Kusokoneza Maganizo

Mphamvu pa munthu sizingakhale zokhudzana ndi thupi, komanso maganizo. Limbikirani kuzindikira kwake, kumverera, kugwiritsira ntchito ndikupanga maganizo. Kwenikweni, ichi ndi chiwonongeko cha mumtima mwa munthu.

Kuchokera ku chiyani ndipo chifukwa chiyani?

Kodi ndi yani yothandiza kupangitsa anthu motere? Monga lamulo, osadziŵa bwino, anthu osaphunzira omwe ali ndi zolinga zina. Mmalo mwa zowona, iwo "amaumirira" pa kumverera. Pogwiritsa ntchito mphatso ya "kusewera" pamalingaliro, amachititsa mantha, kupsa mtima, chifundo, motero kumayambitsa munthu kuchita zinthu zina zomwe zimapindulitsa kwa iwo. Anthu awa ndi akatswiri odziwa ntchito. Aliyense akhoza kulowa mu intaneti. Kumalo okonzeka ndi awa:

• anthu okonda kwambiri;
• omwe adakumana ndi kupanikizika kwambiri (kutaya wokondedwa, matenda aakulu);
• opusa ndi anthu osamvera;
• osakwanira anthu omwe akuvutika, mwachitsanzo, matenda a maganizo;
• ana ndi achinyamata.

Zimakhala zoopsa kwambiri pamene mmodzi mwa okwatirana m'banja amalowerera njira iyi yokopa anthu a m'banja. Mchiyanjano ndi theka lake lachiwiri, wogwiritsira ntchito mankhwalawa akhoza kukhala maso ake mwa woopsa ndi wotsutsa, omwe amachititsa kuti mitsempha yambiri ikhale yovuta. Chilengedwe chimene chimakhala m'banja chotero chimachoka kwambiri.

Pokhala ndi maganizo okhudza ana awo, makolo ayenera kukumbukira kuti zonse zili bwino. Musati "perekani ndodo" ndipo mulimonsemo simumasewera pa mantha a ana. Maphunziro oterewa m'tsogolo adzakhudza psyche ya mwanayo.

Kudziletsa

Ndikofunika kudziwa zomwe mungateteze kuchokera. Zomwe zimakhudza munthu, zimamupangitsa kuti asamangokhalira kuganiza bwino, kumapweteketsa komanso kumayambitsa maganizo. Imodzi mwa njira zofala kwambiri zoterezi ndizowonongeka mwaumunthu. Zimaphatikizidwa ndi chidziwitso cha munthu, cholinga chake chimamuchotsera mwayi woganiza moyenera. Kulankhula kofulumira, zovuta kulankhula, mawu, interlocutor amachita zonse zomwe munthuyo alibe nthawi kuti adziwe zomwe zimachitika. Mwina mungakumane ndi khalidwe lotero, mwachitsanzo, pamsika. Kumeneko, otsutsa ogulitsa mabuku ena kapena masaya amatha kukulimbikitsani kuti mugule kwa iwo "katundu" wamtengo wapatali, pogwiritsa ntchito njira zonse: kuchokera poyamikirika kuopseza. Musamvetsere zachabechabe izi ndipo yang'anani thumba lanu.

Tsopano ku funso la momwe mungadzitetezere ku vuto la maganizo. Ngati mumamva bwino mukamachita ndi munthu, muzimva kupanikizika, mantha ndi nkhawa - mwamsanga ndipo pansi pa lingaliro lililonse musachoke naye. Ngati simungathe kuyankha ndi vuto loyenera, yesetsani kugwiritsa ntchito njira zawo, ndibwino kuti musamalankhulane ndi munthu woteroyo.

Dalirani m'malingaliro anu, musasonyeze kuti mumaganizira kwambiri ndipo nthawi zonse muzikhala odzidalira.