Pa chikhumbo chawo choyankhulana ndi kukhala mdziko, anthu adagawidwa m'magulu akulu awiri: extroverts ndi introverts . Chifukwa cha kusiyana kumeneku ndikumayambitsa kayendedwe ka mantha ndi mphamvu zamagetsi. Kuchulukitsa ndi kulumikiza zokhudzana ndi makhalidwe omwe munthu sangasinthe mwa njira iliyonse, koma akhoza kuthandizidwa pang'ono ndi thandizo la kulera kapena kudziphunzitsa.
Ndani ali wotsutsa?
Akatswiri a zamaganizo, poyankha funsolo, amatenga chidwi chenicheni kufunika kwa mkati mwa munthu pochita zinthu ndi anthu oyandikana nawo. Kuchokera pamalingaliro a psychology, the extrovert ndi munthu wofuna kulankhulana ndi oyanjana osiyanasiyana ndi anthu ena. Ndikofunika kuti iye akhale ndi anthu omwe ali ndi chikhalidwe chake ndi omwe angamuuze zomwe akukumana nazo ndikugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yake. Munthu wotere sangathe kugwira yekha, chifukwa amafunikira kukhalapo kwa anthu ena nthawi zonse. Ndikofunika kuti afunsane ndi wina, akambirane zolinga zake, akambirane zomwe zikuchitika. Komabe, izi sizikutanthauza kuti amafunikira uphungu wa wina kapena sangathe kusankha momwe angakhalire. Pakuti kutchuka sikofunikira chifukwa cha kulankhulana, monga njira yokhayo.
Mu esoteric, pali kusiyana kosiyana kwenikweni kwa zomwe extrovert imatanthauza. Malingana ndi sayansi iyi, munthu amapanga mphamvu kuti akhale ndi moyo kapena pamene akugona, kapena amatenga njira yolankhulana ndi anthu ena. Pa introvert usiku, mphamvu yowonjezera imapangidwira, kotero patsiku sakusowa recharge kuchokera kwa ena. Mawonekedwe amadzimva okha, panthawi ya ntchito komanso nthawi zina. Extroverts, mosiyanitsa ndi zowonjezereka, sizimapereka mphamvu yochuluka yomwe ikufunika pa nthawi ya tulo, kotero zimakonda kuzichotsa kunja. Zikuoneka kuti kuchokera pa lingaliro la esotericism, munthu wotchedwa extrovert ndi munthu amene amapeza mphamvu zambiri zofunikira pokambirana ndi anthu ena.
Kodi mungamvetsetse bwanji - extrovert kapena introvert?
Munthu ndi wochenjera ngati ali ndi makhalidwe otere:
- Amakonda kugwira ntchito mu timu. Ndipo nthawi zina zingawoneke kuti sakudera nkhaŵa kwambiri zomwe zikuchitika kuzungulira. Komabe, chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndi chakuti pali anthu omwe angamuthandize ngati akufuna.
- Amapeza mpata uliwonse kuti alankhule, amalowa mosavuta ndi alendo.
- Amakhala opusa komanso osungulumwa kwa nthawi yaitali.
- Amakonda kuchita pagulu, amakonda maphwando okondwerera, discos, maholide.
- Amakhala otonthoza m'khamulo.
- The extrovert nthawi zonse ali ndi ambiri odziwana.
- Amapeza mphamvu osati kulankhulana bwino, komanso kulankhulana molakwika. Choncho, ikhoza kuthandizana ndi mavuto komanso kuthetsa mavuto.
- Auzeni ena zakuchitikirani.
- Chifukwa cha zomwe zimachitika, munthu akhoza kudziwa momwe akumvera.
- Popeza kuti kudzikuza kwa mkati kumakhala kovuta, ndikofunikira kwa iwo zomwe ena amaganiza za iwo.
Kodi wotsutsa ndi wotsutsa angakhale abwenzi?
Popeza kuti zachilengedwe ndi zachikhalidwe, amatha kupeza chinenero chofanana ndi aliyense, kuphatikizapo introverts. Mitundu iwiriyi ya umunthu ikhoza kukhala ndi chiyanjano chokwanira. Wokondweretsa wokondweretsa adzagawana ndi introven zomwe akumana nazo ndi zochitika zake, ndipo introvert adzasangalala kumva. Komabe, popeza extrovert sitingathe kukhala ndi chiyanjano ndi munthu mmodzi kwa nthawi yaitali, ndipo introvert imayambitsidwa ndi kuyankhulana, kuyanjana kwa nthawi yaitali pakati pawo ndi kosavuta. Ubwenzi pakati pa phokoso ndi introvert ndizotheka pokhapokha ngati atalingalira makhalidwe a wina ndi mzake.