopatula nthawi yokha, kukonzekera kukondana kwawo.
- Osasokoneza kulankhulana wina ndi mzake. Pitirizani kulankhulana momasuka, phunzirani kumva ndi kumvetsera.
Ngakhale mutayesa njira zonse zomwe mukufuna, musataye mtima. Ufulu wa chiyanjano chokondweretsa uyenera kulandira. Choncho, ndikofunikira kugwira ntchito mwakhama pa ubale.