Makhalidwe a chidziwitso cha anthu

Poyang'anizana ndi zochitika zonse zachirengedwe, timapereka chiwerengero, mwinamwake chidziwitso. Pano, ndondomeko ya kudziwitsidwa ikudziwonetsera yokha, popanda izo, sitingathe kudziwa chikhalidwe cha zinthu, koma timadzipangitsa tokha kufotokozera mosavuta zomwe zokhudzira zathu zimaganiziridwa. Poyankhulana ndi anthu, ndondomeko yodziwitsidwa kwa chikhalidwe cha anthu, yomwe ili ndi zidziwikiritso zake zomwe sizikugwiranso ntchito kwa mitundu ina, imaphatikizidwanso.

Kodi ndi zizindikiro zotani zomwe zimagwirizanitsa zokhudzana ndi chikhalidwe?

Funso ili ndi lovuta, chifukwa malo a munthu m'mayiko oyandikana nawo ndi malingaliro ake ogwirizana akhala aatali kwambiri. Afilosofi a Kummawa, China, Ancient Greece adagonjetsa funsoli, akatswiri achifilosofi a ku Ulaya anapitirizabe ntchito za kale, koma sayansi yamakono inachititsa kuti vuto laumunthu likhale lopanda phindu. Pachifukwachi, funso likhoza kuwukanso, chifukwa chiyani malingaliro abwino kwambiri a anthu sangakwanitse kufalitsa zonse pa alumali? Mfundo izi ndizo zenizeni zodziwika bwino za chikhalidwe cha anthu, zomwe zimavuta kwambiri kufotokozera ndondomekoyi ndi ndondomeko ya njira zomwe amagwiritsa ntchito. Kuonjezera apo, sitiyenera kuiwala za kusintha kwanthawi zonse kwa anthu, kutsegula mapulaneti atsopano, omwe sitingathe kuwatsogolera. Panthawiyi, yongolerani mbali zitatu zazikulu zomwe zimapezeka m'mabuku amakono.

1. Choyamba, kuvuta kwa njirayi pakufunika kulingalira zinthu monga chifuniro, zofuna, zolinga ndi zolinga za zochita za anthu. Koma izi zowonjezera kale zimakhala zovuta kwambiri, sitidziwa nthawi zonse zolinga zathu, zomwe tinganene ponena za anthu ena. Kuti timvetse bwino zolinga za munthu, m'pofunika kukumbukira kuti chirichonse chozungulira ife ndi zotsatira za ntchito zathu (thupi kapena maganizo). Momwe chinthu kapena chodabwitsa chikuwonekera sichidziwitsidwa mochuluka ndi momwe zimakhalira, monga momwe timayendera. Ndipo kulingalira kwa chochitika kumadalira kukula kwa munthu amene amawunika. Choncho, kumvetsetsa munthu wina, kufufuza dziko la mkati la nkhaniyo, sikutheka popanda mabuku, maganizo ndi luso.
2. Chinthu chinanso chodziwika bwino ndi mbiri yake. Munthu aliyense kuyambira pachiyambi amakhudza anthu, kuvomereza kapena kukana miyambo ndi chikhalidwe chomwe amavomereza. Tikhoza kunena kuti chidziwitso ndi kukonzanso mbiri, chidziwitso chomwe anthu adapeza. Koma pano pali zovuta, mbiri yonse ya mbiri yakale silingagwirizane ndi chidziwitso chimodzi chaumunthu, kotero, kumveka kwathunthu kwadzidzidzi padziko lapansi sikuli ndi aliyense. Munthu nthawi zonse amalandira deta yatsopano, kubwezeretsanso zochitika zina, amapeza nthawi ndi mfundo zatsopano. Choncho, njira yovomerezeka ndi yopanda malire. Komanso nkofunikira kuganizira za kufotokozedwa kwa K. Jung za mawonekedwe achikale, okonzeka pa mphindi yoyenera kuti atulukidwe kuchokera ku chidziwitso. Kaŵirikaŵiri zimachitika kuti miyambo ya chikhalidwe imatsutsana ndi zenizeni za moyo, ndiyeno kufufuza kwa osokoneza kumayamba kubweretsa vutoli kwa ozoloŵera chipembedzo.
3. Mbali yachitatu ndikumvetsa ndi kusiyana kwa chikhalidwe cha anthu. Mabingu ndi mphezi ndizofanana ndi zomwe zinali zaka 1000 zapitazo, tikhoza kupeza mfundo zatsopano, ndipo makhalidwe abwino amakhala akusinthidwa. Sitingathe kutanthauzira ndondomeko yeniyeni monga "olemekezeka" ndi "kukoma mtima", zonse zimadalira pachinthu chomwecho.

Tikapeza yankho la funsoli, kodi khalidwe lodziwika pakati pa anthu ndi lotani, likuwonekeratu kuti ndondomekoyi si yosavuta ngati ikuwonekera poyamba. Choncho, zimakhala zovuta kuti tipeze mgwirizano ndi anthu chifukwa cha zopinga zomwe timapanga.