Amzanga ndi anthu omwe amakhulupirira wina ndi mzake ndipo ali okonzeka kuchita zinthu zosasangalatsa. Amathandizira pa zovuta ndipo amathandizidwa. Pakati pawo, kawirikawiri, pamakhala chifundo, kuwona mtima ndi kulemekeza. Monga lamulo, pamtima pa ubwenzi ndizofunikanso zofuna. Kawirikawiri, ubale umakhalapo pakutha kwa mavuto.
Zimakhala bwino ngati pali anzathu omwe angakhale odalirika ndikukambirana za chirichonse. Tonsefe timafuna kulankhulana, koma mwatsoka, mdziko lamakono zinthu zoterezi zimalengedwa kuti zimakhala zovuta kupeza mabwenzi, ndipo mabwenzi akale amasiya kukhala olimba ndi kutaya nthawi. Wina alibe ubale ndi anthu omwe ali pafupi naye, ndipo wina sangathe kupeza mabwenzi chifukwa cha ntchito yawo.
Nazi malingaliro a momwe mungapezere mabwenzi.
Kodi mungapeze bwanji anzanu atsopano?
Mabwenzi atsopano ndi malingaliro atsopano, malingaliro atsopano ndi masewero atsopano. Zopindulitsa zambiri, koma kufufuza kwa abwenzi kawirikawiri kumabweretsa zotsatira zoyenera, chifukwa ubwenzi sumvera malamulo omveka. Koma ngati mukufuna kuti mupeze anzanu, ndiye kuti mukhale otsika kwambiri. Ndipo cholinga chanu choyamba ndi kuyankhulana. Kufunafuna anzanu ndi malo omwe anthu akugwirizanitsa nawo, mwachitsanzo: timu ya timagulu, timu ya zamagetsi kapena disco. Kambiranani ndi anthu omwe amakukondani ndikukhala limodzi palimodzi. Kawirikawiri mutatha kuyankhulana ndi munthu, mumamvetsetsa kuti mumakondwera naye. Ndipo posakhalitsa mumasankha ngati mukufuna kukhala ndi bwenzi lanu.
Chitani zonse zomwe mungathe kuti mupeze anzanu ndi kukhala anzanu nokha, ndiye kuti khama lanu lidzakhala lopambana!
Kodi mungapeze bwanji anzanu enieni?
Mwachidziwitso, ubwenzi weniweni suuka, umayenera kukhazikitsidwa ndi kusungidwa ndalama. Kotero, inu nokha muyenera kukhala bwenzi lenileni ndipo mosakayika, anthu omwewo adzakukondani.
Komabe, kuti mukhazikitse ubwenzi wapamtima wachikazi kapena ubwenzi ndi mwamuna, sikoyenera kuyang'ana anzanu pakati pa alendo. Ngati muli ndi abwenzi, ndibwino kulimbitsa ndi kulimbitsa ubwenzi wanu, kukhala mabwenzi apamtima kwa wina ndi mnzake. Anzanu akale odzipereka ndi mphatso yapadera, ndipo amayenera kuyamikiridwa ndi kuyamikiridwa ndi iwo.
Mwa njira, kuti mukhale ndi abwenzi enieni, sikokwanira kungofuna, muyenera kuyesetsa mwakhama.
Choyamba, muyenera kuphunzira kumvetsa munthu, ngakhale kuti mungakhale ndi malingaliro osiyana mu chinachake. Ndiponso akhoza kusangalala chifukwa cha iye moona mtima, izi ndi zofunika kwambiri. Kuonjezera apo, muyenera kukhala ololera, ngakhale ngati munthuyu sakukuchitirani bwino. Koma kumbukirani, kukondweretsa sikuyenera kukhala njira yogwiritsira ntchito.
Mnzanu weniweni sali wolakwa, koma yemwe amadziwa kukhululukira.